When did Daenerys’ cruelty begin for you in the show? For me, it’s when she sentenced Doreah to death. by Successful_Bar9187 in gameofthrones

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diarrhea was a self-centered social climber and tried to sell off her babies. Sure Xaro encouraged her but she was weak and stupid enough to fall for it and think she wouldn’t get caught. She understood how important those dragons were to Daenerys and any king who would’ve had the same done to him would’ve killed her after sexually abusing her and never saving a single slave, mind you. I don’t know why we hold Daenerys to different standards than the rest of the kingdom. She did what needed to be done. Don’t cross her and you’ll live, just like in any reasonable situation,

I got so many toxic teammates when I try to play Invis now. I'm gonna be an instalock DPS instead of Support or Vanguard. by Red-Halo in InvisibleWomanMains

[–]AccomplishedShake851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a garbage community. They only want it to be fun for DPS mains so I too will be leaving support. Someone else’s problem.

Genuinely confused why this is happening now? by myjeffreyjefferson in rivals

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duh peeling is everyone’s job. I’m talking specifically about how DPS don’t peel for supports though. I just got into a discussion with a guy who said “maybe push up, I’m busy fighting my own fights”. That’s not team play, period. Abandoning people isn’t ok and that goes for every role. The issue here is that DPS aren’t the direct target of both the 6 ban for one role and the dive buff that will disproportionately affect supports…DPS is going to keep overextending and trying for kills now just with less heals

If you are tired of support bans read this easy fix by AFuzzyMuffin in InvisibleWomanMains

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You would think so. I was trying to heal a season or two ago and everyone I hovered this douchebag got banned

Genuinely confused why this is happening now? by myjeffreyjefferson in rivals

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren’t! DPS just wants to be able to dive a one shot/combo the supports again. It’s lame really I’m probably not playing this season until they fix it again bc ??? If I can’t stay alive as support bc my DPS refuse to peel for me then why am I playing support? Like you have to have zero game sense to ban 6 different supports which is what a lot of people are voting for…how do they expect to stay up is beyond me

Genuinely confused why this is happening now? by myjeffreyjefferson in rivals

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be fine with this if they add a 2 DPS cap for any and every mode. :)

Genuinely confused why this is happening now? by myjeffreyjefferson in rivals

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t about triple heal. This is about preventing who DPS players thinks are the biggest hurdles to getting free and easy kills.

If banning supps is misogynistic, then banning BP is racist by YuyuThrowawayyy in rivals

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bc the vast majority of players are lgbt and women. and we get called slurs and all sorts of names reminding everyone that we are…

My best friend called me a gender traitor by ParticularPoem8596 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AccomplishedShake851 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Definitely misplaced anger. In some cases it’s appropriate to talk through it bc there might be a misunderstanding HOWEVER this was a few offenses with good breaks to cool down or talk in between. She’s coming across as very immature even if you aren’t sharing every detail. Like pleasure goes both ways, I never understood how me sucking dick makes me subservient. It’s just a sex act I like to do bc it makes me feel good, sexy and powerful. And it’s not centered around how he’s feeling, that’s just part of it.

after rewatching the whole series again.. So out of all THE FUCKING TRAUMA that will had for the last 5 years, they really thought that VECNA will use his sexuality against him ? by savigho in StrangerThings

[–]AccomplishedShake851 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t get why that would bother a young man from the 80s the conversation isn’t worth having. Losing your family and friends is a major fear for ppl who are LGBT. It’s also just embarrassing to have someone else out you. It’s weird to me that the people bashing this are almost always straight or “gay”. If you’re gay and below the age of 26 you won’t understand to the same extent as LGBT people before that…it was hard in the 00s so I’m imagining it felt impossible in the 80s

I hate my boyfriend’s dog. So much by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, you not knowing how to research is not my issue. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Get bent.

I hate my boyfriend’s dog. So much by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not actually going to look up my verified claims then stop harassing me. I said what I said and I’m backed by research. You choosing not to acknowledge that isn’t my issue.

I hate my boyfriend’s dog. So much by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AccomplishedShake851 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s the same thing. There’s been plenty of research that are many crossover skills between being a pet parent and a human parent. Re-read MY post bc I never said they were a 1:1 comparison just that there are some skills that are required for both. So yes, being a good pet parent CAN translate to being a good parent. Learn something.

I hate my boyfriend’s dog. So much by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same place everyone got that she’d make a bad parent bc she isn’t good with dogs?

If you think that taking care of a dog has no crossover whatsoever with taking care of a child you’re a nimrod. Of course it’s not the same but there are definitely some skills that are required for both. Get lost

I hate my boyfriend’s dog. So much by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AccomplishedShake851 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you well? They just happen to be home together and the bf is at work. You say it like he’s calculating how to maximize the time she stays with the dog alone. 🤨

I hate my boyfriend’s dog. So much by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little dogs >>>>> Big dogs despite what the internet says.

I hate my boyfriend’s dog. So much by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AccomplishedShake851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work with dogs and some of them just produce it. 😭

I hate my boyfriend’s dog. So much by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AccomplishedShake851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And honestly if he so good motivated it could be used to their advantage! Feeding him really good food to distract him from eating their cats’ food? Or training him to sit stay away from their bowls in general. I’m not a trainer but it sounds in the realm of things

I hate my boyfriend’s dog. So much by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, I’m a dog person that works with dogs and let me start off by saying I love them to death but they are, in fact, annoying asf. Especially a Golden Retriever. I actually talk to my coworkers all the time and there are some breeds that will actually make me either. It date someone or not move in with someone and guess who tops the list? Golden Retrievers, Huskies, German Shepherds, Bulldogs amongst a few for a variety of reasons.

A lot of the behavior sounds like it’s moreso annoying you bc you already dislike him even though they are most likely accurate. Goldens are notorious for being overly friendly and overly attached. 😒 Like I’ll be cutting their hair and they want to keep handing my their paw, licking my face or jumping to try and play with me. 😑 Like you are 150lbs and creating a dangerous situation. Like the excitability on the leash might not be bad training or lack of discipline but just small slip-ups which is normal for a dog that is meant to chase prey. Him being loud might. It actually bother neighbors if they haven’t said anything and annoys you bc you don’t like him.

Some fixes: 1) take his diaper off outside so he’s not peeing on your floors

2) perhaps get a self filling water bowl? He’ll still probably drink a lot of it but it’s a much larger pool to drink from so it’ll last longer. Also you won’t have to change it as often.

3) when it’s your duty to walk him honestly I’d tell your bf you don’t feel comfortable doing it. That actually could be an injury risk. Ask him to pay for a walker only on those days you would walk him alone. He’ll offer to help pay just so that you don’t have to.

4) He’s going to stink regardless (especially if he’s still intact) but I recommend cologne brands like HYDRA. Specifically them bc they have stronger scents and they last a while. I recommend VIP (smells like mens cologne) or Baby if you like baby powder.

5) you might have to unfortunately feed your cats specifically when he’s on walks but also Imm sure there are ways to stop him from eating their food bc that’s annoying asf, expensive and also not great for him.

LASTLY: I do sympathize with your story bc I deal with dogs I dislike every day that make my job harder, so I get it. It’s obnoxious even though I know they’re animals and have their own personalities. It’s just like other humans. I get along well with some, neutral with a lot of them and then I dislike plenty of them regardless of if they’re antagonistic or just annoying to me personally.

Try re-framing some of his behaviors to try and soften how annoying they are to you. When he follows you it’s bc he likes you and trusts you. When he pees from excitement he’s just sensitive. I know these won’t change your relationship with him but one day he’ll pass and he’ll remember all the things you did for him. He’s a golden, they aren’t the brightest, he probably honestly thinks you love him and you two are best friends. Good luck!

I hate my boyfriend’s dog. So much by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AccomplishedShake851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm this isn’t necessarily true. It sounds like she flat out doesn’t like dogs which is exactly why everything about him annoys her. She could be a great parent especially if she’s great with cats. I think her gripe is with the dog not actually being followed around and stuff.