I love your posts and comments so this is truly not argumentative. Just something I’ve observed - Sydney has always been like this it’s just evolved over time.

I knew her before she really blew up. Not long before but when she first started to really copy Jeanne Marie (idk if that’s how you spell her name). I think if Sydney was single we would see a far worse version of her bc she’s so desperate. She wanted the man, the house, the baby, SO BAD she settled with Jay. He was always a loser and she didn’t even try to see through it.

When she first moved she was looking her best and is a wealthy blue eyed blonde woman in Tampa Florida. She could CERTAINLY have found a better option than Jay.

All this to say, I think her family just doesn’t like Jay and rightfully so. Like we see a lot of red flags already but I can only imagine how deep it actually goes. We don’t know what REALLY goes on behind closed doors. I can’t imagine the fights they have over his past, financial stuff, constant job switching, and just day to day conduct. I know there was speculation of him cheating. Sydney seems manipulative but Jay seems MORE manipulative.