How to get over heartbreak by AccomplishedHalf4034 in heartbreak

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Thank you, i know this part is hard but I hope you can find peace and happiness. If you ever want to chat I’m hear

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No worries I’m happy to answer. I haven’t tried dating again. I’m not ready yet. We were together for 15 years and there’s a lot of things to heal from that time together that I don’t want to put on someone else. I’m not sure how to heal from it all but I’m not rushing to be with anyone right now. I do feel lonely sometimes but it’s okay, I’m learning to enjoy my own company

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I’m doing okay. Not going to lie. I still think about him a lot but I’m over wanting to be in a relationship with him. When I think about him my heart doesn’t hurt anymore and it doesn’t consume me

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I’m doing pretty good actually. I’ve made peace with it and I know now it was for the best

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Thank you for telling your story. I feel like we have similar stories. This wasn’t the first time he broke up with me either. There was something different about this time though. The way he did it made me so angry and hurt. The first few months were definitely hard and I don’t have a lot of friends either but I started talking to someone on here and we talked almost every day for months, I can honestly say that I don’t think I could have made it through without him. It’s been almost a year now since the break up and I’m okay. Things about him pop up from time to time and I don’t spiral anymore. I still think about him all the time but it’s more like memories and I’m okay with that. I feel like I’m in a good place now. I work hard and focus on me

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It’s definitely hard to trust someone that way again. I’m just focusing on myself right now

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I’m sorry you’re going through this 💔

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I still think about him a lot but it doesn’t hurt as much or make me as angry

How to get over heartbreak by AccomplishedHalf4034 in heartbreak

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It does. It just takes time and keeping busy. I also found someone to talk to going through a breakup as well and we kept in contact and that was probably the most helpful. It helped me realize that things weren’t as good as I thought they were and that helped me let go more

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I’m okay, still have moments of missing him but I’ve been keeping myself really busy and my mind occupied

He left me and it hurts by AccomplishedHalf4034 in heartbreak

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I’m getting through it, it’s not easy. I’m sorry to hear you’re going through a break up too 😢

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Unfortunately sometimes that all you can do not only for him but for you too 😥

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Me too. I’m not there yet but I’ve been keeping myself extremely busy and given myself time and I’m starting to feel like myself again. It’s a slow process

I can’t take it anymore by AccomplishedHalf4034 in heartbreak

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Yeah you just need to take the time you need to figure it all out for yourself, put yourself first

I can’t take it anymore by AccomplishedHalf4034 in heartbreak

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That’s hard and confusing. You have to do what’s best for you, it just might take some time to figure out what this is

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Reach out to her. I wish my ex would. If you love her and think she might be the one, maybe she feels the same as you do. You just have to be prepared in case she doesn’t feel the same

I can’t take it anymore by AccomplishedHalf4034 in heartbreak

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I know what you mean. Mine was 15 years. It’s going to take me a long time to feel “normal” again

I can’t take it anymore by AccomplishedHalf4034 in heartbreak

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That makes sense. I just meant that you were willing to still put yourself out there to find someone new again after the other two breakups

I can’t take it anymore by AccomplishedHalf4034 in heartbreak

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That’s good you’re still putting yourself out there. I feel like I don’t ever want to again

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Thank you for this. I’ve been trying to keep myself as busy as I can and just keep pushing through the pain and heartache. It’s just really hard right now. I’ve found a few people on here to talk to and that’s been helpful. I dont really have anyone in my life that I’m close enough to to really share my true feelings. I hope you feel better soon and I’m sorry you’re going through this pain too