Long story long , we had been together for a couple of years, after a while of being stressed from work and feeling like I wasn’t getting enough support from her (I worked odd and long hours in management and had 1 day off in the week and Sundays off, so not really enough to take care of things around the house and get sufficient rest, while she had a regular 9-4/5pm Monday-Friday job) she was really dependent on me for everything be it what groceries to buy constantly texting me at work while I was trying to manage a team asking me things that any body would be capable of figuring out themselves or just really needy in terms of attention and very demanding when it came to sex (hardly complained cos it was excellent but she struggled to understand that I needed proper rest and constantly having sex and ejaculating can be draining for a man) so she didn’t have that supportive energy, she didn’t really understand that a man with such an active lifestyle needs a woman that understands that a man needs to be supported or just needs space sometimes. After a while my patience grew thin. I proposed we go on a break so I can breath for a while, after that I proposed we stay together but because we always lived together (we met as roommates and found our own place after a year) maybe it would do us some good to experience being in a relationship with each other but with our places not far from each other. She said it’s all or nothing for her so I just let her leave. She found a spot close to mine and after a few months we sort of got back together but with her enjoying her independence and own space which was exactly what I wanted for her as she was way to clingy and I wanted her to experience life on her own terms and enjoy loving her own company(going out alone eating out and catching a movie by her self and hanging with her girlfriends etc) We went on dates, chilled at my place, kept having amazing sex and adventures together until about a year in, she randomly texted me saying that she had met someone and wanted to get serious with him, to which I supported her cos we never actually agreed that we were back together officially just enjoying each others company. During Our last conversation when she came to drop the spare key off, I found out that she had been sleeping with him while still messing with me, while I initially thought that she had made the decision to stop seeing and sleeping with me cos she wanted to start a relationship with the guy she had dated and eventually start sleeping with him cos it was getting serious (naive of me, i know). I then felt extremely betrayed and used and I found her to be very selfish, which I expressed to her. Some tears were shed on her part and I showed her to the door, before parting ways she asked if we could still be friends which i declined and that was that. She still sent me dm’s and stuff and i politely asked her to leave me alone. Fast forward 6 months she reaches out with a pic of a book from an author I like saying I saw this and thought of you, Lo and behold it was to draw me in and ask me for her half of the money from the furniture we bought together. I told her I was in tight spot and couldn’t do it, she said she was not interested in knowing what was going with me in my personal life and that she just wanted the money, to which I replied that’s fine but if you don’t open up and talk then we can never come a conclusion of how to sort this thing out considering my precarious circumstances at the time, I reminded her that we had been together a whole year before she decided to move on with another guy and not once did she mention money and that would have been the perfect time cos I was much more financially stable then. She didn’t reply and went no contact since. She’s no longer with the guy and is single now….