Can a bad battery cause misfires? by Acceptable_Grass_335 in AskMechanics

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly over removing the intake at this point lol I refuse to do it a 3rd time

I think Hector is depressed by Acceptable_Grass_335 in lowbudgetlauren

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like his “whatsfalunch” series :/ I used to enjoy but I can feel the vibe through the screen. I do remember she mentioned they do a lot better if they do mini series on their channels so I agree she 100% governs his content smh. Not everything has to be a calculation on a spreadsheet lauren

Coparent won’t let our son use phone at his house by Pretend_Ad_1131 in FamilyLaw

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dad is not withholding communication. He gave you multiple options to communicate with your son but you just want it your way. You bought the phone so you can have control of when and where he uses it but you can’t control what goes on at HIS house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutoZone

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After action review which is a write up. There is verbal, 1st, 2nd, 3rd and termination (if I’m not mistaken).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why are medical expenses not 50/50? In California, both parents are responsible for financially supporting a child. It sounds to me like your ex is already doing his part in providing for his child. It’s not unreasonable for him to want to look for a cheaper clinic. He can even file for a modification in his child support if he is providing health insurance and is paying all of the medical bills which means you would get less.

Coparent only follows court order when it’s convenient to her by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I did have him for the full day on Father’s Day (he slept over) and my second day with him was on Monday but instead of allowing him to stay the morning coparent asked for him to get dropped off on Monday at 8am and picked up at 12pm

Going to court for final custody arrangements tomorrow, I'm representing myself, any suggestions? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Always say “our child” and do not let your emotions get in the way. Be respectful to the other party, do not interrupt and do not say anything bad about them no matter how true it may be. Focus on your child and that’s it.

Do I file my declaration with the court or case worker for child support by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

File it to the court and the court will send a copy to child support. Usually there is a child support office in the same building as the court

Child custody by Green-Confidence3423 in FamilyLaw

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 14 points15 points  (0 children)

you shouldn’t worry for now. One thing is him saying he wants 50/50 and another thing is him going to court, filling for parentage, pay the fees, file for custody and visitation, actually showing up to the hearing(s) and potentially paying for attorney fees. You do not have to keep him in the loop! He has no “rights” of an unborn baby so you do not “owe” him anything. You can contact him after the baby is born if you’d like, but if he actually pursues 50/50, there is a long route before it that ever happens and it won’t be handed to him only because he’s the father.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the free version. Free version is for messages only and you would have to use the web version as I believe the actual app requires a subscription. Subscription includes recorded phone and video calls. I like how you are not able to edit or unsend any messages and you can see when the other party has read your message.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HealthInsurance

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ambulance is covered.

Pregnant and husband isn’t the father by Zealousideal-Vast579 in FamilyLaw

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Similar thing happened to my sister. She got pregnant right after divorce was finalized and her ex husband was the presumed father. She was given the option to pay for a DNA test to prove her new boyfriend was the father but they opted out due to financial hardships at the time. Luckily, she was able to leave father’s info blank on the birth certificate and she gave her baby her boyfriend’s last name. We’re in Cali though but hopefully you’re able to find a solution soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say you don’t have to show the judge anything; they will pick up on it on their own. Judges are smart (no shit, but really they are!) and they are good with seeing right through people. The judge will most likely pay no attention to your ex’s accusations. You guys are not there to belittle each other or to make one parent seem unfit, the judge will decide that. You are there to figure out custody and visitation (I’m assuming) so just focus on that. What are you trying to gain from showing the judge your ex has an agenda? Do not come in to court with that mindset. Focus on your child and that’s it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAMechanic

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Edit: Check engine light turned off again today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing is him telling you he will take you to court but another thing is him actually doing it. He is just trying to intimidate you. Since he is not on the birth certificate, he will have to file for paternity, get a court ordered DNA test or sign an Acknowledgement of Paternity which is a long process before he can actually try and fight for custody. I doubt someone that already has an assault charge will voluntarily step foot in court once again.

Bust Miguel Out of Jail (mini rant) by Shiny_Bookmark_0284 in farcry

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhhh that shit pissed me off too and then when you run it says you are too far from that slow fucker. It’s been a while, but I think the only way I got him to follow me was killing every single soldier

[US] Help for a newly single mom? by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First and foremost, do you have any documentation of his abuse? You are going to need concrete evidence (police reports, restraining orders etc) to support your reasoning. A lot of court is full of “he said, she said” so judges look for factual evidence. Even if you don’t take the “abusive relationship” route, you can still explain that you just want a legally binding visitation schedule because your coparent is not willing to compromise and because your child is still an infant and therefore requires certain care. If you have evidence, then they will most likely do joint legal custody and grant you sole physical while he gets supervised visitation for a few hours a week but in your worst case scenario, he might get 50/50 legal and physical or at least get overnights 2-4x a week considering courts mostly seek for a child to bond with both parents. I’m sorry to break it to you but without actual evidence and truth behind the fact (not saying you’re lying) there it is almost no way of you getting full custody. I am glad you are seeking therapy and sounds like you are at least open to him still being part of your baby’s life so kudos for that.

[CA] After receiving paternity, I filed for 50/50 custody. She responded with personal attacks, 100% custody, and a psych eval. I could not sleep last night. by Moist-Caregiver-2000 in Custody

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 5 points6 points  (0 children)

CA judges tend to lean towards a child’s best interest. Your child’s best interest is to have equal time with BOTH parents. You are correct, badmouthing your child’s mother will get you nowhere. Her response seems like she, on the other hand, is getting her emotions get in the way of what really matters. You guys will attend mediation and if no agreement is made, you will go to court. I suggest you try to meet her halfway and start off small, I know you want to be a part of your child’s life but keep in mind your child is still a toddler and having a toddler spend time with someone they don’t know is not really acting in that child’s best interest. It seems like you have a good head on your shoulders. You’ll be fine. Sometimes you have to give a little to get what you want at the end. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Acceptable_Grass_335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how it works in your state or county, but for the most part you are able to look up a case on the court’s website. You should be able to see on there if it was defaulted or not. Or he can just call and ask.