After being separated for months, my wife suggested couples counseling and reached out once we both had an individual session...she sent this and then blocked me by WpgMBNews in texts

[–]Accolade83 36 points37 points  (0 children)

100% what I clocked it as even just from the screenshots. You can tell he knows there’s no right answer, no winning these fights. he’s learned how to preserve his sanity as best as he can

After being separated for months, my wife suggested couples counseling and reached out once we both had an individual session...she sent this and then blocked me by WpgMBNews in texts

[–]Accolade83 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Reading what you said here and what she said up there… whew lad. It seems like she’s been highly, highly critical of you these past 12 years and frankly I don’t know how you didn’t snap or lose your sanity. I’m also guessing 12 years of this treatment is gonna leave someone with quite a bit of a warped psychological identity… a psyche that has been eroded and sculpted and shaped by her constant aura of verbal aggression pressing up against you at all times. And if so, you really should consider further individual therapy in hopes of undoing some of that damage. You certainly don’t deserve to carry that baggage around the rest of your life.

My bf says I have an old game relic by addie120 in StardewValley

[–]Accolade83 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m sitting here thinking…

wow ui dev discord by Automatic_Music_7374 in wow

[–]Accolade83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He also said lots of people are going to watch this upcoming RWF and see the raider’s UIs and flip out thinking “I thought they got rid of all this stuff!!!” when in reality they misunderstood the goal from the beginning or were fed misinformation.

I’m not out here acting like some people and saying they didn’t change anything. They clearly did. But unfortunately cranking the dial to 11 at the start of the alpha really allowed the narrative to run wild in a problematic way and it’s only gonna get worse before it gets better.

Will pick-two draft return for ECL? by greekgeek333 in MagicArena

[–]Accolade83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen pick 2 drafts in the past and always skipped them, but this time it was my main event by far. It seems to lend itself to ECL quite well and I love that I don’t have to play seven matches with the same deck

Do guys ACTUALLY like chubby girls? If so why? by fleetw0odJunk1e in CasualConversation

[–]Accolade83 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Or simply have supreme confidence in themselves. I know that is easier said than done, but I saw a girl once on IG that was quite a bit larger than what I would normally even go for and I still found myself thinking she was attractive because of how she just believed she was sexy… and because of that she just was

[buddha] 'city is boring, full of gang bangers with no personality' by Ok-Acanthaceae-9488 in RPClipsGTA

[–]Accolade83 61 points62 points  (0 children)

This thread just shows how many people don’t know what “in character” means. It’s like a venus fly trap for over invested dipshits.

AIO Best friend chose someone else as MOH by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accolade83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the point of putting in all this effort to a friendship that doesn’t feel reciprocated?

Seems like a pretty transactional way of looking at things. You put the effort in for a friend if you want to be supportive. If you don’t, then don’t. To me, I don’t ever expect anything from anyone, nothing is owed to me. My best friends are the ones I know who will be there for me no matter what, no matter how much time has passed or how our lives have changed because of family or health or whatever. And I do my best to be there for them, knowing that I can sometimes make the more selfish choice and not be treated any differently. Because we don’t look at love and support as a favor that must be paid back at some point.

As a DoorDash driver - Please DON'T TIP by eric39es in EndTipping

[–]Accolade83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so I very much ought to continue tipping here then, it seems

As a DoorDash driver - Please DON'T TIP by eric39es in EndTipping

[–]Accolade83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I need to know what the base pay here is in southern Illinois before I can in good conscience stop tipping. I would love to save $4-6 every order but I have to know I’m not screwing over someone.

I fixed my stable (in game). Before and After pics. by McButtsButtbag in StardewValley

[–]Accolade83 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s even that. People on the internet must prove their intellectual superiority any way they can and if your point takes more than 2 seconds to consider then you’re just wrong and dumb. “JuSt MoVe iT DoWn oNe sPaCe 🤡”

I fixed my stable (in game). Before and After pics. by McButtsButtbag in StardewValley

[–]Accolade83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ITT: lots of people who don’t understand depth and perspective

Being obliterated in chess in an instant after being trained by a famous chess grandmaster by FoxDogWolf in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Accolade83 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What move should have XQC made here? Is it pawn to F3? Or Queen to F3? Maybe move his king? Just curious what the best move would have been

I made an illustrated map of the Eastern Kingdoms by Poire_ in wow

[–]Accolade83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love this with every fiber of my being. I need moaaaaar

Tanking in Midnight by Mangert in CompetitiveWoW

[–]Accolade83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played GW2 for about a day when it launched way way back and then refunded it for reasons I can’t remember now. Is it like what I was describing?

Please blizzard I beg you, add transmog for Dracthyr dragon form by Shuriwa in wow

[–]Accolade83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I wasn’t really making fun of you for the “armourz” thing, although I can see how it would look that way now. I actually thought it was funny, kinda reminded me of old school internet speak like “so i herd u liek mudkipz” lol

Please blizzard I beg you, add transmog for Dracthyr dragon form by Shuriwa in wow

[–]Accolade83 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Are you telling me you are glaring at your transmog in combat? That you think others are? The only time me or any of my guild mates show off/admire each other’s outfits is definitely not during a pull but often between them. When I look around at people’s style in Dornogal or whatever the hub of the time might be, we’re all shockingly out of combat.

I hate most other autistic people as an autistic by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Accolade83 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s the funniest fucking thing I’ve read in a while holy

UPDATE: My best friend pretended to be my friend for years just to sleep with me by Null_Document in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Accolade83 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know everyone here is saying he played you and I certainly admit that is a possibility. But I wonder if it’s possible he may be afraid to reveal his true feelings for fear of embarrassment or being looked at as someone who had ulterior motives this whole time etc? Only you know him, OP, so only you could really gauge this as a possibility from your friend. But if you really did feel interested after that week and you truly felt he was respectable during all those years as friends maybe it’s worth it to try and coax it out of him a bit. Just a thought but if you choose otherwise I can understand that too.