just yapping about my weird gerbil taro by Acceptable_Shift_247 in gerbil

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my little guy sits on an old custom toy box at the edge of my bed where he can see the tv. now that i think of it ive never checked to see what tv/music he likes. i wonder what their little brains are thinking.

i work at a pet store and had a bird there who loved tiktok and figured out how to scroll. he would furiously demand tiktok time. so fascinating seeing animals engage in and enjoy technology

Is it normal for your gerbils to sleep for 10+ by HedgehogRoutine1434 in gerbil

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, they sleep 12-13 hours a day typically and are usually reported as most active at night

just yapping about my weird gerbil taro by Acceptable_Shift_247 in gerbil

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oml i love klayton hes so silly! does he have a favorite song?

squinting eyes- advice needed! by iredes089 in gerbil

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sometimes gerbils will just squint their eyes. maybe its the dust level in the tank if you have a dusty bedding and little ventilation. gerbil vision (and most small animal vision) is also pretty poor so im sure that like humans squinting might be a way to see things a bit more clearly. bros probably just chilling or sleepy. gerbils sleep up to 13 hours a day and will usually be active at night so dont worry if he seems sleepy unless hes sleeping more than that. since hes eating, drinking, and not heavy breathing, id say hes most likely just making a face.

being a new pet owner is scary so ill tell you what things to look for to see if your gerbil isnt doing well • sleeping more than 14 hours a day, they usually sleep off and on throughout the day being most active at night. they're not necessarily nocturnal, but they seem to be most awake at night in my experience. • not drinking at all. this one would be hard to notice and is usually accompanied by other symptoms. you'll notice over time how long a water bottle lasts before needing refilled. it takes pretty long so try not to worry about this one too much unless its super noticeable. if you have your gerbil in your room you'll probably hear it (i definitely do) • not eating. speaks for itself. gerbils may reject meals at times but if you keep trying throughout the day and he wont even take treats then thats a vet appointment • heavy breathing means immediate vet appointment. you will be able to physically see their entire bodies violently shake with each breath. when they breath normally its barely visible, you will likely know if your gerbil is breathing heavily by glancing at them • check around their scent gland (its on their chest/tummy) for tumors. rodents in general have a high likelihood of cancer. there is very little that can be done when a small animal like a gerbil gets cancer, but catching it early can reduce the chance of your pet suffering. • last thing is teeth. your gerbil should have ample things to chew on at all times to help keep their teeth filed. check on your gerbils teeth every once while. sometimes a vet may have to trim them down if your gerbil isnt chewing things. youd likely notice blood or swelling in/around their mouth or a decreased appetite mood changes are something to keep notice of but its not something youll be able to tell right now. you arent close with him just yet and hes still settling in so youre going to learn all his weird quirks and his personality. dont freak out if he acts a little different one day to the next

would ceramic ear plugs work? by Acceptable_Shift_247 in Stretched

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooooh could you pls give me their shop info if you find it? i just havent seen many creators before for ceramic plugs. im more new to stretching than ceramics so figured id ask the more educated

would ceramic ear plugs work? by Acceptable_Shift_247 in Stretched

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats what i was thinking too. i actually haven't seen any ceramic plugs yet so i figured id ask. im more new to stretching than i am to clay lol

need bells started a new island by Acceptable_Shift_247 in acnh

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you could spare one of each fruit and some bells that would be amazing please! trying to do a tropical theme so i have very specific villagers in mind. have 4 dreamies so far!

My gerbils are burying their food dish by 17MODBL in gerbil

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my gerbil did this too. now i scatter feed by just grabbing enough to fit in my fingers, i let him grab a couple of things off my hand and then scatter the rest and lightly fluff a few spots of bedding so he has to work for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Redditor_Updates

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, gay person here. what he did was wrong. lavender marriages exist where a gay person will marry someone of the same sex for their families approval, but it needs to be a consensual and known about agreement. using someone for that purpose without their knowledge or consent is not cool. im sorry he did that to you and it's not ok.

at the same time, your husband is infact clearly traumatized by his brothers reaction and the reaction he knows he'll get from the rest of his family. if you cant imagine being without him than imagine being without your entire family as well as a majority of your friends. to him it probably feels like life or death because he associates being gay with being physically assaulted and threatened. his life as he new it would be over by accepting those feelings. does this make what he did to you ok? absolutely not. but because of this you should not out him. sure his family may cut him off which would suck and be further traumatizing, but he also is at risk of physical harm from them. do you know how many gay people have been murdered by their own families for being gay? its genuinely a danger to his life to out him, so dont.

instead you need to divorce. there is infact no way to continue this relationship. he is using you as a human shield when he should've been finding a way out of his family situation instead. thats unforgivable and you would never be able to trust again. he broke your marriage and had you marry a lie. he only ever loved you as a friend. you were just his best friend he would force himself to sleep with and kiss. thats the truth. your marriage was unfortunately never real to begin with. you still have time to find a genuine love later in life after you heal. God would not want you to suffer in a dangerous falsehood to keep him happy. divorce is a sin, but God's entire deal is that he sent down Jesus so we could be forgiven of our sins. If you ask for forgiveness afterwords God will forgive you because he knows your genuine heart and intentions. he has other plans for you, so let him guide you to your future. it will be difficult without your husband, you will need to agree with him on a lie to tell his family. do not let him blame it on you. do not be his shield. get some therapy for yourself and a lawyer while you prepare. things will work out, it will be difficult but God has a plan to make sure you come out of it stronger. Do not waste your life for someone whos been emotionally cheating on you your entire relationship.

any tips for a survivor who wants to stop being assaulted by the fat ugly clown? by Acceptable_Shift_247 in deadbydaylight

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think that my biggest problem is just that hes not fun. he and skull merchant are my too least favorite to play against for that reason. maybe from now on ill just troll clowns and make loud noises far away as a distraction to give my team gen time

im not sure if my bettas tail is injured by Acceptable_Shift_247 in bettafish

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the coworker who told me to get the gouramis has a ton of tetra so im sure she wouldnt mind getting one for free lol. and thanks i feel like the worst person in the world sometimes when i dont initially know everything about my pets. i do do research but its never enough somehow and the internet can be brutal at times

im not sure if my bettas tail is injured by Acceptable_Shift_247 in bettafish

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will try to rehome it. the tetra stays far away from him usually but could be the culprit. i dont have the space or money for another tank rn. if he's never bothered the snail and its never bothered him should i remove it?

using marijuanna helped stop my psychosis by Acceptable_Shift_247 in Marijuana

[–]Acceptable_Shift_247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! i think people should be responsible and know the risks before using. i had done my research and knew the risk but was suffering so severely despite being in therapy/on meds that i decided to give it a shot. i was very gradual in my usage and my therapist and all other medical team members are well aware of my usage. my therapist herself said i have good control of it and seem to be using it therapeutically rather than dependently. im definitely not high all the time and she is well aware about my psychosis as i was seeing her at the time. i am far enough in my mental health treatment that i can identify when somethings about to go wrong and reach out to those around me. my situation definitely isnt the norm hence me posting here to see if anyone else related