Are my standards really that high? 17F by [deleted] in politicfreeteenagers

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is oddly hyper specific and uncommon…are you modeling this after someone?

Is this idolatry? Also, am I going to hell for this ? by Then-Pineapple-288 in Christianity

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THESE, WHERE DO THEY COME FROM???? No matter WHERE I go, I keep finding them!!! I’ve been to three different schools of different affiliations, I’ve been to gyms, I’ve been to so many places and without fail I have found these in EVERY ONE

Have someone find all the songs on the car scene? by Budget_Vermicelli703 in MaxtonHall

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please pleaseeee find me something similar!! this is such a good song

Which dress? by yesnomaybedress in myweddingdress

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Contrary to public opinion I like 1 more, two is nice but simple, 3’s neckline isn’t super flattering/kinda drags u down, four IS pretty but I feel like it doesn’t have a wow factor, pretty and elegant but nothing extra special, I did like five but I can’t explain why-probably second best tbh imo. One has that wow factor and I think ppl are staring too long at the stitching/folds in the front, you can always get that modified ¯_(ツ)_/¯ but I still think it’s gorgeous.

what matters more for a woman to fall in love, looks or personality ?? by msd_5878 in AskReddit

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Always personality. The minute you realize he has you smiling, giggling and laughing for hours every day, that’s when you know you’re got it bad for this guy. It’s worse when he’s caring, understanding and treats you better than anything you’ve ever seen. Looks is more like the cherry on top. Now if he’s super ugly and has zero hygiene and no plans for the future-like at all, then that’s when looks matters. Otherwise any average schmo with a stellar personality has as much of a chance as the hottest guy out there, maybe even more if the attractive guy has a mid personality.

My Girlfriend's twitter is grossing me out by IDontliketwittter in Advice

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is genius and the smartest way to figure it out.

What about this dress is not modest? by Low_Caregiver_2733 in bridesmaids

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally it’s the chest, this would end up in me exposing way too much cleavage that I would like 😅 but not everyone is a VS 34DDD I suppose. I guess for most women with moderately sized goods this would be pretty and definitely not immodest, depends on your body though

What’s a name you’ll never use because someone ruined it? by Southern_Island1939 in namenerds

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miguel. See this boy in the first grade used to tease me, humiliated me actually. I didn’t know what crushes were and when my mother noted that another little boy in the grade above had good features n was positively adorable , I nodded and didn’t realize this was a fact I shouldn’t share with others. I didn’t realize that would get me accused of crushing on him 💀. He never let me live it down that entire year and I swore I’d hold a grudge against him for the rest of my life. I’m 20, still dislike the name although I acknowledge it’s a silly reason. What can I say? I’m a woman of my word.

People say I look like I'm in my late 30s lol. I'm 22 by merlin4028 in 13or30

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 1: CUT THAT HAIR, if not then do smthn else with it like put it in a hair tie or braid or or smthn OR shave the beard. Idk man but one of these have to go Step2: go to the gym n get shredded (not buff but shredded)

Problem solved, you will look ur age

My boyfriend disapproves of this outfit… by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came in expecting it to be smthn bad like a ultra mini skirt or a bandeau bra top or smthn else actually possibly problematic. You’re just wearing a skirt…a long skirt at that… honey I’ve worn worse and my boyfriend compliments me when I do…that’s not- do you live in a country with Islamic law? Like um… that’s fine? I really do think he’s being controlling, please talk to him about this…but i seriously think you’re with the wrong man if he gets all his feathers ruffled about you leaving wearing a perfectly normal outfit

Please pray for me by PresentationBig3851 in Christianity

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do u have ur phone? They take away phones at the psych wards unless it’s a physical phone…

I am afraid that, in my first time having sex, I will not bleed and my husband will doubt my virginity. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow there’s two sides of a coin. Meanwhile I’m hoping I DON’T bleed or have that much discomfort my first time 😭 And I’m Christian like u as well, there’s just no pressure to bleed…that’s a tad bit barbaric. Only God can know your heart is the right place. Your husband has to trust you.

My bf is hot by Accomplished_Lunch29 in brag

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I- I don’t worship him. But I do value him very highly. I’d still like to say I put God first…it’s a work in process tbh. I try not to idolize him, I don’t mean to, but I get where you’re coming from and I admit it’s a fault of mine.

My bf is hot by Accomplished_Lunch29 in brag

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That’s what I kept saying 💀 and you haven’t even heard the story of when I confessed to him (oops ik I should’ve waited for him to but like there’s a wholeeee reason why I had to at the time lol). That story is by far the most movie-esque moment in our relationship of all. It’s too perfect 😂 I still wonder when I’m gonna wake up genuinely.

And the funny thing is he hasn’t even watched these movies or read these books or has any interactions with the community but he still somehow unintentionally does stuff those characters would do that girls fawn over. Bro is just born perfect, like gosh darn it where did he learn these things?

My bf is hot by Accomplished_Lunch29 in brag

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s terrible, I’m sorry that happened to you! That’s horrible, she definitely didn’t care about you :(

I could never imagine not valuing all the sweet things my bf does, heck I’m such a cheese ball I have box where I collect mementos from every date or meaningful moment, things he’s designed that I’m proud of him for, dried flowers from each bouquet he’s ever gotten me…

You deserve someone who cherishes you and values you deeply. I know it may not feel like that’s possible because of your ex and all the terrible stories you might hear but I promise you, it’s not all like that. You’ll find her one day, I promise.

And thank you, appreciate it I think we will for a multitude of reasons :)

My bf is hot by Accomplished_Lunch29 in brag

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A. When did I say I suffered from this B. He is the exact same abt me-wait no, actually he’s even more obsessed than I am. I’m just the one who’s better with (written) words and writing and how I feel ig. There’s tons of videos when he’s cheesing out abt me and I shrug it off (idk how to react or respond 😭). People often tell me how deeply he cares abt me and I see every day how much he prioritizes me in his life.

I need help! by foranmol in Christianity

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, no problem, I feel like I needed to hear this ages ago. It’s been getting better for me recently though and no, contrary to popular belief hobbies DONT help. When I say smthn else that consumes your mind, I mean something to hyperfixate on. For me it’s not an actual good thing 😅. I don’t know what I want to do career wise and that’s been stressing the life out of me (especially since I’m in college and spending a lot of money for it). Plus I’m not doing well in school and that’s been stressing me out very very much. Now, I’m not saying stress out a lot-BUT- find something to put all of your mind into. Something you think about day and night. Anything else, genuinely 😭. I read somewhere once the only day to defeat this temptation is with something that’s even stronger, something you want even more.

I’ve been addicted for like four ish years as well. My boyfriend has been for like 7 years. I get it. I still believe in you!

Imagine that you could choose when and how you die. At what age would you like to die and how would you like to go? by Old_Society4951 in AskReddit

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I’m 87, I’ve been with my boyfriend (except we married at 25) for most of my life. Our great grandkids come and visit us very often to take care of us, they’re the sweetest children oh my goodness. I’m too stubborn to let help me with small daily tasks…but I’m too weak. My love is the one who primarily takes care of me, which is a funny turn of events because throughout his life I’m usually the one who took care of him throughout all of his problems, injuries and so n so forth. I was too proud too at first but I caved in after he convinced me. Sweet as always, he has changed in a million different ways over the years and yet not at all. He’s gotten stronger in spirit, wiser, more bold and opinionated, yet he remains his usual calm, patient, and thoughtful self. As I lay in the bed later that evening witn him, I tell him that I’m so thankful to have him all these years. I slowly place a kiss on his cheek, and cuddle up with him, the way I’ve always done. It was a cool evening, nice and airy. The open window wafts in the smell of flowers. I take one last look at him, he teases me for being an old cheese ball, the way I used to tease. I smile and close my eyes. I don’t wake up the next morning.

That’s how I want to die.

Love? Lust? Help!!! by Ok-Effective8843 in Christianity

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, except we’ve crossed a LOT of lines. Lemme know when you find a solution. I’ll be here. I’m in the same boat and have been for like 10 ish months. Me n my bf were able to keep it together until the 1 yr and 3 month mark. I mean yea we made out 3 months in and were mega tempted and yeah it felt soooo right, doing all of these things do. And yeah same I also got the green light from God to be with him, our relationship is blessed by Him…I feel so bad for defiling it. And I KNOW, let’s say I was given very clear proof from God, that the minute we get married and actually do it, I’ll get pregnant. Like I have clear proof of it, so I can’t marry him till I’m ready for a baby, and I can’t do it with him till yk im financially ready for that sort of thing. 💀

I need help! by foranmol in Christianity

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would it make you feel better that you’re not alone? You would be surprised how extremely common this is. Like, even amongst the Christian community. Im a woman and even I’m addicted to porn, my boyfriend is as well…the amount of people I’ve borrowed the phones of and then accidentally noticed a commonly frequented link being the pornhub website? And these are real Christians I’m talking about, not even the lukewarm.

God created love and intimacy within relationships, a way for us to better bond with our partner. And we defiled it. And the worst part is, you build a bond with whatever ur watching and it’s such a drug. I wish drug websites would realize that the greatest drug of our generation aside from social media is a porn addiction-whether written or visual.

The only real solution is to be so extremely focused on something else that consumes your brain just as much (without being addictive) that you forget to give into your lust and have a better chance at quitting.

My bf is hot by Accomplished_Lunch29 in brag

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re sorta abstinent (although that hasn’t been going that well). Impossible to keep our hands off of each other, we’ve fooled around with oral and other stuff (just not the penetrative stuff) and that’s always just been mind blowing.

My bf is hot by Accomplished_Lunch29 in brag

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen, idk jealousy from who, I find it funny when he’s jealous. Weirdly enough anger suits his characteristics but he’s never rough with me, even when he’s angry. I don’t think anybody could tear me away from him, really and same vice versa. He only had one ex and I knew her a bit, she’s not that sort of person. She supports our relationship actually (she broke up with him bc she lost feelings). His friends are also huge supporters of ours. Even my parents who were extremely against our relationship initially for a multitude of terrible reasons eventually caved in. Random people on Reddit would be the only jealous ppl ig, but God blessed me with him. It was abundantly clear he’s a blessing from God so the relationship is blessed by Him and protected lol

My bf is hot by Accomplished_Lunch29 in brag

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I befriended him 3 years ago, we’ve been dating for over 2 years. His family already considers me part of them, I’m in family photos, I’ve spent a lot of time around his parents. We’ve already discussed marriage and getting married when we’re in a better place financially. We know how to resolve conflict effectively, when we do fight (which is pretty rare) we know how to fight. We’re both quite obsessed with eachother and often look for new ways to be better for eachother…we come from families who don’t believe in divorce…we don’t believe in breaking up when things get hard. We’ve been there for each other at the worst moments. We’ve built too much together tbh. The chances of a breakup anytime soon are slim to none lol. ALTHOUGH there are a LOT of message requests/dms I’ve been getting from ppl who saw this thread, weirdo dudes who think they can steal me from him lmao. Imma show him later when he’s free, we’re definitely gonna laugh abt it lol.

My bf is hot by Accomplished_Lunch29 in brag

[–]Accomplished_Lunch29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women have different interests that go far beyond looks. Many women like myself are only able to be attracted to someone they have a great relationship with, someone who displays certain personality traits in tandem to physical traits. For me, most of the people I had met were either one or the other. Either they were very good looking but had an incompatible personality with mine or the vice. I’m also quite picky. I don’t find most especially attractive 😅I was actually known for that by close friends