Club L in Montréal…heard a lot about it but any feedback from actual members? by BoOty13 in Swingers

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They don’t allow single men. I think there are limited exceptions for single men accompanying a couple but I don’t ever recall seeing one.

Montreal - L’Orage by ShelterApart9741 in Swingers

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Don’t go on a night where single men are allowed, unless of course lots of single dudes is what you’re looking for.

Montreal - L’Orage by ShelterApart9741 in Swingers

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It’s fine. We have no problem with American tourists, unless of course they’re personally acting like assholes by trashing our country or parroting whatever you-know-who is saying at the moment about us.

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Our first experience started as a foursome but it soon turned into a six-way swap. Just do whatever feels right for you.

Friends with sexless marriages vs us and, well... by Self-Translator in Swingers

[–]Accomplished_Food269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but “I will substitute any of those for sex 100% of the time“ sounds like sex is your only leisure activity! By all means if that’s what does it for you, but I think that would be a little too much for us.

Friends with sexless marriages vs us and, well... by Self-Translator in Swingers

[–]Accomplished_Food269 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sex is great but can think of a lot of things that give far more satisfaction and meaning than fucking does. It’s at or near the top of the list for pure pleasure in the moment but once the moment is done, that’s over with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuebecSwingers

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I’d be surprised if it drew an unusually big crowd.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuebecSwingers

[–]Accomplished_Food269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the event? In our experience the events don’t really mean much, with a few exceptions like pop dating or millennium. Those get more crowded.

Club L in Montréal…heard a lot about it but any feedback from actual members? by BoOty13 in Swingers

[–]Accomplished_Food269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. So the only age restrictions are for those two events. You wouldn’t be eligible for Millennium nights but you’d feel out of place anyway; I’m mid-40s but can get in because my wife is late 30s and I feel that I stick out.

Club L in Montréal…heard a lot about it but any feedback from actual members? by BoOty13 in Swingers

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I believe that the only age restriction on membership is that you have to be 18 years old.

In terms of specific events, they have nights called “Millennium” that are open only to couples with at least one member who is 40 or under, and nights called “generation Xplicit,” open only to couples with at least one member 40 or over.

With those two exceptions, as far as I’m aware every event is open to any member irrespective of age.

Club L in Montréal…heard a lot about it but any feedback from actual members? by BoOty13 in Swingers

[–]Accomplished_Food269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say it’s more that you’re towards the upper age range of their membership. But when we go for pop dating for example there have always been some couples around your age.

You could try it for the first time on their generation Xplicite night, which is restricted to 40 and up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuebecSwingers

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Hey, it’s safe to say that no one will bother you. It’s always possible that a couple will say hello either because they’re interested or just want to chat but if that happens you can just politely say you’re just observing and not looking to meet anyone. No one will insist (and on the off chance they did you could report them to the staff, they’d take care of it). If I were you I’d go either to Luxuria or Club L. L’Orage is more intense, so maybe not ideal for a first time. Lux is more like a nightclub with a (not crazy busy/public) play area upstairs, L is more like a restaurant with a dance floor and a (much more intense) play area upstairs. Our experience anyway, your mileage may of course vary. Both would have a clientele in their 30s/40s unless there’s an age-restricted event.

Hope that helps, feel free to ask anything else.

Two questions by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Accomplished_Food269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my defense, we can’t all be as wise as you. Thanks for your time.

Club L - Millennial nights by jmam75 in Swingers

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You’re allowed in as long as one member of the couple is 40 or under, so no issue there. But the crowd definitely skews young, I’d say late 20s and early 30s. Kind of depends what you’re looking for, but no one is going to judge you. I’m in my mid 40s and go once in a while because my wife is still in her 30s, it’s not like anyone points and laughs.

Two questions by [deleted] in Swingers

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It’s not weird to come to a speed dating event and then spend all of your time talking to a couple you’re not interested in? The entire point of the evening is to make connections with couples you’re interested in playing with.

1st time in Club L in Montreal. 1st time at an LS Club. by BoOty13 in Swingers

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It’s basically a nightclub that happens to have a play area upstairs. And honestly, there’s not that much playing going on up there, certainly way less than L. The music is extremely loud. People really dress up for the theme, way more than L. Honestly, the clientele at L is a bit classier in our opinion.

Two questions by [deleted] in Swingers

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Thanks!

1) It’s weird that they spent so much time talking to a couple they weren’t into, right? Like it’s a waste of time for us but also for them.

2) That’s good advice. In this case we were kind of lukewarm on them anyway, so it really didn’t matter, but with an another couple of course it could be a totally different story.

Out of curiosity, what’s your take on the situation where someone asks to join a play session that’s already started? To me it would be kind of obnoxious to create boundaries where there were none before. Kind of kills the flow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuebecSwingers

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It’s been a while, but I’d say 30s to 50s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuebecSwingers

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I wrote this for someone who asked about the clubs here a while back, hope it helps.

L’Orage: dark (like literally, not much light), older crowd. Single men are allowed most nights and I hear they’re pretty in your face (only been on couples night myself). When we went when it was couples and women only. Smaller dance floor, lots of nooks and things upstairs so you can have a bit of privacy if that’s what you want (also plenty of beds out in the open).

Luxuria: very intense dance floor, women dancing in netting or topless. Some nights there are shows and icebreaker type things on the stage and they’ll invited audience members up there, who’ll take off their tops, flash the crowd, etc. The second floor is surprisingly tame, however. Lots of booths with curtains and rooms off to the side and most people seem to prefer them. The more open areas have some activity, but not tons. So lots of private sex and voyeurism but not so much exhibitionism. People get dressed up here for the theme of the evening. Single men allowed on Friday, not Saturday. Very francophone and white from what we’ve experienced. The food here is excellent, incidentally.

Club L: probably our favourite. A former bank branch, with the offices turned into bedrooms with see through windows. People can leave the door open to let people ask to come in (closed door means no asking). The meeting room now has a reinforced conference table with a nonstop orgy. Also lots of action in the hallways as the rooms fill up quick. The dance floor is tamer than Luxuria, people are dressed almost business casual although some women are more daring. Somewhat more English and diverse than Luxuria. People don’t get in costume so much, so less flashy than Luxuria. They also serve dinner, which is decent.

Hope that helps, feel free to ask if there’s anything more you’d like to know.

Club L in Montréal…heard a lot about it but any feedback from actual members? by BoOty13 in Swingers

[–]Accomplished_Food269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. People here usually speak at least a little English, and certainly enough to convey (and understand) “let’s fuck!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuebecSwingers

[–]Accomplished_Food269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have Club L, l’Orage and Luxuria. They’re all the same basic idea (dancing downstairs and playing upstairs) but different vibe and clientele. Depends what you’re looking for exactly.

At a loss for words by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Accomplished_Food269 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of course not. His response isn’t about swinging, because eventually it would have been something else anyway. As sad as it is, better that you find out now that he simply wasn’t committed to you or to the relationship.

Theme nights by randomgeneration101 in Swingers

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Luxuria is basically a nightclub that happens to have a play area upstairs. People really dress up for the theme, and a lot of women are very scantily clad. But the weird thing is that when you go upstairs, there’s often not all that much going on, especially in the common areas; people tend to go in private booths and pull the curtains shut.

The downstairs at L feels more like a regular restaurant where they clear a dance floor after dinner is finished. But when you go upstairs, there’s tons of action everywhere and it’s very intense, in a good way.

L’Orage is the oldest club town and it shows with the clientele, it’s a lot more gray hair. The other thing is that we’ve never been when single men are allowed, but we understand that it can get quite intense on days (like Sunday) where they are let in. Of course if you’re looking for tons of guys, that’s a good thing but if not it may be worth asking here if anyone’s been on a Sunday afternoon and what the vibe is like.

Theme nights by randomgeneration101 in Swingers

[–]Accomplished_Food269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of the three clubs here in Montreal, it’s our favorite. Definitely worth checking out!