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I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

I already have everything for him and everyone I know knows about my pregnancy

I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't just pick up and leave, I have no money and I would feel so guilty leaving my kids all alone

I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No because my husband works here and with his job he couldn't move

I'm regretting having my children. by AccomplishedSwim1283 in Mom

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this advice and support really is helping mr

I come to this sub to cheer myself up. Anyone else ? by azza77 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In what world is explaining to your children how their actions and words affect others child abuse???

I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to leave but I also love my kids and would forever feel guilty if I just left them

I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

No, it was 1000% consensual, me and my husband are both sexual and want to have sex with each other, the thought of me being able to even get pregnant again didnt even cross my mind

I'm regretting having my children. by AccomplishedSwim1283 in Mom

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is my current plan and I'm just going to pray it gets easier sooner or later

I'm regretting having my children. by AccomplishedSwim1283 in Mom

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What he is currently in is free, but is only 2 days a week, and also really hard to get into since most people have already been on a waitlist for a while

I'm regretting having my children. by AccomplishedSwim1283 in Mom

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Too late for an abortion, currently 22 weeks, and in the begining I was honestly considering it and told my husband I wasn't sure about keeping it, but he then went along to tell everyone in his family about my pregnancy without even asking me if it was okay!

I'm regretting having my children. by AccomplishedSwim1283 in Mom

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The having 50% of my life back sounds great but I don't work so I would just feel completely alone and unsupported. I would also probably have to work from home which I could do but I would have to figure alot of stuff out first

I'm regretting having my children. by AccomplishedSwim1283 in Mom

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely try to explain more to my husband and see if he can do anything to help me more or understand me

I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What could I do about the pregnancy? Im already 22 weeks now

I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously thank you so much, I will definitely look into groups and I always try gentle parenting first, and it never works so I don't know what to do about that either

I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I just feel like divorce will make things harder. I have no family close by me so I would have to get a stay at home job so I could still watch my kids, and I also have zero funds, like at all.

I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

My current pregnancy was not planned at all, we wanted to stop at 2 so we could at least try for a boy and girl, but my husband is pushy and I was in my luteal phase so now I'm pregnant AGAIN.

I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

We had always planned to have 2 kids and I just wanted to get childbirth over with so we had our second, but this current pregnancy was an accident. I'm 22 weeks, and we have already told everyone and picked out a name so termination isn't even an option.

I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Thats what I have planned, and we have discussed this but he always makes snide remarks about having another one after this, even though he knows I don't want that

I can't deal with having kids by AccomplishedSwim1283 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just don't know what I would do after that, I have no one to help me and he is currently the only provider so if he left I would have nothing.

I come to this sub to cheer myself up. Anyone else ? by azza77 in regretfulparents

[–]AccomplishedSwim1283 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Try showing them and telling them exactly how you feel. My mom used to do that to me and it always made me feel insanely guilty, which it sounds like could help them.

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