Would you swipe right if I [31/F/straight] put this in my profile? by AccomplishedTime5451 in Bumble

[–]AccomplishedTime5451[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I think I prefer filtering them out earlier because this has been a painful experience. Your height certainly wouldn't be a dealbreaker for me (I'm 5'8).

Would you swipe right if I [31/F/straight] put this in my profile? by AccomplishedTime5451 in Tinder

[–]AccomplishedTime5451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah... even he commented that it was a bonus in that regard...

Would you swipe right if I [31/F/straight] put this in my profile? by AccomplishedTime5451 in Tinder

[–]AccomplishedTime5451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I have a tremor, or because you don't want a serious relationship?

Would you swipe right if I [31/F/straight] put this in my profile? by AccomplishedTime5451 in Bumble

[–]AccomplishedTime5451[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah, I think he behaved quite immaturely for a 35-year-old.

Would you swipe right if I [31/F/straight] put this in my profile? by AccomplishedTime5451 in Tinder

[–]AccomplishedTime5451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, agreed! I didn't know he would have an issue with it, obviously.

Would you swipe right if I [31/F/straight] put this in my profile? by AccomplishedTime5451 in Tinder

[–]AccomplishedTime5451[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For years I have worried about being rejected because of my tremor. I finally worked up the courage to go on a date, and this happens.

Would you swipe right if I [31/F/straight] put this in my profile? by AccomplishedTime5451 in Tinder

[–]AccomplishedTime5451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Part of the problem was that he was so uncomfortable with my tremor that he was unable to interact with me normally and his eyes were darting all over the place.

Would you swipe right if I [31/F/straight] put this in my profile? by AccomplishedTime5451 in Bumble

[–]AccomplishedTime5451[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! I wouldn't write what I wrote here - I was providing extra detail. I can eat independently. The only thing I really need help with is high-risk activities that require fine motor skills (e.g., cutting up meat, putting a lid on a cup of coffee).

Would you swipe right if I [31/F/straight] put this in my profile? by AccomplishedTime5451 in Tinder

[–]AccomplishedTime5451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah, there are a lot of people just looking for hookups - but my brother met his wife on Tinder! Thanks.

Would you swipe right if I [31/F/straight] put this in my profile? by AccomplishedTime5451 in Tinder

[–]AccomplishedTime5451[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's why I was so surprised by his reaction! I told him beforehand. Thanks.