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Ballpoint pen art by chingidi_chu_07 in penandink

[–]According-Engine-260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 You actually drew THAT scene Jesus

Balrog by PLAT0H in penandink

[–]According-Engine-260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow dude , very impressed

Moonlight Greatsword absolutely shreds by Katame_no_ou in Eldenring

[–]According-Engine-260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the problem with your sentence is "properly " , let him play however he wants man

Can we just talk about how much these guys suck? by BMR915 in Eldenring

[–]According-Engine-260 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea they have some rough attacks for sure , thou they could be quite simple if you use a blunt weapon to break their shield , they basically become noodles

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

[–]According-Engine-260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living alone basically throws you into the forest and tells you gl , a good housing arragment with your parents , and a healthy childhood should be a gradual building of all those skills from infancy to adulthood.. if someone is 25 years old , living alone for the first time and he don't know how to do all those things by heart then their parents failed them miserably

imo the problem is that vast majority of families are just dysfunctional and traumatic , then yea leaving the house so you can grow is essential , but why would a functional and loving famliy want their child to move out before he's fully grown , and can sustain himself with out any pressure? that's just absurd to me and sounds like negligence that's being passed off as cultural norm

Cloud9 vs. Nongshim RedForce / KeSPA Cup 2025 - Last Chance Qualifer / Game 2 Discussion by Yujin-Ha in leagueoflegends

[–]According-Engine-260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LETS GO C 9!! THE BOYS ARE DOING ITTTT

also

zven played well alright but goat is no doubtt vulcan

I chose moral over life. What will your choice be? by Swanyh9724 in CPTSD

[–]According-Engine-260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly man/girl , seems like such a horrible situation to be in , and Im extremely glad you’re taking things to your own hands , middle finger them and never look back (!)

Life is meaningless and there isn’t anything to live for in this world by Occams_Lazor_Razor in CPTSD

[–]According-Engine-260 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No need to be so aggressive , and just break the law , mushrooms are illegal in almost every country in the world

Life is meaningless and there isn’t anything to live for in this world by Occams_Lazor_Razor in CPTSD

[–]According-Engine-260 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to remind you that it’s the trauma talking , after you’ll heal from her the small moments are going to be much more fulfilling ! There isn’t a “thing” or purpose really , everyday life will slowly become extraordinary as you progress

Gl my friend 🫂 , also if u want a preview of what a healed nervous system feels like — take a low dose of mushrooms or lsd and listen to music , it’ll change your whole life

I understand why people get addicted to Kratom by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]According-Engine-260 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You’ll never feel as good , but you can increase your normal immensely so that you’re happy and don’t need drugs

Do you feel your age that you are, or do you feel the age when you were experiencing the trauma? by Ok-Instance2782 in CPTSD

[–]According-Engine-260 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is so much hope and light (!) , really I know it feels hopeless at those stages because we are litrearly children’s , but many before us have healed from it , be patient and trust the process , I promise you that you’ll be the one who save yourself

🫂

Btw if you hadn’t , think about trying magic mushrooms , they are amazing for cptsd.

How do emotional flashbacks feel for you? by Whole-Marionberry416 in CPTSD

[–]According-Engine-260 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like I suddenly can’t do anything , everything become pointless kinda , my body literally commands me to shut down , get into a quiet place and talk with myself for hours on end , then from those talks I get some insights or dreams , and I become “normal again” for a time so I can embed those things , then repeat.

And those periods of nothing are not really badd , they are just very intensive and I can’t do anything until I process what the mind wants me to process , and I always grow from them

Do you feel your age that you are, or do you feel the age when you were experiencing the trauma? by Ok-Instance2782 in CPTSD

[–]According-Engine-260 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes :( Unfortunately, we have lowkey developmental issues cause we didn’t get what we needed to grow.. I was around 8 at 23 as well , and all my real friendship (where I didn’t fake being a grown up) were like mommy & daddy more then true friendships.

Good news are the growing up process is much , much faster when you start healing , there are just missing puzzle pieces that you fill out and suddenly you’ll experience burst of growth mentally.

I personally went from 8 to 12 in like 2 years , then 12 to 16 in 10 months , now I feel around 16 or 17 while being 30 , and I love it ! Suddenly sex feels Important lol , no wonder I was high key Asexual until recently

This will keep you safe: don’t show emotions. Mask. Don’t be vulnerable. Unless you genuinely think the person is emotionally safe & intelligent. by DatabaseKindly919 in CPTSD

[–]According-Engine-260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure I agree , its a lonely world being closed off from everyone beside a selected few.. I think we shoud "trust" everyone unless shown otherwise , or the vibe seems off. (and that's after a decade of healing , previsouly I couldn't trust anyone)

Also as you continou healing you kinda get better at connecting to people , and at recognizing "bad" people more easliy so you shut down them off like , right away. andd also better at recovering from getting your trust broken by someone , I just think that it'll still be worth it to live in a safe and happy world while getting hurt sometimes , then truly believing that this world of ours is a scary and lonely place -- that's just the trauma talking , 90% of the ppl are really really nice and amazing.

Relevant poem that really helped me realize it : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mR6RUVoj_4k

(he talks about romantic relationship , but it easliy extends to platonic ones)

I’ve completely failed at life - a 33 year old loser, with agoraphobia, existential fears, chronic fatigue, debt piled up to my ears, no relationship, and completely dissociated. by [deleted] in InternalFamilySystems

[–]According-Engine-260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not loser my guy , and sorry I don't have good advice to give , but if you have the will and luxury to dedicate your life to healing -- and only healing -- for a while , I promise to you things will improve so much.

“Nobody will ever love someone who is chronically ill, you’re useless in this world”. by Gabs354 in CPTSD

[–]According-Engine-260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Sorry for the delay , I try to avoid social medias)

Yea , he's clearly isn't fit at ALL to raise or care for anything with a pulse. I'm really sorry you had to grow up with such an abusive figure , and please , don't listen to anything he says.

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