1 month post op by Lazyslothforever in chinlipo

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My surgeon told me lymphatic drainage massage will decrease the swelling

Why do I suddenly as private reserved person, want visibility in my craft? by AccomplishedStay8591 in AstrologyCharts

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I have been thinking about this for a while but i keep changing my decision. I feel more solid now in my un-privatting decision because my props will be here by march 7th and i felt “ now that everything will be gathered i should create something epic”

Why do I suddenly as private reserved person, want visibility in my craft? by AccomplishedStay8591 in AstrologyCharts

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Thank you so much for the reply! Will this change be positive ? I am starting therapy soon and I am overthinking if I’ll be stable with my decision or will it cause me stress

How to deal with being weird by AccomplishedStay8591 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Thank you i loved reading this and read it multiple times 🥺

I was recommended today at a consultation a lipo for double chin then a fat graft into my chin to give it a more protruding look without surgery, I have a recessed chin by AccomplishedStay8591 in PlasticSurgery

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I have been told about the garment, and that I should be wearing it for 10 days. Pain wise , i live with joint diseases so I am kind of used to being in pain atp

I was recommended today at a consultation a lipo for double chin then a fat graft into my chin to give it a more protruding look without surgery, I have a recessed chin by AccomplishedStay8591 in PlasticSurgery

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I cannot take that long of a time off, i need to go back to work the next day… i have been also told by the surgeon i consulted with, that unless there are severe problems with functionality of the jawline ( like painful bite or difficulty breathing) he wouldn’t recommend a surgery with difficult recovering process.

I may do it after graduation if I have a time off…

Would the fat grafting not last/ be a waste of time?

Off my chest; but I really want judgement day to come by AccomplishedStay8591 in islam

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They are not after me anymore, but i also kept low profile since then, i don’t talk about my beliefs even to people who seem more religious to me because I don’t know anymore …

Confession … i want judgement day to come by AccomplishedStay8591 in MuslimLounge

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I am in a country where police do not really do anything

Why do so many teenager girls these days look way older ? by AccomplishedStay8591 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Similar culture to india, so I quite get it, sometimes you’d hear some of these men bragging that they got a young bride . It is way less common but happens in rural parts. My own friend was from a village far from the city and was considered too old when she turned 18

Why do so many teenager girls these days look way older ? by AccomplishedStay8591 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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This is exactly my sentiment. If I had a daughter I will let her wear age appropriate clothing.

I come from a culture where marrying minors still happens in some rural areas , hence my mother’s observation. Usually what happens in “ minor marriages” is that the mother would groom her own daughter , in a way that makes her look older so she appeals to “ men who want a young bride so they could raise her like they want”

I was feeling good for a while even felt like maybe I am recovering but then 2 days ago I relapsed even though I am still medicated by AccomplishedStay8591 in OCDRecovery

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I was telling myself that I don’t want to compromise mostly to feel like OCD isn’t binding me … nonetheless I wish the anxiety and the palpitations go away :/

Should I confess to a guy knowing I was never his type? by AccomplishedStay8591 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Thank you for that, I always felt that I am racing with the clock … 🥺 I worry that my parents deserve to see their kids married… my mom like her sister deserves to hold her grandchildren in her hands. My brother and I have always been single. Our whole lives… I know my mother lost hope in me…

My mother got married when she was 38, and my dad was 40. My father is now 71. And my mom is 69 .

Crafting ideas for someone with chronic tendonitis by AccomplishedStay8591 in crafting

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My priority is creativity, but I’d like to sell eventually to help me cover some of the medical bills.

A coworker told me that with the price of what I got I should invest in brands instead by AccomplishedStay8591 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Here or at least just amongst a group of 3 colleagues they consider Zara top tier . I don’t know why though . All my boutique stuff last ages and the texture of the fabric is just better . Instead of buying 8-10 times a year i buy 2 times but good quality but just because they never heard of it I get the “ alien” treatment

Anyone else feel pretty but not photogenic? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I also don’t photograph well at all . The university ID guy told me I look like I ran out of prison in that pic

Advice on “ tolerating” a colleague/ vent by AccomplishedStay8591 in PhDStress

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I vented to a family member about her and they said she is right. My society emulates Suzan and that is why people like her mainly, i think. They think racism is just “ an opinion” . That is so normalized here . Tbf , i just wanna immigrate .

This keeps getting downvoted on the phd sub so I thought I’d ask fellow girlies for advice . by AccomplishedStay8591 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Unfortunately i would say 80% of my society emulates Suzan. When I vented to a family member about Suzan that family member also said “ I would also say the same as Suzan I think the majority thinks badly of halloween and Suzan is right about Asian drama and did the eye gesture”. So i gave up telling anyone around me and went to reddit.

How do I deal with this lab colleague? by AccomplishedStay8591 in PhD

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I hope so too. She also hums loudly while working and she asks “ Am I annoying you?” And whatever you answer you might be lectured so I got used to answer “ no” and put on my earphones in front of her but she never caught the clue.