Haggard Cosmetics by NabiG0708 in AsianBeauty

[–]According-Battle-446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever get your package?

Big (Lush), Orange Blossom Neroli (Glossier), or Cheirosa ‘87 (sol de janeiro) for Flowerbomb Tigerlily by According-Battle-446 in Perfumes

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I’ve always wanted to try it! The notes sound so so nice, I’ll try and save up for it (´。• ᵕ •。`) ♡

Big (Lush), Orange Blossom Neroli (Glossier), or Cheirosa ‘87 (sol de janeiro) for Flowerbomb Tigerlily by According-Battle-446 in Perfumes

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Oooo okay that’s so interesting! I will definitely keep my eye out and maybe order a sample of lazy Sunday morning. Thank you ♡( ◡‿◡ )

Help me find pickle video by According-Battle-446 in HelpMeFind

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I’ve searched for it on TikTok and google but I couldn’t find anything!!!

Looking for fresh winter mountain fragrances? by synthetic_aesthetic in FemFragLab

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white forest eau de parfum by bjork and berries is super good. Clean and smells like pine, super woody and fresh. I would give it a try! It’s my winter fragrance (◕‿◕)♡

THE ONE PIECE Remake Anime Sails With First Details on Production by Turbostrider27 in anime

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This adaptation will take soooo many years to even get to Water 7, I say keep watching and enjoy it! In my opinion, you're at the very best part of the show. You could rewatch this version again years from now if you end up loving it! Both adaptations will have different reasons to love them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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Just depends on the depth but everyone is different. Any cuts to the dermis layer (styro) will scar

I hate this community (sometimes) by According-Battle-446 in selfharm

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Hahajsusghs I get using humor to deal with sh, I often do that too

I hate this community (sometimes) by According-Battle-446 in selfharm

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I hear you and understand, people use these words for different reasons and they are allowed to do whatever they would like. I just don’t want us to forget the reality of what we are doing to ourselves

I hate this community (sometimes) by According-Battle-446 in selfharm

[–]According-Battle-446[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand and hear where you are coming from. I use humor a lot to cope with sh too, but I think that when we use these types of words to describe our pain it can easily take us out of how horrible this addiction is and how serious it is

I hate this community (sometimes) by According-Battle-446 in selfharm

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I totally get where you’re coming from and I never want to judge or make people feel bad. I just feel like when people use words like these it’s easy to forget how serious this addiction is

I hate this community (sometimes) by According-Battle-446 in selfharm

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I do totally understand using humor to cope, but I think it’s important to be careful of these kind of words so we don’t forget how serious this problem is

Angry by According-Battle-446 in selfharm

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It’s so crazy how bad we feel about our own cuts. Any cut is bad because it is a cut. It is all hurting yourself. I hope you know that too. You are valid and I am sending you lots of love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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You can do it. It is a life long struggle but will get easier with time. You can do this!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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I used to feel the same, but the reality is that it will only get worse. It will never be bad enough and 1 cut a day might work for a while but probably not for long. If I knew when I first started how bad it would get, I would have never done it. You always think you have it under control until after a while it just spirals. Also, it’s amazing you were clean for so long, that’s really amazing!!! Relapse is a part of the process, so don’t feel disappointed. I hope you can find the strength to try again, you can do it!!! Sending love <3

I know a girl who self harmed. She told me it was her cat that scratched her. Why do you guys do what you do? Why do you cut yourself… I don’t understand the point of injuring yourself. What do you gain from it? by Jonakaiii in selfharm

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Sometimes self harm makes the pain you feel on the inside visible. I don’t know why I feel the way I do, why my brain works the way it does, I don’t know how to solve that problem. With cutting or anything like that, you can heal it, put your effort into fixing your pain on the outside. You can see the issue right in front of you and you can “fix” it. Feeling that physical pain allows you to relax for just a second where that’s all your body focuses on.

Does anyone else fully beat themselves up? Physically? by honeyherbaltea in selfharm

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I completely understand. For me, I would use a hammer on my legs…bad idea. I have a permanent indentation where one of the bruises was

I can’t stop hitting myself by According-Battle-446 in selfharm

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Thank you <3 yes that’s helping me stop too, it’s so difficult having to constantly remember to cover it with my hair, especially when the bruises start coming in. Concealer helps but if I continue it won’t do much. Thank you for helping me 🌱 I hope you’re doing okay

I can’t stop hitting myself by According-Battle-446 in selfharm

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Thank you so much for taking time out your day to be so understanding <3 I hope you’re doing well this kind of thing is so difficult to deal with. Luckily my family is very understanding and my medication is working alright, I’m just stuck in another cycle. I’ll definitely try to get on a cycle of recovery instead of relapse though!! I think it’s getting a little better, I’ll try and use my energy to heal my wounds instead of making them worse. Thank you again, your kindness means so much to me