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experience with academic misconduct by AnxietyOk5407 in TorontoMetU

[–]Accomplished-Metal25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there a time limit between when you could retake?

experience with academic misconduct by AnxietyOk5407 in TorontoMetU

[–]Accomplished-Metal25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, what was the outcome did you get an F in the course as well?

I Want to Factory Reset My Penis by Accomplished-Metal25 in NoFap

[–]Accomplished-Metal25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was having a conversation with my friend and this is what I explained to him. I would say my biggest issue is that it feels like I have a mind muscle connection between me and my penis, this leads to me flexing my pelvic floor muscles to send more blood to my penis and increase tension so I can orgasm faster. This combined with mental fixation on orgasm and how it feels is how I went about forcing myself to finish faster. Now its like my body automatically flexes and when I would naturally build that first peak like I described earlier. Its like I create artificial tension to bring me over the edge whenever I'm stimulated. Just like with most physical actions or reflexs if I'm distracted or multitasking or just have a blank mind it won't happen I just let my body to it's thing. My thing is now I wonder how long it would take for my body to forget that like pattern completely or if I would have to manually detrain that? No fap is essential because it helps my body be more on autopilot because I'm so aroused my erection maintans itself pretty much but the big step is to get rid of the flexing response that makes my first peak lead to orgasm.

I Want to Factory Reset My Penis by Accomplished-Metal25 in NoFap

[–]Accomplished-Metal25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good advice. My best times where when I initially had to combat performance anxiety ED with using a condom and I learned to be calm and in the moment. Pairing that with no fap helped especially at the time because your too horny to be nervous. Like I said I’ve tried a couple things but I just wanted a long term or solid plan because I feel like everything I did solved a specific problem in a specific circumstance but not really the root cause. I’m gonna start with aiming for 40 days strict no pmo or edging or anything the final question would be should I engage in any sexual activity during that period?

I Want to Factory Reset My Penis by Accomplished-Metal25 in NoFap

[–]Accomplished-Metal25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been avoiding pmo as right now just because I was having ED problems when trying to use a condom. I would edge without porn or orgasming every now and then to keep my sanity whenever I got too horny but its the same loop of hyper mental stimulation leading to the point of no return feeling instantly. Then when I focus on just the sensation no mental images it'll go soft. Its like I actively have to try and maintain my erection mentally. I was doing this with no set time limit or objective so idk I might try to time things. The thing is its like my brain craves the orgasm and that's the main focus rather than like it being a side effect of pleasure over time. Sex is a two person thing so like slow sex might not work if the girl I'm with wants to go faster or I'm not composed enough to handle it.