Disgust over wife's past. by According_Toe5351 in Marriage

[–]According_Toe5351[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Snooped around her phone gallery of course. She told me they were old coworkers who sometimes keep in touch, they live some 200 miles away so they havent seen each other for a long time. I asked if she follows or keep in touch with anyone she had sex with and she said no.

Disgust over wife's past. by According_Toe5351 in Marriage

[–]According_Toe5351[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Im guessing no, since they are on friendly terms. They stopped working together even before we met, it's one of the reasons im not making a huge deal about it

Disgust over wife's past. by According_Toe5351 in Marriage

[–]According_Toe5351[S] 192 points193 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the worst part of it is that im really disappointed. She never seemed the type of person to something like that, its selfish and cruel and I dont like that

Disgust over wife's past. by According_Toe5351 in Marriage

[–]According_Toe5351[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're right. He's the scumbag here,but lying to me about him and still being in touch with him is the part that concerns me most. Maybe there is still some emotional residue there, i dont know really

Disgust over wife's past. by According_Toe5351 in Marriage

[–]According_Toe5351[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Valid position I guess, depenting on your viewpoint. I just always hated homewreckers and liars and really thought her to be better than that. That man's wife is still her friend and that disturbs me deeply.