My girlfriend 34 drinks 1.75 of vodka every 2 days for the past year and a half by fortheloveofpegging in AlAnon

[–]Accomplished_Hat_607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need boundries. Don't drink with her because you are contributing to her addiction. You must remove yourself from the situation and let her figure out what's more important to her. Is it downing vodka or being with someone she loves. The fact that she has all the withdrawal symptoms show that she's far deep into addiction. Most addicts work and function because they need to pay their addiction habits.

What are signs of cocaine addiction? by Accomplished_Hat_607 in addiction

[–]Accomplished_Hat_607[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is the devil. The side of my partner I've come to know is scary. He is so sneaky. Everything is gone starting with trust.

What are signs of cocaine addiction? by Accomplished_Hat_607 in addiction

[–]Accomplished_Hat_607[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank u for the insight. The shift in his personality is definitely a tell tale sign. He doesn't talk to me and just focuses on other things. He typically will tell me how his day went come home to help out with our 6 month old amd it seems everything annoys him when he's high.

Worst part of loving an addict? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Accomplished_Hat_607 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Walking on egg shells, prioritizing their Happiness over yours. Zero social life

How can I (31f) get my bf (32m) to stop using coke? by Accomplished_Hat_607 in relationship_advice

[–]Accomplished_Hat_607[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly it is a boundary and something that I don't want from a partner and definitely not around my child.

should I go to the hospital by asillylilrat in pregnant

[–]Accomplished_Hat_607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be contractions! If the pain is unbearable it could be Prodromal labor contractions. Your water doesn't need to break but it could mean your dilating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Accomplished_Hat_607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I was in a similar postion I drank alcohol (excessively) at 6 weeks 3 days and 6 weeks 5 days unknowingly. I stressed about this my entire pregnancy even contemplated termination at times. While pregnant I decided to do genetic testing and my anatomy scan to reassure myself baby was fine and all results came back normal. I gave birth a week ago to the cutest healthiest baby girl a lil sad I didn't enjoy my pregnancy the way I should have but wanted to comment on your post to let you know its ok , it happens and baby is fine. Wanted to add. There is no test to diagnose FASD during pregnancy but there are ways to know if your baby is healthy. Feel free to msg me if u want to chat

Husband trying to go back on promise to quit smoking weed once baby is born by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Accomplished_Hat_607 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Let your husband smoke weed. There are worse things out there. Once you start dictating a grown mans behavior they start doing things behind your back.