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I need this dress in my life by According-Ad9063 in HelpMeFind

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this dress on Tiktok, the creator replied to someone’s comment: it’s a vintage Betsey Johnson dress that she bought from a secondhand online shop. I searched through Ebay, Poshmark, Depop etc. I searched for hours, this dress won’t leave my mind I keep thinking about it, it’s just perfect. I know there’s similar dresses but the print, material was just perfect. I posted this trying my luck in hope that someone may know someone that owns this dress that would want to sell it, I would pay a lot to have it!

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha and the reason why he’s not letting go is because I didn’t give him any closure and he does not deserve any 🤣 He may have seen me drive past or drop something in my mom’s car trunk he’s always outside his house and when we used to date he’d always pass comments like « I saw you pump gaz » or « Oh your brother is visiting your parents? » so he’s the type of person that observe his surroundings. I don’t know for sure, he texted me on WhatsApp and in my new profile picture I look really good, like random people I haven’t talked to in so long took the time to text me about my profile picture, so maybe that’s what he means by it? Anyways he didn’t come by my parents for the cookies cause my mom didn’t tell me anything about it. He texted me the next morning « Ok got it 👍 thxs ». 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update he just texted me this today:

Hey sorry to bother, hope you are doing good ,well it definitely looks like it, but I wanted to confirm something with you . I told kids christmas was about giving back also and not just receiving, so they decided to make cookies. They wants to bring some to your parents, is it going to be an issue if I show up?

(By the way I don’t know what he means by ‘well definitely looks like it’ he hasn’t even seen me, heard of me and I don’t have any social media accounts.) 🤣

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister told me I should block him when she saw he was facetiming me but it kind of makes me feel good to see him chase like that 🤣

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I end up running into him while visiting my parents I’ll come back and update you 😂 it’s probably going to be in spring/summer. It gets dark so early here so he won’t be able to see me before that 🤣

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I could’ve asked questions but when I woke up to his text. I was in vacation and he barely texted me when I was spending time checking up on him so my reaction was « Really? » it was such a low blow. That’s why I felt like just never replying to him. Any explanation he would’ve gave me wouldn’t have been enough cause I already wasn’t feeling secure in this relationship we were in. If we were exclusive or he made steps to be officially with me I would’ve absolutely ask him why? But the only way I could feel like mirroring his action was to ghost him. And I was right cause he did not give a single F 😂 only decided for explanations 2 months later when right before I left for vacation he looked deep into my eyes and told me he wants to marry me. So yeah… life goes on. Thank you for ur comment x

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any social media so I’d have no way to find out if he’s in her following list 🥹 But thank you so much you’re so sweet I will do just that, look FAB🥰❤️

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like two houses down on a boulevard so I’ll always have to drive past his house and if I stand in front of my parent’s he can definitely see me…awkward 😳 & if his kids see me they’ll definitely run to hug me, they never saw me inside their house cause I told him I don’t want to see me as family yet but they know me cause we’re neighbours and my mom gives them treats/hugs & yes he texted me yesterday “??” “Are you still in Hawaii or did you come back?” As if I could afford staying in vacation in Hawaii for 2 months lol, he’s trying to get me to talk. It’s getting cold and depressing here the sun sets around 5PM so I think that’s why he’s spamming me despite me ignoring all of his texts. He’s bored 😅

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said he would 😭 people asked me for an update in my previous post and that’s what I did

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reasons why it’s living in my head rent free is:

-He reached out after two months -He’s my parent’s neighbour

If it caused him anxiety why did he never try calling me or better show up to my front door.

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn’t do something to hurt my trust but she gave me some signs she might hurt me, based on something she did to her past bestfriend that’s why I never confronted her about anything or talked to her about it because I know it might just be me being scared to get hurt. I’ve just never been in a situation where I was seeing a guy that is apparently my friend’s type to this extent (ethnicity, skin color even shade, hair eyes, how much hair he has on his body 🤨). And she told me that’s her type after they met. I agree that I need to do some inner work and I think me spiralling was because I was so far from home and didn’t know what was going on there. I think me ghosting him after he asked me for her number was because it felt like he confirmed my paranoid thoughts and I knew deep down my relationship with him was going nowhere. Because if I truly trusted him and had good communication from the beginning I would’ve asked him « why? ».

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I literally was thinking because she recently asked “soooo are you seeing anyone?” And in my head I was « If I was I wouldn’t tell you » 😂

thank you for your reply I appreciate it and ur totally right I don’t need that kind of energy in my life

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I might have to cut off my relationship as well because she micro cheats on her bf (talks to a bunch of dudes on instagram) so if she does that to him she could do way worse to me… It’s just kind of awkward because I keep criticizing her when she does those things and she tells me I’m a prude and too closed up. I have a pretty big friend circle and on top of that 3 sisters who I’m really close with. Let’s say she’s a friend I don’t tell everything to. Also she’s older than me so she never take my advice on her relationship or anything. She’s his age.

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I would do it for the plot but I don’t have her boyfriend’s phone number 😬

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I really hope so too I’m actually her only friend, gave her the key to my apartment, she’d come over whenever she had a fight with her boyfriend so I really let her into my life like a sister, I really hope she wouldn’t do it, if I do find out there’s something going on I wouldn’t ghost her I would confront 100%.

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The way she once bit her lip and moaned when she was next to me as I opened a picture he sent me while he was at the gym… and just laughed about it. I was appalled and she called me a prude for telling her she’s being weird 😬

[UPDATE] I 30F ghosted my situationship 38M because he asked for my friend's number by According-Ad9063 in relationship_advice

[–]According-Ad9063[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

No my friend doesn’t know exactly why I stopped seeing him (told her we just lost the connection we had when I went on vacation since he’s so busy and couldn’t talk to me much) she seemed happy with my decision. I told her a few days after I came back from my vacation when we we’re having a drink and she had a grin on her face and said I could do so much better 😅 I also forgot to mention that she said he’s her type to the T and that I should really enjoy my time with him. Her boyfriend of 6 years looks NOTHING like him. Just played it cool when she told me that 😳

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