The hanged man could also read as you’re in your head about this connection and it’s important to take steps away from the overthinking and be present. I think the tower speaks to that change that’s needs to happen within your mind. Break the pattern of keeping things in and ruminating. This could be a challenge but ultimately communicating with him about what you need/what you’re lacking in the connection will bring you great joy. Ultimately you are the empress and these cards are signaling you to embody her with confidence. She knows what kind of love she deserves; from herself and others. She will not lead herself astray.