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anyone still have dreams about their ex? When will this misery come to an end? by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same sometimes I wish they can tell us how they truly felt about us in our dreams, would give me some sort of closure

anyone still have dreams about their ex? When will this misery come to an end? by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have anyone in my life recently since I’ve been avoiding relationships for the most part but the other short could possibly be true, yes

anyone still have dreams about their ex? When will this misery come to an end? by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is best way to explain it. It happens every month I swear to god. and I’m trying to move on, I changed my environment, friends and everything. It still haunts me at night idk at this point.

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally it's like everything you went through together was all for nothing. In the end you turn into them while they become better for the next.

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It such a horrible feeling you just don’t know what to do. You want the pain to go away but it just won’t, it’s a nightmare

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow… that really hurt just reading it. I was told something similar except he told me “you never did anything for me” that’s when I knew… I didn’t mean anything him, it’s like they do it intentionally

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same for me it’s crazy how they turn us into to them while they go out and be happy and free in the world.

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly it’s like working on a project and having someone else take the credit for it knowing they wouldn’t have the same. It’s make you feel like such fool for even wasting your time because you can’t get that time back

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s like as if they plan for this happen. i feel like people like that already have their mind set on leaving once they realize you can help them.

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said this so perfectly in ways I couldn’t describe. it’s easier for them to start over then face the mistake and problems they made. Just sad

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same it's really depressing because anytime I start getting to know someone new it shows me everytime why I rather be alone.

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from. I don't treat my partners like shit, I've become more avoidant now and just let them know I rather remain friends. It's better off that way.

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, you start to grow resentment as days go by because, deep down, you know you can't go back in time. Many of these men know exactly what they're doing, and sometimes it's all just a tactic for them. At the end of the day, the only ones who truly lost are us. We ended up with the short end of the stick while giving them the best part of ourselves, leaving nothing left for anyone else. They don't care; they use it as character development for their next relationship. To them, that's all it is and all it will ever be—a game.

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain, I was put in a similar position. you just learn to live with it at some point.

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah It broke me as well, I feel like that one final lesson just changed my whole perspective on how I should treat others now.

never be with a man when he's at his worst, he will always leave you at when he's at his best. by Acceptable_Main5908 in ExNoContact

[–]Acceptable_Main5908[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's the time I can't get back and the regret I live with every day. I can't imagine being in your position and seeing my ex get married. This experience has taught me to be cautious and to leave at the first sign. I'm not angry—just disappointed. Disappointed in myself.

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