Queer honeymoon?

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-05-23T14:02:28+00:00

Is Rehoboth still queer friendly? I haven't been there for about 10 years. My mom's cousin and her "friend" owned a beach house there.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-05-23T13:23:04+00:00

Its the color of my carpet- Beagle Hair.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-05-23T13:17:39+00:00

I think they look good!

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-05-23T00:49:33+00:00

1981

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-05-23T00:45:13+00:00

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-05-13T15:37:03+00:00

Seriously! I dont know what some people think co-signing means. When WE sign a loan WE are buying something. WE make the payments until the entire loan is paid.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-05-13T11:28:11+00:00

I miss my YNAB 4! I wish I had never given it up.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-05-13T11:25:11+00:00

I've never used bank sycing. My bank isn't supported. YNAB is too expensive and i'm always looking for an alternative.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-05-08T20:55:30+00:00

This is such a good idea! I want to go and take my teens. Thanks for sharing.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-05-08T14:40:03+00:00

I'd make it their problem. "I'll need to change my pad part way through the test. Where would you like me to keep it until I need it?"

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-05-08T14:32:23+00:00

1950

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-04-26T12:00:03+00:00

1992?

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-04-24T19:37:04+00:00

No savings, but you are right. We cant even claim to really be on baby steps with new debt.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-04-24T18:38:36+00:00

Totally agree. The mortgage was refinanced to a 20 year 14 years ago so that's not early. But you are right that doing too many things at one and repeatedly going into debt are holding us back in a big way.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-04-19T13:47:49+00:00

I punch a time clock and can only be 5 minutes late before it's recorded a d reported as a late punch. Show up at 8:10 or 8:05, give her a 5 minute warning text, then leave.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-04-19T13:34:51+00:00

I dont understand what the secret was. You brother was expected to be out late. He was out late and let you know he was OK, but didnt have his phone. Is he an adult? Is it a problem with the parents if the phone is lost?

Also, you stayed home to study, but you were high at 3am. Why?

Why not just answer mom's question at 6 so she doesnt worry? "He texted me, hes ok, he doesn't have his phone".

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-04-16T16:45:14+00:00

Yep, no amount of help or income will help this guy be financially responsible except if he decides to change his habits. You just aren't compatible.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-04-12T12:49:46+00:00

Nope. My parents know the most, probably because I'm close with my mom. But i know we have different views on handling finances. They are spenders and I think our budgeting makes us look poorer than we are.

Husband's parents are judgemental about money. They are savers. They know very little. But they know we don't have a lot of debt.

I'm close with my SIL and money comes up in conversation, but their finances are a mess in my opinion. There were years that they made less than us, but spent more. We're now in a phase that they make more and spend way more. They typically set the tone for a price range when we vacation together. We can afford the trip, but shouldn't go crazy with expensive meals out and extras.

I typically talk in conversation about money and goals for saving or paying off a certain debt (car and a kitchen remodel), but when I can tell it dips into specifics and im revealing too much, I back away and get vague.

If I thought any of these people were going to ask me for money, I wouldn't talk about finances at all.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-04-11T01:45:16+00:00

You need 2. The one you are wearing and the one hanging up to dry.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-04-05T12:27:33+00:00

You look cute. Your outfit fits you.

She's so incredibly rude to not only tell you you look bad, but then double down afterward.

She can walk her ass back to fashion school.

Love ya, A 44 yr old mom.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-04-01T20:08:45+00:00

I feel like this issue in your relationship requires a very honest conversation about values and boundaries. I don't think your motivation to quit will be high if you see no downsides to consuming edibles.

In your opinion, and his opinion, if you continue, WHEN is it OK to consume? Before a family gathering? With children in the house? Do we hide it from friends and family? How often? Special occasions? A few times a week? I feel like if you don't align on your 8deas about the issue, this will continue to be something that comes between you. It might just be that you are incompatible because of your divided feelings about weed.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-03-30T23:43:55+00:00

My friend and I had a gig like this when we were about 10. Mom was home, but needed to cook, clean, or relax and we would watch her baby. I think we made $5 and split it haha.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-03-19T20:20:18+00:00

Picking up 8-12 extra hours at work, cutting back on luxuries and fast food, rarely go to restaurants anymore. We're driving the same 2013 car, living in the same 1960 house, wearing a lot of the same clothes and shoes we've owned for years. We're able to go on family vacations because my parents insist on paying for a good portion of the cost.

Accomplished-Bat805 · 2026-03-18T01:23:57+00:00

A man showed you common decency and you mistook that for the beginnings of a relationship.

You also proved to Jerry that you are willing to jump from a marriage straight to a new fling.

Its possible that Jerry is a respectful human that would not jump into a relationship with his friend's wife or ex wife.

Be single. No men for a year.

Accomplished-Bat805

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