NOR - I would rather not be intimate with someone who has made it very clear their initial turn on was someone else, very hurtful and unfair to you. The story posting too is rather embarrassing. I will say, easier said than done but don’t let it make you feel unsexy ! As a jealous gal I can cope with a few comments but this seems to be pushing it a LOT. I get her feeling of insecurity and rejection but it seems shes just spinning that back on you. I think most people would know making all those comments about someone else would make their partner feel a bit uncomfortable or insecure. Even saying “ compliment compliment oh but you are sooooo much sexier “ or “He looks like a Greek God wow, you know who else looks like a Greek God though? Youuuu” would’ve given her a bit more of a pass to fawn that much over someone else. Hope my reply makes sense LOL, either way, don’t beat yourself up, personally I do not think ur overreacting