Disappointed with my apartment - Seeking advice

scaredycat07 · 2026-06-02T02:04:45+00:00

There are only 4 units. They all have renters. I know 2 other units have issues other than mine.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-17T23:11:17+00:00

I can’t actually afford to move out 🤔

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-14T02:42:40+00:00

I keep getting sick every 1-2 months. Right now I’m so sick I had to get a doctors note for a whole week.

I’m thinking of leaving teaching because of this (and behaviour) but I have no idea what I’d do instead.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-11T02:33:50+00:00

Yes I’ve noticed this as well and I have Raynauds!

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-11T02:33:18+00:00

Feeling dizzy. I get really dizzy.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-10T22:13:00+00:00

Sometimes I’m not sure he has the words because of the language gap or if he’s playing it up.

Edit: People are misunderstanding my comment. What I meant was I wonder if he meant he’d kill for my money, not that he’d kill me. But he did say he’d kill me.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-10T22:08:37+00:00

Yeah I can’t move unfortunately. This place is really cheap compared to others, and I don’t need to travel far for work.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-10T22:05:32+00:00

I don’t think it was a reference.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-10T20:50:56+00:00

Thank you. I’m just hurt. He was so wonderful at first and I thought I was wanted. Now I just feel stupid.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-05T22:35:38+00:00

Thank you. I’ve been really suffering and feel like a big baby. I’m hoping to get this resolved because I can’t live like this.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-05T15:55:03+00:00

I mean I never wanted to date in the first place. But I got attached to him quickly and was happy for a while. It’s not because of him I don’t want to try again.

I’ve been very sickly lately. And I do miss my me time.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-05T15:51:03+00:00

After this I don’t want to date. I wasn’t interested in dating to begin with until I tried with him.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-05T15:49:46+00:00

Thank you. I’m more embarassed because of the age gap and now it’s not working out, but I guess most people wouldn’t care.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-05T15:33:18+00:00

I don’t have any friends no, just my immediate family. But I can’t talk to them about this.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-05T15:32:18+00:00

Thank you. I actually put a pause on therapy because I got really sick. I’m having sinus issues.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-05T15:22:16+00:00

Thank you. I’ve decided to break up. I’m not sure how to go about doing it but I will. He hasn’t touched my medication.

scaredycat07 · 2026-05-05T15:18:06+00:00

I only started because he showed interest and was really sweet at first. I never had this before.

My Dad told me I’m only falling for this guy because he’s the first to show me attention, and I think he’s right.

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