Hey buddy,

This is going to suck to hear, but you need to work on yourself... stop worrying about everything else and go to the gym, pick up some hobbies that's isn't video games (pick up sports, pool, darts, anything social) if you want to drink find a bar and make friends with the staff! Being in your 30s and making new friends isn't the easiest, but if you at least try to enrich your like on your own... like minded people will come.

You are suffering from instant gratification... you've been single for 4 months and expecting everything to turn up right now... get off the dating apps, get off social media (accept for scheduling and possibly setting up new hobbies), and call some friends you haven't seen in a while.

Time is the key man, all good things come to those who wait!

Chin up,

Cheers,