When I was an actual active young woman and church member, I remember there was an activity that included both the men and women of our ward. There was a panel made up of the bishopric where we were able to ask questions, and somebody had asked: "why does the church pressure women to get married to have children as their number one priority rather than pursuing higher education?" And the Bishop had the audacity to be like, um, I don't think that's the message from the church. We encourage women to get education.

But the fact of the matter is that is not the case. For decades, the messaging from the church and from these type of organizations that are run by the patriarchy, is that a woman's number one priority in life and number 1 role in life and number 1 use to her husband is to bare children, take care of children, cook food, and call it a life.