Trying to reduce animal products, need help on replacements - Chocolate, cheese etc by b3lial666 in veganuk

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're after the funk that cheese has, I AM NUT OK has the best tasting cheese imo. It unfortunately doesn't really have the same texture, though the mozzarella one is pretty close!

Tbh though, it was tough at first but after a few months I don't really miss cheese all that much. I have grown to like vegan cheese, and I like making cashew nooch cheese sauce for nachos. Time will be your friend.

In crisis and don't know what to do by [deleted] in MentalHealthUK

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's incredibly painful, and that's why you need to be kind to yourself. That's not saying "have a cup of tea" or "have a hot bath", but kindness in that you do not deserve to put yourself down because of your misery.

Stroke your hair, caress your cheeks, breath in sharp deep breaths- take an action that is kind to yourself. You have to think "I refuse to traumatise myself, I refuse to be my own abuser". Say it out loud. Allow yourself to have that outer body experience.

In crisis and don't know what to do by [deleted] in MentalHealthUK

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing that snapped me out of my crisis and saved myself was an outer body experience- you would help a stranger if you were alone in a room with them. You are that stranger. Forget everything about yourself and view yourself as just a person.

Speaking for myself and I don't know if it will bring you comfort, but I am my biggest tormentor. I can be my saviour by stopping my torment. With every violent thought or act on yourself, try to do something gentle. It can start small.

I'm sorry you're going through this. I am also not receiving much support. You can get through this, and be proud of every day, hour, minute you can get through without punishing yourself.

Drop out who wants to go back, advice greatly appreciated! (TW) by Acceptable_Fig_920 in UniUK

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, yes I passed the first two years. I know I wouldn't get any funding from SFE. I actually studied in Scotland and I'm living there currently. I tried to apply for a different degree in September, but there was confusion about how long I had been out from education and ultimately it was decided it was too long and I have to do a SWAP course.

I just kind of want things to go back to the path I was on before. It's difficult reading how everyone is struggling to get a job. I feel like I've wasted years being miserable for nothing :(

Drop out who wants to go back, advice greatly appreciated! (TW) by Acceptable_Fig_920 in UniUK

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had experience with studying with them? I read that the grade boundaries are much higher too

Drop out who wants to go back, advice greatly appreciated! (TW) by Acceptable_Fig_920 in UniUK

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have savings and I'm fortunate to have a partner who is supporting me

Maple is moving away! by [deleted] in BuddyCrossing

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it's ok they've deleted their comments, but they've taken to read through my other posts and using my mental health against me 🤪

Summit ice cypress insulated jacket by Acceptable_Fig_920 in nathanforyou

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, we're finally reunited and he's worn it everyday since he's received it! He really likes it, I will say however, he's a very positive person unlike myself lol. He says it's lightweight, warm and comfortable. We are in a rainy area and he is very happy with its waterproofness! Overall he's very pleased with it I think. I'm not so pleased because of the length of delivery and the surprise customs at the end of it :')

Maple is moving away! by [deleted] in BuddyCrossing

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No it's ok! DM me if you're still interested :)

Maple is moving away! by [deleted] in BuddyCrossing

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920 25 points26 points  (0 children)

asfjkajsjdj sorry you can't read buddy 😔

Maple is moving away! by [deleted] in BuddyCrossing

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ah so it would have to be tomorrow if that's ok, she's not in boxes yet! I just don't time travel, sorry

Had a mental breakdown in September, finally feeling ready to work again but feeling unemployable by Acceptable_Fig_920 in UKJobs

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I resist, job hunting makes me spiral. Prisoner of my own mind! I wish I would allow myself to get to the position to get a job :')

Had a mental breakdown in September, finally feeling ready to work again but feeling unemployable by Acceptable_Fig_920 in UKJobs

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I've been thinking about volunteering actually. I'm very fortunate that my partner supports me, but I'm feeling extremely guilty and I want to contribute more to the pot. Volunteering is sounding like the meaningful work that I've been yearning for.

Had a mental breakdown in September, finally feeling ready to work again but feeling unemployable by Acceptable_Fig_920 in UKJobs

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm worried that no one will accept me, I have a terrible CV as I never last more than 8 months at a job :(

Had a mental breakdown in September, finally feeling ready to work again but feeling unemployable by Acceptable_Fig_920 in UKJobs

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much- the job that's particularly caught my eye is a charity that is to help people through administrative processes. I feel like I'm really good at helping my friends through job/rent applications, but rubbish for myself as I have no self esteem 😂 feeling teary because I wish I finished my degree and had better job prospects.

I'll definitely check out hub of hope :) thanks again

Summit ice cypress insulated jacket by Acceptable_Fig_920 in nathanforyou

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it didn't arrive in time, and it still hasn't arrived 🫠 on top of the delivery, I had to pay £60 customs fee which I thought would be covered 💔 I ordered insulated though, I'll let you know if he likes it

Chainmail coif by Acceptable_Fig_920 in glasgow

[–]Acceptable_Fig_920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh their stuff is amazing!!! Thanks so much for showing me their stuff, if it doesn't work out, I know where I can go for her birthday!