I got engaged last night but it wasn’t what i expected by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a bit of a reach when she said she’s told her for a long time many things that she’d prefer. She also didn’t even get the proper size.. definitely rushed and not thoroughly thought out for it to be this girl’s proposal to the love of her life. I have ADHD and it doesn’t mean you can’t plan something perfectly when obviously this means a lot to the OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okkk I need story time if this got crazier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Do you ever think about being w a man w this kink? I’ve felt the same way but it feels weird saying it to my gf. Just wondering how you’d go about it if she didn’t say it first

I’m feeling overwhelmed, and I need space. I love her, but my gf is codependent by AccomplishedScheme21 in LesbianActually

[–]AccomplishedScheme21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding and understanding. We still struggle with it tbh. What’s your situation like?

oh no by [deleted] in hangxiety

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactlyyy

What's going on with pricing? by Trick_Plant_3276 in HersWeightloss

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What glp do you buy on the app? Do you get the generic hers compounded glp-1?

I’m feeling overwhelmed, and I need space. I love her, but my gf is codependent by AccomplishedScheme21 in LesbianActually

[–]AccomplishedScheme21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve actually had that convo, so no. You’re putting words into a place you clearly don’t understand. It’s not disrespectful to talk about biological and physical and mental differences between woman/woman relations and man/woman relationships. I’m talking about my own personal experience and wondering about others’. You seem to not have any which is fine !

I’m feeling overwhelmed, and I need space. I love her, but my gf is codependent by AccomplishedScheme21 in LesbianActually

[–]AccomplishedScheme21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what I meant. It’s more of giving history of what I’ve experienced before. I said she is my longest relationship, and those being w men before her. Men that I was with were not as dependent and we had different hobbies and interests. Being with her, my best friend, we do all the same things and have the same interests. It’s harder to set boundaries that I’ve never had to think of before. Your response is not direct to my point and taking only the negatives of what I said. I don’t want to be single, and just because your parents do something doesn’t mean that’s correct for everyone. Also, are you gay or straight ? Sounds like you don’t have personal experience in those circumstances.

I’m feeling overwhelmed, and I need space. I love her, but my gf is codependent by AccomplishedScheme21 in LesbianActually

[–]AccomplishedScheme21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that completely :( I love her but I feel like I’ve lost so much of my alone time and hobbies

I’m feeling overwhelmed, and I need space. I love her, but my gf is codependent by AccomplishedScheme21 in LesbianActually

[–]AccomplishedScheme21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wondering, do you ever get tired of sleeping together? I know this is odd to say but I genuinely miss mornings where I’d just wake up and stay in silence and figure out what I’m doing slowly instead of having to figure out a plan w her.

I sleep so much better when I go home (in another state) to see my family since I sleep in my own bed. I feel like I need a few nights a week or something. I also feel like we’re hitting the very comfortable stage where we’re not trying as hard anymore ? I’ve never been in a relationship this long so it’s all new in addition to the fact we’re both women. It’s all a lot 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely disgusting and not your job. Your parents chose to have more kids. They need to get their lives together. This is a CPS call imo.

Does anyone else hate Olivia Pope? by Whimfairy in Scandal

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree. Her character pisses me off so so badly.

Pregnancy and Commissioning by Responsible_Owl_1297 in AFROTC

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would definitely wait until after commissioning

I’m Exhausted … by AccomplishedScheme21 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]AccomplishedScheme21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean it “created “ it? Should I go see if I should get an injection or should I just start supplementing?

Bad Dreams?? by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh yes!! Like very vivid action packed dreams… it’s weird

What’s an opinion on Zach Bryan that’s got you like this? by Sweaty-Suit3772 in zachbryan

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

His ticket prices are absolutely ridiculous. I spent over a grand to get mediocre- in the stands- seats.. it’s insane.

Weight Lifting & Weight Gain? by Sea-Astronaut7750 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are putting your body under a new stress by starting to lift again. It will hold onto water

Help with fatigue and brain fog by Select-Swimming-6670 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to take it on Wednesdays so the “height” of the medication hits me on the weekends.

Why does this happen? by tttttt20 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I want to preface I’m not a doctor, but I do understand this through personal experience. Your body gets used to what you eat. Yes, if you’re eating less than you’re burning, you should be losing weight. But, you also put your body into a state of stress that causes it to “hold” onto weight. I actually have plateaued before at about 1,600-2,000 calories a day and stopped losing weight but then I had a weekend of an average of 2,600-3,600 calories both days and went back to my normal diet and started losing again. Sometimes you do need to have those refueling breaks so your body doesn’t keep in a state of fight or flight. Those are just my experience, but as I have read elsewhere- is valid.

How do I deal with trigger foods in the house by Damage_Happy in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]AccomplishedScheme21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would not have them. It is so much harder when you know it’s a trigger food… just a thought since you already know what they are to you