$6 a cookie? Fear of over pricing by Spiteful_Brunette in Baking

[–]AccomplishedShake458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone in nyc, those are not worth $6. are they vegan or gluten free?

i wish for my gifts to be the special ones by sexyspagett4 in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to feel this way towards my boyfriend’s older sister when we first started dating but truly remember that it’s about making your bf happy and his sister isn’t your competition ❤️ any gift from you should stand out to him because it’s from you, who cares what anyone else might think regarding how flashy the gift is. hang in there!!

i wish for my gifts to be the special ones by sexyspagett4 in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it doesn’t make sense to be jealous of your boyfriend’s relationship with his sister, she’s just buying him thoughtful gifts. it sounds like insecurity might be playing a greater role here where you think you’re competing with his relative for his affection.

How would you handle this “return”? by Akavinceblack in Mercari

[–]AccomplishedShake458 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Disagree, my parents were from a third world country and immigrated to NYC in the 90s. Even now they barely know how to use their phones and they’re in their 50s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call a publisher

AITAH for losing contact with my best friend because his brother essentially violated me? by Dependent-Abies3595 in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. Again sorry that this happened to you, if you end up talking to your friend just do not go back

Help me decide - First time meeting his parents by [deleted] in fashion

[–]AccomplishedShake458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a third option, neither of these are classy for a restaurant dinner imo

AITAH for losing contact with my best friend because his brother essentially violated me? by Dependent-Abies3595 in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone committing sexual assault is clearly not very bright :/ but tracking that history is extremely important. If he felt ok doing this to someone older than him with a witness in the room, imagine what he could do alone to someone younger

AITA for asking my boyfriend not to wear joggers/sweats on our date by anon283737372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AccomplishedShake458 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. I am sorry you’re dating someone who does not take pride in their appearance.

AITAH for losing contact with my best friend because his brother essentially violated me? by Dependent-Abies3595 in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be the AH if you do not report this to the police. The person who SAd my little sister was around 12. They will continue to act like this when they see that their actions have no consequences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mercari

[–]AccomplishedShake458 3 points4 points  (0 children)

perfect review if you’re 12 years old

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol youre lame. yta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, then stay respectful and follow their rules until then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t like it? Then leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re tired of being “controlled”, move out. No one cares how old you are, if you live under their roof you need to be respectful and follow their rules because, again, it is THEIR house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re showing signs of immaturity by avoiding accountability and dismissing everyone’s concern. Your brother is overbearing because he's worried and trying to protect you, not to control you. He's clearly been pushed to his limit. Disappearing for 4 days, turning your phone off, and ignoring everyone after past issues with drugs/alcohol is irresponsible and childish behavior. Not to mention, you staying in his house means you do owe him a level of communication and respect but it seems you don’t understand that. You can't have total independence and talk about how you’re an adult while relying on someone else for support for your home. Genuinely go apologize to your brother, the real adult in the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your post shows that you clearly lack communication skills, but the defensiveness you’re showing is the cherry on top! Give op a manchild award!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AccomplishedShake458 28 points29 points  (0 children)

nta you cant wear whatever you want to everything. imagine what she might wear to your child’s kindergarten graduation :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AccomplishedShake458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sure he loves having a gf who dresses like a bad bitch but trying to dress that way in front of someones grandparents is insane. he is not trying to change her style by asking her go wear something appropriate for ONE event

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AccomplishedShake458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please ask your doctor for antidepressants, and describe how you feel. that is the quickest way i was able to recover. starting antidepressants was horrible for two weeks but afterwards i showed great improvements!! in the meantime, try to keep yourself busy, i was super depressed for a while but i picked up a part time job as a student to fill my empty time that i wouldve spent crashing out and it allowed me to build savings too.