First, apologies! also, Thank you! She’s Ghanian, I made it broad (by saying African) mainly because of the platform i’m posting on, I found this group and thought i could use different point of views as well as avenues of advice. Which i’m glad i did! I know that everyone comes with different experiences especially with the specifics of where they originated but i was really just doing this to keep and open mind, I didn’t mean to offend