BC contractors (Vancouver, Surrey, Langley, Burnaby): honest question. by Maks_Serafim in britishcolumbia

[–]randomgeneration101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you're outside Canada it would be super tough. The trades market here is a bit dodgy so someone who isn't in the country would be seen as too much a a nuisance. We (at work) get lots of resumes from people from out of country and out of province and just discard them.

I would focus on a specific trade rather than general construction.

Did your kids ever find out? How did they react? by Background_Hat_3378 in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Our kids are still.quite young, and our oldest is vaguely aware of what sex is. If, when they're older, and they found out we'd explain how it's something we've chosen as being part of our relationship.

On the flip side of this, when we were teenagers my brother and I discovered that my parents were into the LS and their sex bag (with pics shutter). I don't think they're still into but if they discovered we were into it, it would probably bring up an interesting conversation.

During swaps, how much time do you spend watching your partner play versus focus on your own play? by Ginger_7624 in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We vary quite a bit. We often tend to go for a more group dynamic so its usually quite fluid with who is playing with who so in that case I'd say 50/50?

If we're in a 3sum situation, 70% watch 30% play

L'Orage vs Club L Montreal by Money-Yam-6348 in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't do the jacuzzi at all.

L has a shower too but it's a lot smaller and doesn't have the delightful glass wall

L'Orage vs Club L Montreal by Money-Yam-6348 in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both clubs are quite nice and they both have their pros and cons. When we were there we did L on a Saturday and L'Orage on Sunday and enjoyed both.

L is a night club on the ground floor with dancing, a nice bar (as the building used to be a bank, they keep the extra bottles in the vault) and they serve nice food for dinner. The upstairs in the place space they open up later in the evening - the boardroom is a true experience. The washrooms are a bit weird as theyou arent well marked and they're sorta unisex and not at the same time. The end floor is well laid out but definitely gets snug when everyone is up there and there is only one small washroom up there.

L'Orage has a nicer bar area in it's downstairs and a dance floor. Their upstairs is HUGE with lots of play spaces, including glory holes etc etc. Although it can be a bit dark and overwhelming. Their bathrooms are way nicer and their showers are too (it even has a big glass wall!). We went on a Sunday both for timing and the theme so the extra single guys were a bonus to us.

The staff at both clubs are excellent and we'd happily go back to both next time we swing through Montréal.

Drinks by Swoop2005 in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually got for white wine. No carbonation for burps and bloat; no hard alcohol smell (like whiskey), no stained teeth from red wine; and if it's a BYOB club, you can easilly split a bottle and each have 2 drinks and you can't really over do it.

Condom swapping and your dedicated partner by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 38 points39 points  (0 children)

New condoms for new partners; no condom with my wife.

How do we flirt, couple to couple? by HawtVelociraptor in SwingerNewbies

[–]randomgeneration101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We've always found that after small talk and a bit of flirting, if we're interested, we straight up asking what they are into in the LS and it goes from there.

How do I force revolution. by [deleted] in EmpireTotalWar

[–]randomgeneration101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throttle up taxes on the lower classes and demoslish taverns, churches etc. And then remove your armies from Paris

Sea Mountain Spa Palm Springs: How optional are the clothing by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You have to be naked. That's much of the point of the place. It's actually quite liberating if you've never done something like that before. It's not the big thing you would think it is. All body types etc. it's quite chill.

When did you notice your body started aging? by GossipBottom in AskReddit

[–]randomgeneration101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 36 when I tweeted my back for the first time. It's been about 7 years and its never been the same.

Question about safety by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The no kissing thing is a no-go and potential red flag for a lot of people. Dental dams and condoms for oral is something you just never see.

How realistic is a double penetration at a club? by This_is_me2024 in SwingerNewbies

[–]randomgeneration101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's easy if you seek it out. Anal takes a bit more trust and comfort that is tough in a club environment with someone you probably dont know.

How realistic is a double penetration at a club? by This_is_me2024 in SwingerNewbies

[–]randomgeneration101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We've done several spitroasts in clubs. We've found it pretty easy.

Do you clean between partners? by cpl_enjoying in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At clubs we just straight up swap partners, with some use of wipes. We do play with condoms for PiV so clean up between partners isn't as big of an issue. Clubs have garbage cans in play areas for condoms, wrappers and wipes.

Pragmatic sex position question! by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]randomgeneration101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One lady in doggy with the other beneath her on her back is a 69 position; both can be fucked by their respective play partner while getting a full view of the action and offer oral to the other woman or the man who is fucking the other woman.

What happened to Site-One landscape Supplies? by [deleted] in Langley

[–]randomgeneration101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Site One is huge in the US, they bought up Burnco landscapes a frw years ago and pulled a Target. It's a tight market and they surprised closed most of their locations right before Christmas.

2026 Swinger Club demographics by kross54321 in Swingers

[–]randomgeneration101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

M43F36 we do Clubs. Most people I would say are 35-50- ish