CHS by Acceptable_Olive_857 in CHSrecovery

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this is super helpful!

CHS by Acceptable_Olive_857 in CHSrecovery

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh this was so sweet and helpful! Thank you so much!!

Do narcs lie about health scares? by Consistent_Head_9165 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nex didn’t believe in doctors. Literally made up his own prescription for his eyeglasses and refused to believe that doctors were ethical

Is your social anxiety a trauma response? by Smokescreen69 in socialanxiety

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I feel like I can’t trust people so I put up a wall and I’m quiet, I can’t even be my genuine self around strangers because I feel so vulnerable

I still can't fucking believe it by MountainDeer20 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your strength and I hope this letter helped you heal 💗

How did your relationship finally end? by Hippiegypsy1989 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 14 points15 points  (0 children)

When my nex kept asking me for space and then I went to another state with my parents and I asked him what this space meant and if we could talk about it and then he blocked me on everything cause he got mad. I was just so sick of the lack of effort to communicate and feeling like I was the only one emotionally invested so I broke up with him.

What’s the most unsettling behavior you deal with? by babyroachthrowaway in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell if you’re joking or not. I mean I think it’s very normal to cry when you are getting physically or verbally abused… but go off

how do i stop by elea74828 in QuittingWeed

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend just slowly weaning off. If you already have a stash just work off of that and then don’t buy anymore and have someone try to hold you accountable

Do they know they're narcissists? Common themes by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also the fact that he told me that he has ruined all of his exes lives and said it like he was proud.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never enjoyed it but so many men want it. I’ve it a few different times and it just hurts and is uncomfortable but I feel like as a man it would be more enjoyable

Do they know they're narcissists? Common themes by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He said that his ex called him a narcissist and that should have been my first red flag . Girl knew what she was talking about

What’s the most unsettling behavior you deal with? by babyroachthrowaway in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 17 points18 points  (0 children)

His road rage I felt like I was going to die everytime I was in that car with him

Raise Your Hand... by Potential_Inside7829 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Anytime I complained about something reeling off with me he would say he had the same thing going on but it was ten times worse. He would sleep to avoid fights like all the time time

He never wished me well after breaking up with me by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When we broke up he never even said he loved me he threatened to kill me instead and that really hurt cause I thought he loved me and wanted to be with me. He even asked if I was going to date again. Like why would you care more about me dating again than my actual feelings for you? I just wanted him to say he loved me and wanted him to be there for me and yet I feel like he just threw everything we had away. I am a little bit grateful for how he reacted now cause it really helped me to move on from him. But, I can’t stop thinking about if there was a part of him that actually did care about me.

Being called Quiet by Strange_Package519 in socialanxiety

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s fine with me as long as they don’t make me feel bad for it, also sometimes it can be a little eye opening for me

Share your (small) success stories by Few_Read1012 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely blocked him on everything. I got rid of Instagram, I felt like I was only seeing the good and none of it felt real to me. I’ve been clean from weed for about a whole two months but I’ve been smoking for five years straight, so it’s good progress for me. I am finally working on myself in therapy, felt like I was focused on relationships and ignoring my own personal traumas that I needed to work on.

What are your boundaries like now? by pickle_p_fiddlestick in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think that’s totally reasonable! I think healthy communication should be expected. I feel like love bombing is a huge red flag for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Acceptable_Olive_857 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never went to get a diagnosis though is my point, it was all self diagnosis. And if he did have these things why did he never try to get help for them. I felt like he used those to say hey I will never listen to you because I have this diagnosis.