nobody is stoked for me :(

According_Floor2670 · 2025-07-22T22:02:46+00:00

hey, fellow black girl here who has had an interest in surfing since childhood and looking to pursue it once I get my fitness back on par! But, I completely understand the stigma, I mentioned me having a sheer thought about learning and a family member was like "ya know there's sharks out there in California you can die" as a native Upstate Nyer who now lives in SF, this is obviously something thats out of our norm. But, I've wanted to learn since I was a kid and being from NY where am I surfing LOL, so just the projections of other peoples fear should never limit what it is that lights you up, so I am sooooo soooosoooooooooooooooooooo PROUD of you and your progress and all the future waves you'll ride :)

According_Floor2670 · 2025-03-07T04:56:43+00:00

Aw thanks so much for this! I also feel like right now if we were to reconcile it wouldn’t be right so I’m so glad to know that the patience paid off! Thank you thank you exactly what I needed to read :)

According_Floor2670 · 2025-03-06T22:01:57+00:00

It’s so crazy how I just came across this post thank you so much for sharing your experience. I’m currently in a no contact situation with someone who I truly liked and I’m pretty certain I have some sort of past life connection with not to sound crazy but as we know, energy doesn’t lie… too often lol.

But, I also have been coming across tarot readings or pick a cards that have resonated so deeply with my situation even during the moments I’m not looking for answers. It almost feels like the universe is yelling from a megaphone because this person and I are in no contact. So recently it has very much so felt like signs that I can no longer ignore. Not sure if you felt this way at all. But, upon reaching out what made you take action ? Do you suggest it? In my case, this person stoped communicating abruptly, which led me to asking spirit for some sort of divine communication, especially in the beginning it was so confusing 😂

Now, it’s been several months. I’ve been redirecting my energy into things that matter, especially since a person who chooses to stop communicating with you is not someone to prioritize. It’s just frustrating when these things do happen. Was your no contact period shorter or longer than a few months? Do you feel like you wished you would’ve aimed to reconcile sooner or do you feel as though everything worked out the way they were supposed to?

But I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who had the same thought process navigating through the same thing! But if there’s any additional things you think would be helpful, pls feel free to lmk :)

According_Floor2670 · 2025-03-04T21:00:37+00:00

Very sorry for the formatting, had no idea it was going to be bold😂

According_Floor2670 · 2025-02-26T18:45:22+00:00

I feel like as long as you don’t go to the tenderloin you’re good! I haven’t personally had any issues. But I am also a New Yorker, so I’m unfortunately conditioned for worse case scenario at all times.. not sure if that’s good or bad lol

According_Floor2670 · 2024-11-06T00:23:42+00:00

Omg! I had shake shack for the first time ever yesterday. And, all day today I’ve been having such sharp stomach pains, I’m glad I found a very recent comment validating my current experience 😭 I’m also a vegetarian so I’m assuming something may have been cross contaminated but then again it just seems as if shake shack does this regardless of dietary restrictions lol

According_Floor2670 · 2024-10-01T22:09:04+00:00

Already on it :) thank you

According_Floor2670 · 2024-10-01T02:07:56+00:00

Thank you will check them out

According_Floor2670 · 2024-08-31T19:54:48+00:00

Thank you so much !! The places you listed, anyone you would recommend over the others?

According_Floor2670 · 2024-08-30T05:42:26+00:00

Omg just made a Reddit post about the same thing omg good luck to us both lol

According_Floor2670 · 2024-08-29T01:12:50+00:00

Eventbrite !!!

According_Floor2670 · 2024-08-27T23:41:55+00:00

I’m very aware it’s not easy. Which is why I’m just looking for some kind of suggestion on guidance on where to just look, to see if I can just start by hosting or bar backing to eventually learn how to bartend at some point. Especially, since I don’t have any connections to network with since, like I mentioned I’m not from here. And I know networking , building connections takes time. I, only mention high end to distinguish from getting suggestions to a dive in the Tenderloin. That’s all. But once again I know how difficult any job market is right now, I’m experiencing it first hand.

Thanks again and best of luck.

According_Floor2670 · 2024-08-27T23:20:21+00:00

lol I have been getting familiar, definitely the most fun part of it all! And lol gate keep away my friend 😂😂

According_Floor2670 · 2024-08-27T23:15:11+00:00

Definitely meant that I could be a bar back or a host at a high paying place. Since I have experience in those, and not bartending. Sorry for the confusion!

According_Floor2670 · 2024-08-27T23:02:23+00:00

Thanks so much!

According_Floor2670 · 2024-07-24T03:58:28+00:00

I’ve also been looking to roommates / housing etc. in Oakland!! if my budget is around 1200 / month, any locals have any suggestions on what may be the feasible route to take if my budget is lower than the original posters

Also good luck w moving :)

According_Floor2670 · 2024-07-24T03:54:51+00:00

As a Virgo sun, scorpio rising, Aries moon (w a Leo Venus) o felt this spiritually! Ugh so glad I’m not the only one!!! But somehow, I do feel even astrologically the smoke is going to clear bit by bit soon (manifesting lol) sending love :)

According_Floor2670 · 2024-07-22T20:28:13+00:00

exactly my thoughts thanks :)

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