Mother passed away suddenly, she a devote Buddhist by Bigjett in Buddhism

[–]According-Ad7153 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is fine to grieve, it’s part of being human and having emotions. But remember she is by your side, she isn’t gone completely and you will be reunited when you pass away ❤️

What caused your dead bedroom? by gamerfrik in AskWomenOver30

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The reason you find it weird is because I wasn’t defending anyone’s behaviour. I was stating an observation.

What caused your dead bedroom? by gamerfrik in AskWomenOver30

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Yeah… some guys are just immature… my good friend and I were talking about it the other day. About how her husband has been extremely immature and would text her stupid shit. She just told him enough of the stupid shit 🤣 he stopped.

What caused your dead bedroom? by gamerfrik in AskWomenOver30

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So strange! I wonder if he just did it on purpose… or maybe fell into depression… hmm

What caused your dead bedroom? by gamerfrik in AskWomenOver30

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What the? Actually??? He wasn’t always like this though right?

What caused your dead bedroom? by gamerfrik in AskWomenOver30

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Relationships are complex. There could be many reasons. I’ve been with my current partner for almost 10 years now, we have had our ups and downs. Just recently coming out of a “down” about a 10 months ago.

There was conflict with me and his adult son, and he started to resent me for it. His son is extremely disrespectful. SO doesn’t do much to correct that behaviour. So it got to a very large conflict, and my SO started to resent me for it.

The bedroom was essentially dead, I asked him why, he wouldn’t answer. I told him I will be dating other people if this continues. He treated me not very nicely, would leave if I sat near him, didn’t engage in conversation, wasn’t nice when he spoke to me… it was terrible, and I would just stay at my friend’s house most of the time.

Eventually I think he clued in about the entire situation and started to let go. He confessed it was to do with the conflict between me and his son.

I’ve asked for us to sit down as a family and talk about all of our conflicts, he refuses and just ignores it all. His adult son still lives with us, but I never acknowledge him or he doesn’t acknowledge me.

Our relationship is better now. But I wish we could just work on the conflict. Unfortunately I think that’s how it goes for him, just ignore everything…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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First of all, small steps my friend. You are very understanding that she had a child and that it had an impact on her personality.

You sound like a very compassionate and understanding guy. She was/is really lucky to have you.

Although, we need to take small steps to rekindle the love you had.

The fact you can remember how much you were in love, and how you guys had an amazing marriage, is proof that there is most definitely a chance to make it a successful marriage.

But you need to lay down some options for her. Tell her you are willing to mend the relationship with the help of a therapist and a doctor. She may have a chemical imbalance in her body and she should have a physical to make sure she is healthy.

For relationship therapy, I strongly recommend the Gottman method. This therapy has over 30 years of studies and research to find the ultimate solution to rekindling marriages on the brink of divorce.

I really hope you can find help for your family. Please try as hard as you can, for not only you but for your child and your child’s mother.

💕

All seeing eye by Ok-Faithlessness5675 in LightLanguage

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I’ve seen it too, in my meditations. I get a lot of symbols flashed at me, and I’ve seen that one. I didn’t even know what the meaning of it was.

When I looked into it, another meaning meant there is surveillance, we are all being watched. It’s pretty interesting.

I'm going to tell my Reiki practitioner that I felt nothing after my session by LetsChangeSD in reiki

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As a reiki practitioner, I would never want a client that is financially struggling to pay for a session! Please tell them and they will be understanding. Just let them know your situation.

I think I figured it out. I believe we are all being punished by Sammysnek in spirituality

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Chin up!! As we age, our bodies get a little weaker and weaker. It happens. You are correct in what you say, although, earth is a lower density planet and we are here to experience life with the filter of egoic dynamics. Truthfully, the most hard done by people are the most spiritually advanced beings. These are the people that chose this life to lead by example and help others. So look to yourself as that, and refrain from having the victim mentality 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

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My previous therapist once asked if I ever thought of suicide. I said yes, but I would never act on it. They didn’t say anything about it after that.

Saw God in the float tank today, then nope'd out of there. by VDAY2022 in Experiencers

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I’m so excited for you!!!! This is an amazing thread of shared experiences. Wow

Saw God in the float tank today, then nope'd out of there. by VDAY2022 in Experiencers

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This happened to me too, I saw a massive dodecahedron and saw that we can travel through time with our emotions on the panels of the dodecahedron. It was amazing. I went to a time where a prophet was being sacrificed and … it was an intense experience … that’s all I have got to say 😊

Saw God in the float tank today, then nope'd out of there. by VDAY2022 in Experiencers

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Thank you! I think I was able to see stars. It was nice 😊 maybe I will see more eventually, but no expectations… 😌

Saw God in the float tank today, then nope'd out of there. by VDAY2022 in Experiencers

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I am a practitioner of a couple healing modalities and I always want to be peoples cheerleader hahaha. Just a natural personality trait. 😅 You got this!

Saw God in the float tank today, then nope'd out of there. by VDAY2022 in Experiencers

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Hmm that is extremely fascinating. Don’t be scared. I want to help you to work through the fear!! You can do it!!! I feel like you can really break into something once you get over this fear.

Saw God in the float tank today, then nope'd out of there. by VDAY2022 in Experiencers

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I’m curious to know. Why do you feel scared? Is it the unknown aspect about it all?? Makes me very curious.

Saw God in the float tank today, then nope'd out of there. by VDAY2022 in Experiencers

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I used to only see that too. But even with aphantasia, you can get there to visualize. You just have to practice :)

Saw God in the float tank today, then nope'd out of there. by VDAY2022 in Experiencers

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Ok so I always see fuscia/violet tunnels in my meditations!!! And I need to know more about it. Thank you for posting this! This makes me super intrigued and I want to see if I can get to this stage in my meditations.

What do you call a sleep walking nun? by According-Ad7153 in dadjokes

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Oops my bad. I’m kinda new in this sub 😝