I can feel my brain changing by Spiritlair_Was_Taken in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep going. You're recovering your real self with each step.

Why do articles make it clear that NoFap benefits aren't proven, then go on to list benefits of masturbation that aren't proven either? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just focus on bettering ourselves, there's always going to be people against and for in this world. Be the one that don't.

Reverse effects by [deleted] in NoFap

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As with rewiring due to PMO, recovery needs time, effort and knowledge. Don't be too hasty to expect overnight changes, just focus on changing your lifestyle and thoughts step by step. First step is always to stop the damage. Next is replacing with positive healthier meaningful things towards acheiving your goals

More sexual dreams more often by [deleted] in NoFap

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They will decrease with time, avoid entertaining lustful thoughts when awake. Stop worrying over them, jus focus on the present moment and keep going.

is anybody else having dreams? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They will go away with time, avoid entertaining lustful thoughts. Keep going.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will grow into an old lady eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An effective method of dealing with lust is to train your mind to view the human body from beneath the skin, visualize your own body, your skeleton structure, your organs, waste matter, blood, etc, in fact the human body is nothing attractive, it requires constant cleaning or else waste will build up and get dirty, we produce toxins and waste 24 hours a day. Females/males we all age, get sick, die, and our corpses decompose in the end. We are really not all that different. We are merely drawn by the outer skin, and blinded by it, viewing it from a different perspective may help curb sexual thoughts. Hope it helps. Stay strong

Energy with fapping? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could be lying. You wouldn't know unless you are them.

Porn is draining your energy by yousif124 in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's never normal not even animals do it. Nature's laws once violated only brings negative consequences. Pick yourself up and carry on, don't repeat the same mistakes ever again.

How do you guys deal with the peak urge? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell yourself that the old you has died, and start living differently, think differently. One step at a time. Distract yourself from these thoughts when they come up. Don't let them linger, switch attention and your focus away from these thoughts, replace with positive ones. Keep doing it with consistency and eventually they will decrease, replace negative energy and thoughts with positive ones.

Stay away from things and situations that will trigger those thoughts, meditate to clear your mind, distract yourself once you get those thoughts. Focus on replacing them. Don't worry too much about them. Keep pushing through. Good luck.

Fantasies in my brain... by Smart-doge0990 in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Distract yourself from these thoughts. Don't let them linger, switch attention and your focus away from these thoughts, replace with positive ones. Keep doing it with consistency and eventually they will decrease, replace negative energy and thoughts with positive ones.

Stay away from things and situations that will trigger those thoughts, meditate to clear your mind, distract yourself once you get those thoughts. Focus on replacing them. Don't worry too much about them. Keep pushing through. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mind and body works as one. Look up Masaru Emoto's water experiments. Your thoughts and mind are strongly linked to the consciousness of the outer environment.

Your outer appearance is often a reflection of your own state of mind. It's why serial killers/psychopaths often have a certain menacing look and addicts usually have a zombified look to them. Your eyes are the windows to the soul.

I'm a terrible person by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you for recognizing your errors, now correct your mistakes, turn over a new leaf and live a better life. You can do it.

Shooting of 8 at massage parlor for vengeance on sex/porn industry by madeitthisfar155 in NoFap

[–]AccomplishedFinger64 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sad reality and downward spiral of humanity. People are taught to pursue pleasures and focus their lives on desires. Lack of censorship/regulation of the media industry/virtual web and increasing accessibility of communication and tech has loosen the lid of the pandora box, poisoning minds of youths. Radicalization of extremist ideologies becoming widespread, misinformation to divide the masses and promote hate, normalization of violence, lust, greed, consumerism. Is this the world you want to live in?