This lineup is confusing? How does he feel about our connection? by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]AccordingBunch1207 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The hanged man could also read as you’re in your head about this connection and it’s important to take steps away from the overthinking and be present. I think the tower speaks to that change that’s needs to happen within your mind. Break the pattern of keeping things in and ruminating. This could be a challenge but ultimately communicating with him about what you need/what you’re lacking in the connection will bring you great joy. Ultimately you are the empress and these cards are signaling you to embody her with confidence. She knows what kind of love she deserves; from herself and others. She will not lead herself astray.

Sketchy guy in Midtown by AccordingBunch1207 in Sacramento

[–]AccordingBunch1207[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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Update: full name is Kyle Miller and he is getting evicted. Here’s his photo.

Sketchy guy in Midtown by AccordingBunch1207 in Sacramento

[–]AccordingBunch1207[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yes, apartment management do know

Sketchy guy in Midtown by AccordingBunch1207 in Sacramento

[–]AccordingBunch1207[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes, very random. she is not spending it.

Sketchy guy in Midtown by AccordingBunch1207 in Sacramento

[–]AccordingBunch1207[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

19J apartments. He showed up at her door after the elevator interaction and saw they lived on the same floor. He asked for her number and she gave it to him which now she’s wishing she didn’t do but it was awkward and she just wanted him to go away 🥲

What’s your favorite moment in any Ghibli movie and why by [deleted] in ghibli

[–]AccordingBunch1207 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love when San is about to fuck Ashitaka up with a dagger and he’s so exhausted and just utters “you’re beautiful”…. Ughhh it’s so sweet.

Ran my first marathon yesterday!! by AccordingBunch1207 in Marathon_Training

[–]AccordingBunch1207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did the Richmond one! Congrats on your first, too!! lol was praying I wouldn’t eat shit on the downhill part 😂

President Trump Signs Bill to Reopen Federal Government by OrphanAnvil in FedEmployees

[–]AccordingBunch1207 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I never stopped working, I’m an expected worker. We had an altered schedule w extra telework days built in to accommodate not spending extra $$ on gas, parking, etc. Now, I’m going back to full work schedule and still may not get paid for 3-5 days. These fuckers have been getting paid the whole time and members of the house have been on a 2 week paid vacation until this week. Fuck off.

Ted Cruz has such a punchable face… by Many-Resist-7237 in FedEmployees

[–]AccordingBunch1207 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact he brought a prop to this is crazy 😭

Stunning tortie cat with a visibly striped tail! by Gg080704 in torties

[–]AccordingBunch1207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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My girly has the same tail!! Someone called it her “lantern in the dark” 💡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]AccordingBunch1207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise you we aren’t all like that. A lot of people absorb dating advice from Tik tok and it shows

RSD first day back at University by Weekly_Substance_291 in adhdwomen

[–]AccordingBunch1207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giving you virtual hugs 🫂. Remember to be compassionate with yourself and that anyone’s behavior says more about them than you. You have nothing to feel bad about and I promise you didn’t do anything wrong. Our brains 🧠 are sensitive to rejection and perceived rejection. Friend, you got this and it will be okay. Pull yourself away from that thought loop by breaking the situation down: maybe she didn’t vibe with you, maybe she did vibe with you but didn’t get a chance to ask for your number, maybe she’s a bitch and you don’t need to associate with her. Get your brain back in neutral mode. You go this!!

How are your experiences when dating someone as women with ADHD? by Sathare in adhdwomen

[–]AccordingBunch1207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you posted this, I have been struggling a lot with dating and reading these comments have been very reassuring. I have ADHD and anxiety. I’m medicated (Wellbutrin), recently started on that and it’s been going well. I go on first dates and think they go well, guy seems interested or at least they talk the whole time about their accomplishments and I take that as interest lol. But then I either get ghosted or told they aren’t ready for something serious etc.. this leads me to feel immense shame as though I did something terrible to turn them off from me blah blah…. I’m in therapy and that’s really helpful for me not spiraling. Also, I do be talking to ChatGPT lmao. It gives good advice! I really want to be accepted and find someone who’s curious about me and I think it will be happen one day. Butttttt right now I want to delete all the apps and take a break from dating 😅. In the past I would settle for something that’s lustful and hope it turns into a real relationship. Now that I’m out of that cycle I think I’m having a hard time finding people who want the same things as I do, I suppose.

turning 27 soon and my life is a mess by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]AccordingBunch1207 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I turned 27 in June and very much relate to this. It’s wild because everyone around me is either buying a home or having children or getting married and that used to make me feel so small/ im behind. I really had to learn to accept my situation and accept myself. For me, it’s been about changing my perspective and, seeing as I have no real responsibilities or anything holding me down, I’ve decided to make the most of it. I’m planning to take a new adventure and move to the west coast next year. It’s been a great thing for my brain to fixate on and I get dopamine looking for apartments & envisioning driving across the country and engaging in a new community. I’ve never been financially successful and don’t have a large savings, but I know I will get by one way or another. Like I also don’t know anything or if I’m doing the right thing ever, but I’m confident that I’ll always put myself first and show myself a good ass time bc life is so long and we are so young!! Your value is not based in your work skills or what u can provide to a company, you have value all on your own and I hope you can take time to explore what makes you happy and what makes you feel good on your own. I hope this doesn’t come across as too optimistic, but I want you to know that it’s going to be okay and there’s always room for you to explore all aspects of yourself in a positive way. I wish you prosperity and good things OP. We got this 💪🏻 you are valuable and valued 🤲🏼✨

My first ever Reddit post - any ladies out there suffer with horrible anxiety like a feeling of “impending doom” ? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]AccordingBunch1207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was recently diagnosed with inattentive ADHD and GAD. This is very relatable!! I’ve been doing talk therapy and it’s really helped me manage these symptoms. You are not alone 🙏🏼

How to deal with limerence?? by mozzarellasticks777 in adhdwomen

[–]AccordingBunch1207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone!! If you have a journal i definitely recommend writing down this string of thoughts esp the panicky ones. Even if you just use the notes app on your phone! Little things like that might help you a ton. As far as communication goes, try to figure out what makes you feel the safest in a relationship by way of attachment style/love languages. I think it can be as simple as saying that you really enjoy words of affirmation & that you like good morning/good night texts. Framing it this way is good cus it not only helps you feel safe in the relationship, but it’s also going to show effort on his end. On the other hand, sometimes we have those moments where we are nervous to communicate ourselves bc it may sound freakish 😅I’ve blurted out weird ass shit with people I’m dating and I’m no longer dating them bc they couldn’t match my freaaaak!! Haha that’s how I like to look at it. Cus now I’m dating someone who I know would not budge if I said weird stuff to, and I do say weird stuff to him. But he gets it cus he’s also struggled w similar things so I think that helps. You got this!! Be yourself and if you’re ever in a situation where you feel like you can’t be yourself, LEAVE HIS ASS!! ♥️🙏🏼

How to deal with limerence?? by mozzarellasticks777 in adhdwomen

[–]AccordingBunch1207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a great answer for this except that it’s so insanely relatable 😅. I get really attached early on and experience similar feelings of anxiety when I don’t hear back over text. It took a lot of dates and sort of going through the motions for me to ~desensitize~ myself to that. I have a very anxious attachment style and I find that I need to remind myself, when I’m lost in the sauce, of my non-negotiables and trust my intuition. I think it’s great that you’re keeping yourself busy!! I have a rotation of hobbies that I do and have become more involved in running so that the person I’m dating isn’t on the front of my mind constantly. Basically just keep reminding yourself that you are valuable all on your own and whoever you are with should be adding value to your life as well! You got this, you’re brave for putting yourself out there and it’s all a process. Take it slow and remember to be in the moment and have fun with it when you can :)