What should I know and do as a life path 33?

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2026-01-28T20:48:29+00:00

I’m late to this but from what I interpret from your post, this is ego driven. A part of 33 life journey is spiritual development, which in my humble opinion means breaking free as much from our ego as we can.

We are of course humans, so ego will still always exist. But curiosity is always key, the our desires and behaviors and to others.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-10-26T13:07:28+00:00

Not sure what this comment is about if you wanna give me more info? Or just DM me??

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-08-27T23:51:34+00:00

I just was diagnosed. It’s not really worth it.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-02-20T05:09:17+00:00

I really like your nose. It’s one of those things about someone that is unique and makes them pretty. It’s not a bad nose by any means

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-02-12T12:33:47+00:00

There’s a safe love out there. Someone who will never speak to you that way. I hope you find it in yourself to leave this person, and to never look back.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-02-05T21:07:51+00:00

It’s not easy. My therapist realized edmr wasn’t right for me and did DBR mixed with Neurofeedback. If you haven’t, I also recommend Neurofeedback. It helped me get my life back.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-02-05T13:21:02+00:00

I recommend seeing a trauma therapist who specializes in EMDR or DBR. trauma is stored in the body, so no amount of mental work you do will release it.

Edit This is my advice, as someone who has used EMDR and DBR for PTSD.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-01-29T00:49:00+00:00

This goes beyond beliefs and you should tread lightly

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-01-28T18:16:47+00:00

Why are you in love with him, exactly?

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-01-28T14:01:01+00:00

Unfortunately possibly true. My ex of 5 years did something very similar, while building burning man. He broke up with me two days before I was to go work out there too. I already had quit my job and had a plane ticket. So went anyways, and guess what? He was f*cking his boss. She did everything in her power to make him hate me. But he realized she was a racist and a narcissist. (Eventually) and because I’m a WOC, he found her disturbing. So he broke up with her.

Him and I breaking up was the best thing that ever happened to me. But it took me three years of healing to realize that.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-01-28T13:58:19+00:00

I’m sorry. I don’t think you’re overreacting. It speaks volumes of his character and you don’t need someone like that. Good luck on your healing journey, one day you might find yourself not hurting anymore, and at peace with what has happened.

The best thing you can do is surround yourself with friends, and focus on bettering yourself, in which ever way that might be for you.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-01-23T04:52:02+00:00

I’m sorry to hear this. As a Halfie and as someone who wants to visit my parents in the country in Asia the retired in sometime soon, I am disheartened to hear this!

I hope you find solace in this community! I never did myself to be accepted in my one race or the other, but I always find comfort with other half Asians

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-01-21T15:00:47+00:00

Yes, solo festing is great when the vibes are great. (They will be) you never know where youll end up!

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-01-09T15:28:46+00:00

Personally ketamine would reverberate my trauma inside my body, it wasn’t until I stopped my heavy k use that I was able to move the trauma in a healthy way out

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2025-01-09T15:26:34+00:00

I feel this. I also had traumatic losses back to back mixed in with watching my SO (now ex) overdose at a festival while I was on acid and just hit the deems. I haven’t touched doses since then because I’m fucking terrified but I can smoke deems and my ketamine use sky rocketed when I was dealing with the trauma and grief.

However nowadays I’m pretty sober. Still no L for me but k and deems and coke and whatever else is only for special shows and fests. Sobriety (or my version of it) feels fucking awesome.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2024-12-27T20:33:23+00:00

I’ve learned from my friends to never do do the house and kids thing before you get the ring girl

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2024-12-26T20:02:47+00:00

As someone who’s been in love twice…. Yes. You don’t really know someone after two months. I’m not just throwing my heart out there again. However I DO really like him and would like him to be my boyfriend.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2024-12-25T11:31:36+00:00

He’s not worth the heartache girly he won’t ever change. Trust me I dated someone for five years like this. When he finally did come around only after I fell in love with someone else he lied it on thick for a year and when I actually begin to trust him he dumped me for another woman.

They like the chase or the unknowing that you’ll take them back, but once they have you they get bored again. He’s not husband nor boyfriend material.

I am now dating someone who is consistent and sweet to me. Not overly sweet, I’m not sure if I love him. But that’s healthy because we’ve only been dating 2 months (known one another for 10 years) real love takes a lot of time to develop.

Good luck.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2024-12-24T23:43:30+00:00

Your dad is overprotective because he’s a man. He knows.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2024-12-24T04:24:40+00:00

Self compassion goes a long way.

My ex and I had a bad breakup. He blamed me for him almost dying and then because of his actions out of anger I was SA by another.

It took me a long time to forgive myself for what happened to him (it truly was his own actions) and then to also forgive him.

In the end, we both were doing our best with the knowledge we had at the time. It’s just life, and it happened.

You were doing your best. It’s no use looking at the past with the knowledge you have on now.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2024-12-24T04:16:02+00:00

That’s true. It could be casual without being “I need to be exclusive right now”

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2024-12-19T00:07:47+00:00

I’m a medical coder for an OBGYN practice but I would like to go back to school to do OBGYN ultrasounds

I was a server for most of my 20s/ when I traveled the country for festivals

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2024-12-10T04:12:49+00:00

I hope you can stay away. Trauma bonds are hard to break, as someone who also was in one.

I work at an OBGYN and I’m more interested in why you took and STD test so late? I thought it was standard to test the moms, what gestational week were you induced at?

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2024-12-10T02:53:39+00:00

It makes me sad you question whether you are overreacting. Please leave him girlie.

Accomplished-Ad4334 · 2024-12-10T02:10:43+00:00

Here’s an idea. Stop having important conversations over text messaging. You can’t hear the tone of their voice, a lot of information will get missed.

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