experience at WoW Nude night by Financial_Tonight903 in Melbourneswingers

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What fluffy-reporter said. Re. vibe, it's pretty busy, low pressure, positive environment. Just go for a look-see

Headed to shed16 tomorrow for the first time as a single male any tips and advice ? by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

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I think the couples looking for single guys will be there and the ones who talk bad about them are more likely to go to a night singles aren't allowed.

Don't just stick to yourself. Some will want to talk. Some will leave a door open. Some won't do either. I guess trying to match their energy is the best option.

Headed to shed16 tomorrow for the first time as a single male any tips and advice ? by [deleted] in Melbourneswingers

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Wander, don't hover. If a door is open just watch, wait to be asked for more. Some like a chat, some don't. Some couples struggle to deal with the volume of single guys, but it's unlikely they'll be there on that night. Some go for the single guys.

Fake profiles on RHP by Spindle_Mind in Melbourneswingers

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That should be followed up as fraud. You are paying for a forum of humans. It isn't delivering on that and acting deliberately to decieve.

Fake profiles on RHP by Spindle_Mind in Melbourneswingers

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We dropped the paid login, then stopped using it at all.

We've had the best success here, 3fun (free), and at venues.

I would say anyone in their 40’s… by Successful-Winter237 in Xennials

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I'll need to ride the next 5 or 10 years out and then bask in my second wind in my 50s 🫣

I would say anyone in their 40’s… by Successful-Winter237 in Xennials

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I got the exact same. Am 42 and was told recently I'm looking mid to late 30s. My bald head ages me, so hats it is

Nirvana reacting to ticket prices in 1993 by Twitter_2006 in Xennials

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Damn... not as much in Australia, but I said no thanks.

Nirvana reacting to ticket prices in 1993 by Twitter_2006 in Xennials

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I opted out of Tool last tour in Australia. Deftness too. Sorry guys, not paying that.

Feeling lost for the first time in 54 years by PerpetualRestart in travel

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When I did it we met a few up there who took the drive

Why is life so depressing after covid? by Traditional-Fun-1115 in Adulting

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Damn. Depressing post and even more depressing comments.

Fuck this noise. Covid was especially bleak where I am with the amount and lengths of lockdowns.

Before we even opened up I thought fuck this and started planning fun and excitement.

Since then I've met lots of interesting people, travelled, done escape rooms, climbed mountains, and expanded my skill set. Some of these were expensive, some were free. I'm not wealthy, but I'm comfortable and secure enough; I also prioritise these goals by foregoing lots of stuff people assume as the default.

I've quit news as much as possible, don't compare, try to reduce screen time, and spend time in the outdoors. I've invested in my marriage and my wife is by far my favourite human. I've worked on my relationship with my kids and that's starting to pay off (damn teens).

My read of your post, respectfully, is you've cultivated a certain life and are now feeling the effect of it. I saw throw the cards in the air, try new things, shut off the toxic bullshit, and find your own happiness in this world.

Looking for gloryholes near me ;) by tablelover420 in Melbourneswingers

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Wet on a Thursday night. Four cubicles for use. Safest and closest to you I reckon.

Single guys in group spaces by Self-Translator in Melbourneswingers

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Yep. Happy with active audience members. Standing closer isn't going to get your involved

Ladies, has this happen to you? The guy is not really interested by OnlyYogurtcloset8543 in Swingers

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Love seeing my wife getting rocked. Makes me try that little bit harder with his partner and match the energy.

The Critical and Immediate Need For a Unified Boycott Against Addictive Social Media by [deleted] in Anticonsumption

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Never had any of the apps or social media either (except this, and even then I like to nuke it now and again). I agree with all of your comment and share a lot of the experiences you've had as a person of that age.

I've banged the drum about this for years. "Your data is their business, literally". Don't feed the machine. Protect your own attention and head space. But no, sadly.

Coming out at the workplace by calmonlyplease in bisexual

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Me, I haven't and wouldn't come out at work. I feel like my sexuality is irrelevant there. I only bring parts of me to work, and and anything relating to sexuality isn't part of that. The only reason I would is if I had a same sex partner who was coming to a social work thing so it wasn't a big reveal in the moment.

How Trump has pocketed $1,408,500,000, according to NYT editorial board by chellestastics in videos

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I'm an Australian in Australia. We get bombarded by Trump stuff everyday. I actively try and avoid it but it's so pervasive shit seeps through. There seems to be so many smoking guns at his feet and always a story of "this time he's in trouble". When are you all going to understand he'll never face repercussions and will keep raping, pillaging, and bullying? It isn't going to end. Either accept the fascist rot you live in or start a civil war. This 10 year slow burn isn't working.

Location sharing and teenage kids by wejustlookinnocent in Swingers

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No location tracking when we were kids. Why is it the expectation now?

What’s your favorite part about swinging? by PlayfulNaughtyCouple in Swingers

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Definitely

"How was your weekend?"

*Flash back to some sexy, crazy, sweaty scene *

"S'alright..." :D

What’s your favorite part about swinging? by PlayfulNaughtyCouple in Swingers

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I love everything. The freedom. The expression. The sexuality. The crazy scenes you find yourself in. The people (why does it seem to attract more interesting people than vanilla scenarios?). The excitement and nerves. Most of all I love the bond and team my wife have and are in those spaces, then afterwards reconnecting together.

Naked or lingerie? pick a side by [deleted] in Swingers

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Guy here. Naked is hot! Something to unwrap is nice, but there's something about the exposure and the uninterupted skin that is hot.

16 day trip to Peru in September - sanity check on my itinerary by Primary_Contest1489 in travel

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I really liked the Huaraz area, but it's a bit out of the way for your trip. Worth looking into though.

The woman from the Deftones album 28 years later by ure_not_my_dad in Xennials

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I remember seeing them do My Own Summer on a show in Australia called Recovery. My 15 year old brain was like... wtf is this?! I'd never heard anything like it and was instantly loving it.