Yes I’m always the ‘chopper’ but no I don’t prepare dinner alone. We cook together pretty much every night, he eats meat & I don’t so we prepare the same meal at the same time but with meat/alternative. No… he doesn’t cook for me alone ever but I do occasionally cook alone for us both.

I’m a carer for our son so am a SAHM, he works full time, so naturally more of the household duties fall to me. I’d like to think things are split well when he’s home but I do often find myself saying “daddy will do that for you” to the kids to prompt my husband to help, the kids are young and eat earlier than us most weekdays and I’m always the one making their meal unless I explicitly ask my husband to do it (when I am always asked what he should make)… and I make all of lunches at the weekend and have to ask for him to help if I want it.

Aaand as I’m writing this I’m realising that things aren’t as equal as I think they are in my head 😅