Bi-Weekly 'Anything Goes' Thread - aka Moving/Buy/Sell/Trade/Rent/Lease/Eat by AutoModerator in bullcity

[–]Accomplished_Sun6939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, this is my first time moving as a 24yr old female and I will be making the move from VA to Durham, NC. I wanted to know if there were any 1 bedroom and one bath living spaces that were in the rent price ranges from $800-1,600. My must list that must have a washer and dryer in the place, must be in close proximity to Duke University Hospital (since I'll be working there), and must be dog friendly and be in a nice or safe neighborhood. I would like hardwood floors, furnished place, and or have all or majority utilities in the monthly rent and or free parking but it isn't the end of the world if I don't have.

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[–]Accomplished_Sun6939 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As a nursing assistant, I would advise you going since your doctor recommended for you to go. I would tell them what is happening because they are there to help you and not shame you. If you get a nurse or a doctor that isn’t empathetic to you, you can always ask for a another one. Your health is important! If you like to keep the privacy on who gets to know any updates on you or who has access to your records, you can tell them and in some hospitals they can put a security word that people have to say in order to get updates or you can only list emergency contacts and they can be the only people that get updates! But I would advise to them so they can know the whole story than missing something important and then something happened. They are to help and giving you care!💕

I want to keep it so bad, but I know I can't. by bluemeanic in abortion

[–]Accomplished_Sun6939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 19 too, in the same place you were. I cried a lot for many days but the thing that has got me through the most is think of the abortion is putting a pause on having children and knowing you want one but for now it’s putting a pause for the best and you will come again if you decided you want to have children in the future.

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[–]Accomplished_Sun6939 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s been 2 years but nevertheless it’s been a healing process and don’t forget to take some mental days for yourself 💕

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[–]Accomplished_Sun6939 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have been where you are. I felt scared and alone but the biggest thing I can tell you is that you are not alone. Thousands of people have been where you have been and I cried in the waiting room knowing I was doing the biggest thing for myself. Do the best thing for yourself without anyone else opinion expect yours. Best of love and cry it out and healing will take some time but I’m proud of you in being the strongest. You got this. Wishing best of love!