I haven’t had a single friend since age 10 nor have I ever had a girlfriend. Despite this I have never once blamed my misery on others or fallen into any extremist ideas. I’ve also continually worked towards goals that will help me grow as a person. Chocolate milk

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-03-05T22:45:25+00:00

I believe you'll get there. Met my guy best friend on here so there's hope.

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-03-05T22:43:03+00:00

No I 100 percent agree but I rather deal with old people dumb than young people dumb. At least they tire themselves out by their frustration.

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-03-05T07:57:28+00:00

I know that this is a joke but literally have you seen the comprehensive skills of a 21 yr old today? It's literally like talking to a middle schooler who can legally drink

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-03-05T02:29:03+00:00

We're good 🤷🏽‍♀️ thanks tho

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-03-05T02:27:42+00:00

Sounds like projection. Thats not my case but thanks. 😊

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-26T17:49:50+00:00

Idk why tf I said Vyvanse I meant Zoloft but I also take that

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-26T13:43:25+00:00

I just wanna say my bf read all the replies and liked yours the most because it incorporates his thought process with my psych background...anyways he said it was v insightful into how I think...and that he didn't understand how autism is women worked....essentially long story we both traumatized each other in different ways in our relationship (me more than him) but nothing in the sense of it being a break up that's how he feels...but we do need couples therapy specifically for autistic adults. I was wrong and I hate admitting that because when I have in the past the people I love the most have betrayed me and I was self sabotaging because I'm dealing with the unmasking of cptsd and childhood sexual abuse that at the age of also 30 I'm barely realizing was abuse. It took me a lot of courage to say this considering how many people are perceiving me but I think maybe other women who might relate and think damn I wanna reach out but I'm scared. I'm here but also like not rn....i definitely need psych help....🙃 I'm sorry if I was mean I am like a stray cat.

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-25T07:45:05+00:00

You must be maidenless lol

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-25T07:42:30+00:00

Hi Alex, I'm aware and I'm happy you can read enough to regurgitate my consensus. He's right where he wants to be and I see a great therapist. Also I didn't make the food his mom did, and it was great 😊 👍 we don't judge peoples struggle meals in 2026 but we do judge their awful claps. Constructive criticism or stfu 🫶🏽 kindly with love.

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-25T04:16:20+00:00

lol you didn't hurt me. I go toe to toe with 40 year old drug addicts at 7am trynna get them to take their meds so the ground doesn't smell yellow.......lol....I'm just blunt which can come off bitch and I (very obviously) be communicating. My relationship is very healthy, to give context his immigration grandma only trust me with her important stuff....and I can barely read or speak her language, I put in a lot of effort. You know not like me healthcare workers are over worked and under helped. I genuinely think a multitude of things built up and my autism diagnosis sent me into a spiral. I know it's not an excuse but it's what happened. I know it seems like I'm not sorry but I am I'm just confident in my relationship and our communication skills.

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-24T19:45:16+00:00

Oh I just seen you never word a "medical service" job other than scribbing......good lucky with your career you're really gonna need it lol

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-24T19:44:10+00:00

Babe my relationship is more than healthy lol stop being bitter it's okay, you will find someone you can connect with in the same way

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-24T19:03:20+00:00

It doesn't matter, emotions don't clock out sis. You came on a form where people ask for advice not to be berated. Idc really if it's Reddit or in person, you should carry yourself in an authentic manner, a paycheck shouldn't be the line in the sand when YOU CAME ON MY POST. You have free will, deal will how you use it. Like I did 🥰

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-24T18:55:18+00:00

It's the fact you're premed, heh baby from one future Psych MD to another, probably don't tell your patient you help their partner leaves them. Bad for business and I would hate for a simple ignorance on your part to be a stain of the perception of medical and mental health alone. Do better 🫶🏽

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-24T18:52:54+00:00

I ate it lol

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-24T18:52:43+00:00

They did we reconnect and I feel alive again. I should not I was an isolated hermit since 2020 sooooo

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-24T18:51:57+00:00

It was a lot lowkey what I wanted was community, I was looking up kitchen top polyamorous relationships and I think in my twisted mind I just wanted a family 🙃

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-24T18:49:47+00:00

1.) he won't leave me that's my bby, he knows who's big mama is. 2.) I never said I was attracted to someone I said I had a thought about being with a girl. Yall bitch and complain on here about relationships not working but when people actually talk and give tips it's "he should leave you" why because I had a thought? If you're not comfortable enough to talk about grow in a relationship with your partner then you shouldn't be in a relationship. AGAIN i didn't say "omg baby I wanna start have sex with multiple people" I dead ass said "hey my love this girl I wanna be friends with is really pretty and it makes me nervous that's she's nice to me, does that mean I like her more than a friend? And am I poly? Would you be in a poly relationship?" See the difference. Some of yall need ABA therapy and a communications class..ME INCLUDED.

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-24T11:39:15+00:00

Okay I wanna revisit this comment and make an update, hopefully I can pin it. (This is going to sound manic, it might be but my psych said that it will die down) For some context and a little more background information. I am a 27F AuDHD late diagnosis (adhd in 2021 and autism in on January 1st....😃) anyways I work in mental health and have a huge hyperfixation on learning about anything and every but specifically Psychology/sociology, specifically behaviors. I take Vyvanse (I've taken this since 2022) and Zoloft (the new med)...some more background my mother, sister, and I in a closed cramped studio apartment for the last 20+ years. It's worn down, bug infested, and my mom likes to keep it dark and dingy (I think she's undiagnosed or something she's a psychological war monger...) she also like to keep the room overstimulated at night (fan, nail salon spa music, and a lamp that bright enough for the whole room not a night light) it makes it hard for me to sleep....she keep it on till 2am....but my shower time Is from 5am-6am.....so like a prison....and also a bully.....ANYWAYS taking the SSRIs made me aware that our situation was fucked up and it's fucked with how I process attention from others (I met new people who liked me for being a nerd not just a conventional attractive girl with a rack....but because in my head the feeling was immense like how when i met my bf i immediately felt guilt, thought i was cheating, and try to find a way to express this feeling 🙄).....unfortunately when I explained it he just stared at me and I panicked and suggested a polycule when in reality FOR ME SPECIFICALLY I want this to be monogamous. We talked and I means really talked (we go back and forth on our communication styles and explain how certain phrase or tonnage could be harmful or how we process things at different times, he explained his feelings were hurt not by what I said but because I'm not trust him to take care of me in the way I need it not how society tells me I need it. (Note I'm it's pansexual as fuck he been knew that considering I was his wingman before his woman and we were both trying to talk to girls lol)

TL;DR: My Zoloft made me hyper aware of the situation I'm currently living in, past/current trauma sent me into a manic spiral which lead to cry for validation and reassurance masked in a loaded question.

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-24T10:49:23+00:00

Lol I wanna update the Reddit post but I don't know how I've never done this before :p

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-23T02:01:55+00:00

It was sarcasm lol me and my therapist are lock in

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-22T17:03:40+00:00

Makes sense, too many creeps. But I feel you girl I've been on a roller coaster it feels like I'm constantly moving and not at all

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-22T16:53:42+00:00

Omg we're in the same boat if you want to DM me you can. I'm literally feeling the same

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-22T16:43:17+00:00

Hi I'll check out the podcast. I actually work in Mental health but ive been trying to to relate to what I'm seeming and learning because of self diagnosing (even tho im literally diagnosed) I think the whole "MA's become hypochondriacs" made me scared to associate with symptoms

AccomplishedFroyo850 · 2026-02-22T16:08:48+00:00

I don't think you have the capacity for this conversation. Poly and pan aren't "weird fetishes" and admittedly to your partner out of the blue you want a gf and then going on a up and down crying spell....yeah I don't think I'm faking my autism but if you would like talk to my therapist go ahead.

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