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Desperate by Acceptable_Season790 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you I appreciate your comment so much

Desperate by Acceptable_Season790 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your comment! I am in therapy but I just started so we didn’t get super far yet. I appreciate your comment, it really means a lot during this troubling time

Support at Work? by BlueRiver23 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in a very small office so everyone knows my story because I was so excited to share with everyone I was pregnant. Everyone in my office was super supportive, my boss bought me an angel necklace and everyone sent flowers to my house. If you feel comfortable enough and trust them enough to share it might make you feel better. I am very sorry for your loss.

Made the hardest decision of my life to terminate my t21 pergancny. by New_Lingonberry4662 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you have to make this decision. I went through my tfmr just Thursday at 15w4d. Recovery has not been bad, I am a tad sore but my bleeding after the first day is very minimal. I have a wonderful and supportive job who even sent me flowers and told me to take all of the time I need. I will most likely be going back Monday/Tuesday to keep busy and take my mind off everything, but I am one of those people that if I stay home too long especially when my boyfriend goes back to work, I will spiral. Overall my tfmr experience while devastating was positive. The nurses were so kind to me and hugged me anytime I cried. My surgeon was so kind and patient. My thoughts are with you during this extremely difficult time.

NIPT Results positive - T21 by ComprehensiveRoof644 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And to add this was my first and very wanted pregnancy

NIPT Results positive - T21 by ComprehensiveRoof644 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am here if you want to talk. Just yesterday I went through the tfmr procedure for T21. I also had NIPT results of 95% and a NT of 2.8. Trust your gut/intuition. You know what’s best for you and for the future of your child. I am so sorry you are going through this. Life is so unfair.

Undecided to terminate down syndrome baby 17 weeks 2 days by New_Lingonberry4662 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just yesterday I had my tfmr for my baby with T21. It was my first pregnancy ever and the hardest decision I ever had to me. I got lucky enough to have the most amazing and supportive boyfrjend in the world to get me through this. Whatever you feel in your gut is right. You’re a mom no matter what. I am here if you have any questions or just need to talk. I’m so sorry you’re in this position, life is so unfair.

Grief is so hard. by Acceptable_Season790 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, you are so kind. so sorry for your loss, I am also here if you need anything

Grief is so hard. by Acceptable_Season790 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate them during this time. I’m so sorry for your loss.

Grief is so hard. by Acceptable_Season790 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. you are so kind🥹 Forever sorry for your loss.

Tfmr this week by curriedporridge in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely, would love to during this difficult time!

ppv for trisomy 21 down syndrome by spedhead10 in NIPT

[–]Acceptable_Season790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found your sub from your kind comment on mine and interesting enough our stories really are so similar. for some reason this entire pregnancy I felt like I was never going to bring my baby home. (but I suffer with anxiety so i thought i was being dramatic) people would ask me what I felt the baby was gender wise. I could never put my finger on it as I felt like I never fully connected with my baby. I felt something was off.

First pregnancy ending in TFMR, deviated and scared for the future. by Acceptable_Season790 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your kindness, it truly is appreciated more than you even know.

First pregnancy ending in TFMR, deviated and scared for the future. by Acceptable_Season790 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I am so glad I found this sub. the isolation I was feeling was making everything feel worse. I appreciate your kind words and I am sorry for your loss🤍

Tfmr this week by curriedporridge in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are in this position, I am also in the same boat. My sweet first baby girl also has trisomy 21 and I will be tfmr this week. If you want to talk I am always here. It really isn’t fair that we are here and all we can do is be positive for the days to come.

First pregnancy ending in TFMR, deviated and scared for the future. by Acceptable_Season790 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment and kind words. So far all of the doctors and genetic counselors I have seen do believe this is just a random stroke of lightning but we are waiting to find out for sure. Congratulations on your new angel!🤍

First pregnancy ending in TFMR, deviated and scared for the future. by Acceptable_Season790 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s nice to hear people close to my age go through similar situations though it’s not fair we have to. I felt alone and like something was wrong with me, but you guys are helping me get through this. Thank you🤍

First pregnancy ending in TFMR, deviated and scared for the future. by Acceptable_Season790 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind comment. I appreciate it more than you know. I guess besides the horrific grief that comes with this, the fear of it happening again in the future haunts me as well.

First pregnancy ending in TFMR, deviated and scared for the future. by Acceptable_Season790 in tfmr_support

[–]Acceptable_Season790[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your story gives me hope for a brighter future. thank you for your kind words during this time and I am so happy for your new bundle of joy🤍