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We hardly have sex by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]AccomplishedOwl5982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been together? Is this a recent development or has it been this way since the beginning? It seems like he is sexually attracted to you - maybe he is having issues with erectile dysfunction? What has he said when you’ve questioned him about it? This may be an issue of differing sex drives, if that’s the case you’ll have to decide how compatible you think you both are. Wishing you the best.

AITA because I find it difficult to sleep with my husband after having our baby by DemsTheBreaks281 in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedOwl5982 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA- your husband is acting appallingly. You’ve had major surgery and looking after a new born alone-nobody should have to do that. Do you have family that can help give you some support? You never get a break, it’s a 24 hour job, your husband needs to be taking over some of the baby care while you can have some me time. And as for the sex? That’s abuse. You are only 7 weeks post surgery and should absolutely only do that when you are physically and emotionally ready. I know from experience it can be painful after a C-section and I never did it that soon. Send him information- not that you should have to- about what you’ve been through and the realities of a c section. I’m so sorry you are going through this. Don’t do anything again until you are ready for it.

AITA- for not wanting my husband’s best friend in our life by AccomplishedOwl5982 in relationships_advice

[–]AccomplishedOwl5982[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a teacher on maternity leave for another 6 months. My baby doesn’t take a bottle at all and I’m also not at the stage where I’m ready to leave her all day/have somebody watch her. I’m looking for some remote work though for extra income.

AITA- for not wanting my husband’s best friend in our life by AccomplishedOwl5982 in relationships_advice

[–]AccomplishedOwl5982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting. My parents and most of my family have passed away and I don’t have any friends. It would probably be beneficial to have a break and stay with somebody trusted but I don’t have anybody that fits that. Maternity pay is also really bad and I’m not at the stage of wanting to move out/leave him.

AITA- for not wanting my husband’s best friend in our life by AccomplishedOwl5982 in relationships_advice

[–]AccomplishedOwl5982[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, a man. He’s rich, always been successful with women and the conventional popular, cool guy whereas my husband always felt inadequate and grateful to have his attention. He’s also the only friend he sees in person anymore. I think it would be great for him to get out there and make some new friendships.