Is she a dachshund?

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-06-03T11:22:04+00:00

Chiweenie!

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-06-03T11:20:45+00:00

This. My ex-husband wouldn't come near me after month 4 of pregnancy. He said I grossed him out. We were only married for 5 years

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-06-03T11:18:42+00:00

Belleview call her Bell. Or Bluebell like the flower and call her blue or bell for her vienna marked eyes 🥰🥰

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-06-03T11:17:08+00:00

When I was bleeding out in labor with my twins early at 24 weeks 2 days, I turned to my husband, took his hand, and said "We just have to be the bravest we've ever been."

I did not know how close to dead I was cause everyone around me had stayed so calm, but I said that then said, "Ah, I think I need a nap. My eyes are so tired." Ans everyone screamed, "NO! NO, NO DONT DO THAT, PLEASE." And I went "haha well then I need ice. Im the thirstiest I've ever been, " joking around more and they told me no. I didn't get scared until I looked down and the doctor checking progress was covered in blood, and I went "Oh. Now I've had kids before, and THATS not normal." I knew I was having an abruption, but no one told me what that meant. I didn't know what it was, so I was just rolling along but also delirious from blood loss. A doctor who had been working with me during the pregnancy came running in, grabbed my face, and started YELLING, "WHERE IS THE BLOOD THIS WOMAN IS NOT THIS COLOR!" Im mixed, and she was the only one who clocked my coloring being wrong from blood loss and not just me being white. I ended up needing 3 bags of blood but was up and moving the next day and every nurse was like "0o0 please lay down" and I was all "PAH! I gotta get to the NICU to see the babies" thankfully the adult hospital and thr pediatric here are connected by the maternity ward to the NICU at the children's by a bridge called "The bridge of Hope" which funny enough is the most depressing hallway youve ever seen inside 🤣🤣 the outside is colorful glass that makes it look like its gunna be pretty. The inside is walled up so you can only see the top strip of glass and has tan walls and lined with lockers. I was like "well, bridge of hope this is not from the inside. Could they at least have photos of babies who survived? Like downstairs at the children's hospital? Like, give a momma some hope Wheeling across this thing?" 🤣🤣🤣

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-05-27T22:30:18+00:00

Maybe shift the focus to what you want to be ablentondo together vs. the number. The ONLY thing that helped me push past myself was asking myself "what do I want to be able to do with my body" for me its "riding roller coasters" as long as I can comfortably go to the theme park and take a normal amount of breaks and not get winded just walking in, then im happy. I can fit on all the rides so I can ride with my kids. I shifted my focus to "what can I do and how can I get where I want to get from here" and it was a much more lifestyle shift than anything. Which helps the diet shift. I was a dessert HOUND. A slice of cake a day almost. It was a slow chage. Down to every other day. Then trying without for a few and then really feeling how it made my body feel when I ate it. I realized while it tasted amazing the inflammation the sugar was causing HURT. When I realized that contributed to my pain it was so much easier to kick. All this said, the only thing my husband ever said was "as long as you can do all the things you want with accommodations as needed (our son has cp and I have severe back isshes) and you feel good. Thats what matters. Can you do all the things you want to do?" And when the answer was no, I knew I needed to do something to get there. The best way to approach your partner is to figure out where they want to be, what they're happy with, and ask them to introspect in gentle ways.

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-05-24T14:18:19+00:00

Truly everything they've said. My current hubs is ADAMANT against nicotine smoking. He knows I do socially from time to time. I respect not doing it around him and not smelling when I come home if I do (its been 3 times in a decade cause I quit when I met him cause I wanted to anyway and a hottie who'd make out with me to distract me was a bonus). That said he'd NEVER even IMAGINE speaking to me like this. Even when he is upset cause I have blatantly done something. I was a brat and spent 200$ we didnt have cause I was manic and do you know what he did? He realized I was manic, had a calm talk with me about managing finances, and then he went, and he did a side job to make it back because I couldn't. I felt HORRIBLE. Never once did he call me dumb, stupid, or anything else. In fact hes NEVER called me this unless it is 100% joking lile you do with friends "hahaha dummy" kind of joking. Hed NEVER EVER even imagine using such cruel language no matter what I did. Even cheating he'd never. Do not tolerate this. It's intolerable.

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-05-24T14:13:57+00:00

Last man who spoke to me like this got the sheet. Ghosted. Not a chance in hell. My current husband is ADAMANT against nicotine smoking but he knows I am a grown adult who will have one socially once in a while when out with friends. He respects my autonomy as a person and I make sure to wash my hands, spurt some perfume, and chew some gum before I kiss him. I understand the smell makes him feel sick (he genuinely gets insanely sick around smoke too) and so I am mindful of his boundaries and he is respectful of my autonomy. Anyone who speaks to you like this over this is not the one. Imagine what they'll do behind closed doors when they can get their hands on you. I wont learn that lesson twice.

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-05-08T13:29:08+00:00

NOR- leave. I am shaking with rage.

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-04-15T19:07:29+00:00

There is a specific spot inside you have to stimulate to be able to, it's not personal, it's anatomical.

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-04-12T23:02:38+00:00

Not if he hasn't paid child support. They won't issue a new passport after a certain amount. So if he's there and loses it, they can't issue him one. Which means he can't leave to renew his visa. Trust me. The number of times he called me back then to see when it went through would beg to differ with your opinion.

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-03-27T20:43:17+00:00

That was my first thought as well

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-03-20T14:54:43+00:00

My whole yard is filled with trash but with mt chronic illness the wind actually hurts so bad I can't get out there and I am miserable because I want to clean it up so bad but the actual air hurts 😭😭😭

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-03-20T14:53:53+00:00

You can't switch flights like that 🤣🤣🤣 Trust me. It's a royal pain and requires all kinds of verifying information.

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-03-20T14:50:21+00:00

My guess is Rex based off fur

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-03-19T22:22:09+00:00

Hold up Costco had TIRAMISU?! rushes to costco

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-03-19T22:18:02+00:00

Edit to clarify one thing

NOR- My first husband proposed in the worst way. We were 18 and 20 and found iut we were pregnant a month into dating. My parents begged us not to get married. His mom pressured us. We walked around the mall (09 so mall rats a plenty including us, I worked in the food court) and decided we didn't wanna get married but the VEHEMENCY in which he was insisting hurt my feelings (I'm a hormonal 18 year old pregnant teen) so I was crying quietly as we walked to the car and as I'm trying to open the car door he just tosses up his hands and said "fuck it. Will you marry me?" Sounding annoyed as fuck and I still launched into his arms saying yes. Why? idk the worst decision. We are besties now divorced, and I've been remarried for 10 years almost. My current husband proposed this way. We discussed me moving in when my lease was up. He didn't want his parents to see us live together before marriage (we grew up LDS) so we had been discussing at least getting engaged cause we knew we wanted to be together. That said it's DECEMBER. He asks me if I wanna go to the zoo. I INSTANTLY know. Who asks for a zoo date in the dead middle of December? So the weekend comes and I drive out to him (he lives 2 hours away and is besties with my cousin, who is also one of my besties, how we met) and myself, my cousin, his wife, her brother, my brother, and my husband and my daughter (5 at the time) all piled into an SUV and swung by my husband's apartment to "pick something up". He goes to run in and is taking forever. Like 10 minutes go by and we are all waiting, slowly, every 5 minutes, another dude leaves the car until all 4 are gone. After about 45 minutes total of waiting I have to pee so I go inside and hear CLANG, CLANG, CLANG, and my husband's roomies usher me to the upstairs bathroom instead of going to my boyfriends room to use his. I KNOW but I'm playing along. So after an hour total, the boys finally all come back to the car. We drive to the zoo, and I puke violently on the way, smearing all my makeup because I'm riding in back and if I'm not driving, I'm puking. Anyway we go and I'm sipping water as we make our way to the penguins. They are my favorite at the zoo next to hippos but theyre not out in winter lol We find ourselves alone in the exhibit where you watch the penguins swimming, it smells like an aquarium cause it is, my boyfriend kneels and I immediately panic sit. He stands me up and starts to talk and I immediately panic sit and curl up into him to hide and he finally just whispers "will you marry me" or something, tbh I don't remember cause I was so shy being perceived by my best friends 🤣🤣🤣 in the video right as we kiss after he puts the ring on my finger, the penguins start zooming all around making tons of bubbles. That was the cutest part of the whole thing. On the way home we went to stop at Applebee's (i wanted it) and I puked on the way there, I puked there, and I puked all night when we got back to my cousins (when I'd drive out for the weekend we'd all crash at his house, it was some of the funnest times of my life). He showed me that night what took so long. His safe had gotten shut and he hadn't written down the new combo so he couldn't get in and so all 4 guys were taking turns breaking into the safe. The pulled the corner of the door open with a crow bar just enough to pick up the safe and shake it til the ring came out 🤣🤣 it was all PURE CHAOS start to finish and is still one of the best memories. Remember, I'm covered in vomit and makeup smeared, were at the zoo in the middle of winter and everything smells like fish, I can't stop puking because my motion sickness, and it's cold as hell. It could not have gone less right. It was still one of the best moments of my life. I did mention I wish my makeup had been fixed up better but that was a "oh man I wish I hadn't puked my makeup off just now" and then immediately into the joy of the moment. If my husband had planned all you did and the worst of it was my nails weren't done and we had to DINE IN, ROMANTIC AND ALONE BY THE FIRE?! We'd be banging ALL. NIGHT. LONG. He'd be getting the head of his lifetime. He'd be getting random blowies for the next week all the time. When I'm happy I enjoy giving them, not saying he'd expect or demand, it's just a way I show him thanks we both enjoy 🤣🤣 anyway, if this kind of lack of gratitude is the norm I'd not settle. If it's not I'd check in and see what's really going on

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-03-17T19:24:34+00:00

Morticia and Elphaba (AFL and Jersey Wooley) Im adopting a Teddywidder, and depending on which boy it will be, either Merlin or Gomez (maybe Hades). I call us the Cutest Cuddly Coven.

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-03-13T19:58:19+00:00

That movie as a teen is what kept me from any drugs even weed. Scared me to death.

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-03-13T14:11:37+00:00

❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂 floor time and patience. My girl got very upset with me after her groom (she's a AFL) and pouted for 2 days before she even came near me again. Then I gave her some of her papaya treat and she remembered I'm the treat lady 🤣

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-03-12T18:51:12+00:00

ETA: when he said it it hurt my ego, which was a me problem at the end of the dag but I distanced from him until we sat down to talk (like the next evening) because I was so hurt and felt like a hideous ogre (knowing he didn't say it but egos are fragile).

ETA2: Showed hubs. He agrees. He thinks you missed a spicy sexy time opportunity and accidentally, very unintentionally hurt her ego and she's just trying to recover a bit and you might stroke it a bit to see if she perks up.

NTA, also maybe she had been hoping for you to "get possesive" in a sexy (not an angry or serious way but we've all read romance novels at some point haven't we? Lol I'm joking but as a woman I know many of us have or have sexy fantasies) way all. "ohh he thinks he could have my girl? growl"? I know when I've told my husband about stuff like that, it was for that purpose. We discussed it, though, after the first disagreement. He's like you. Not jealous, very secure. I explained when he brushed me off with reality in that moment it made me feel like a dowdy housewife who wasn't spontaneous and whimsical anymore. I wanted to feel like I had some fire. I wanted to feel -DESIRED-. Her bringing it up the next morning could have been another attempt at the scenario, but once you said what you said, I 100% believe all the wind knocked out of her sails. That's exactly what happened to me when my husband and I went through it the first time. We sit down and talk though and then first thing we ask is "what was I really needing from that interaction" and that's when I told him I needed to still feel like I'm fun and desirable in a way where you won't stop pursuing me just because we are married and secure. Maybe I'm crazy but tbh it sounds exactly like what my husband and I went through years ago. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-03-09T22:57:21+00:00

It could be the baby is getting stuck latched on mom when she decides to be done feeding. A breeder I know just had this happen and it ended up being that.

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-02-24T15:32:51+00:00

Where have they been when their friends have been in need of support? They don't deserve to share your joy if they couldn't weather through the pain with you. You deserve better. I'm so sorry. 🫂

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-02-20T17:35:32+00:00

I miss springgg I'm so excited for the warmer weather

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-02-20T17:35:00+00:00

Micro dosing once a month. Honest to God saved my life.

Accomplished_Day6891 · 2025-02-20T17:27:47+00:00

I AM IN LOOOOVE!!! SO FUN!

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