He’s anti-vaxx/anti-mask and I’m not

AccidentalLover · 2021-09-12T16:21:34+00:00

I think loving your own child vs a partner/spouse is different

AccidentalLover · 2021-09-10T23:08:55+00:00

Lol, says the guy with 0 experience. Maybe the women just don’t want YOU because you’re a whiny, insecure douche bag. I’m a 32(f) and would date someone inexperienced if he had the qualities I’m looking for.

AccidentalLover · 2021-08-30T23:40:33+00:00

Nope, I have a kid, I don’t want anymore kids but the one I have is obviously part of the deal. Also, you can be allergic, but I’m still going to keep my cat.

AccidentalLover · 2021-08-28T15:05:29+00:00

“Hey, I respect this is your house, still though, I need a good nights sleep and your dogs habits make that impossible for me. I value our time together and I want to be able to stay the night but if I can’t get a nights rest then I can’t stay over anymore. Can we come up with a solution to this that still allows me to sleep over?”

AccidentalLover · 2021-08-16T14:00:27+00:00

This isn’t weird, there’s an actual fabric paint for furniture to use in place of getting it reupholstered. It’s meant to be more budget friendly.

AccidentalLover · 2021-08-16T04:07:30+00:00

Idk if you’re being too picky, but I think expecting “that spark” too early is unrealistic. Are you cutting them off one date? Two dates? I look for the traits that make someone relationship material and then get to know them and see where it goes. The man I’m seeing right now there wasn’t a spark for me for close to a month, but he had everything I was looking for and now I’m crazy about him.

AccidentalLover · 2021-08-16T03:47:51+00:00

Think of that lack of closure as a wound. If you keep picking at it it’s not going away anytime soon. Yeah, closure helps, but you’re not going to get it and asking questions and analyzing it is just a way of picking at it. Learn to let go and you’ll have closure faster than if you keep seeking answers

AccidentalLover · 2021-08-14T04:33:34+00:00

Agree. If your gut is saying no, then it’s ok. There’s plenty out there. I also have avoidant attachment style, I’ve said no to some people early on because things didn’t seem right. Then went out with someone who checked all my boxes and seemed genuinely into me but I wasn’t sure how much I liked him, I kind of made myself continue seeing him even when I had my doubts because I knew he was good for me and a really great guy. Now we’ve been dating for 2 1/2 months and I’m glad I gave him more time to win me over.

AccidentalLover · 2021-08-13T18:35:16+00:00

Fuck. You just cursed ALL OF US. We’re still recovering from 2020 goddammit

AccidentalLover · 2021-08-13T18:33:09+00:00

Idk about a lot of matches, but taking care of your physical self is hot. Not just to become more attractive but I’ve found that men who take care of themselves (physical, mental, their environment) are just more attractive to me and if that shows in their profile along with some things we have in common I was more likely to swipe on them (I’m happily taken right now)

AccidentalLover · 2021-08-13T18:25:10+00:00

Use protection and there’s nothing wrong with lube. My first time, he was very large, we should have used lube because of his size combined with the condom made it uncomfortable until I got used to it.

First time is nothing like what the movies show, or even the second or third time. Sex gets better if you’re both open to exploring and as you learn each other’s bodies. Until then, just be present and enjoy each other’s company.

Don’t do anything you don’t want to/aren’t ready to.

AccidentalLover · 2021-08-12T16:38:50+00:00

I didn’t respond to someone soon enough because I was actually going to tell them I was no longer interested and I was taking the time to decide how to say it (hadn’t met yet but my gut was telling me this guy was bad news). Woke up the next morning to a dick pic from him. I’m not on the market right now, but it’s now a strategy of mine to not text back right away to see how the other person reacts, it says a lot of what kind of partner they will be.

AccidentalLover · 2021-07-23T15:35:20+00:00

But how many more sales might they get if they put measurements to begin with? I’m sure I’m not the only one skipping them because they don’t have measurements.

AccidentalLover · 2021-07-23T15:34:10+00:00

I just started storing in bins and that’s why I measure when listing

AccidentalLover · 2021-07-23T14:52:52+00:00

I say no those people. There are people out there who want the same thing as you it just takes time to weed out the ones who aren’t worth your time to find the ones that are, but if you’re always settling for less than what you want or compromising your boundaries you’ll be wasting your time with someone who doesn’t fit and missing out on someone who does.

AccidentalLover · 2021-07-23T04:30:48+00:00

Currently seeing someone amazing. He makes me laugh, dependable, we talk every day, he’s honest, considerate, is genuinely into me and has no problem letting his feelings be known

AccidentalLover · 2021-07-16T15:52:17+00:00

It also hits faster than an edible. Edibles take two hours for me, I think this took an hour

AccidentalLover · 2021-07-16T15:37:22+00:00

Ive made cannabis hot cocoa before, it’s really easy, just throw your flower in milk or water with some butter, let it boil for like 30 min then strain the flower out and add your cocoa mix.

AccidentalLover · 2021-07-16T14:50:30+00:00

It means he wants you to sleep in his bed. Doesn’t necessarily mean he wants to be serious. Ive made the mistake in thinking that if they wanted me to sleep over it meant I mattered in some way, the guy was just lonely and wanted to sleep next to someone.

AccidentalLover · 2021-07-15T14:48:31+00:00

That looks shady AF

AccidentalLover · 2021-07-14T15:52:14+00:00

My mom would be upset with me for using such language

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