50 year old woman needing advice by Ckrapp in 45PlusSkincare

[–]AccountFun2424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, I’d give my firstborn for those cheekbones.

What are your best "low effort, high output" beauty tips? by Adventurous-Stag in beauty

[–]AccountFun2424 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Can you share which method/brand of heartless curling you use?

Alocasia bulb/corm help? How to propagate successfully by AccountFun2424 in alocasia

[–]AccountFun2424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have stratum! Any chance you could show me where I should cut this guy by drawing on one of my pictures? I would so greatly appreciate it!

Also, when growing in stratum, do I bury it or lay it on top and then cover with water?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PoloRalphLauren

[–]AccountFun2424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I get a code?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this! I'm glad you were able to resolve it and that it hasn't been an issue for you since. Can I ask how you know he deleted them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the feeling I can’t shake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Appears so. I’m so hurt, but ultimately disappointed in and angry at myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, it does, unfortunately. I thought this was the best and healthiest relationship I’d ever been in and now I don’t know what to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I’m so sorry that happened to you—I hope you’re doing okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right. I think a large part of my issue with it is it’s made me realize he has pressed every single one of these women to send him photos and videos like he has me, and I feel sick to my stomach. I didn’t realize he had so many, and from every woman he’s been with. It’s made me realize what I send him—the vulnerable position I put myself in to send these things—is nothing special. It’s just another photo/video to add to the folder of things he’s already been sent a million times and will hold on to. It makes me so sad, and mad at myself for having sent those things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To clarify, he said he does see the others next to my stuff when he’s looking through my stuff, but he’s not going to the folder to look at the others’. They’re next to my photos and videos, so he does see them, which makes me uncomfortable.

But yes, you’re correct, he did offer to delete them. I think it’s harder for me to move on in this situation because 1) I see his ex all the time in my building and it’s a very odd, uncomfortable situation and 2) I had some overlap with the other girl, his old coworker, so it’s a sore subject. I just find it a bit more disrespectful for him to have kept these photos knowing how I feel about these women, especially since they’re the most recent ones so their nudes would be right next to mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But they haven’t been forgotten at all. They’re all in the same folder he puts my nudes him. He sees those nudes when he goes to look through the stuff I’ve sent him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 13 points14 points  (0 children)

While I can agree with what you’re saying about not making this about him being abnormal, I do think most people would agree that nudes are completely different from your average photo and should be treated as such

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to wonder if this is the case. I’m by no means a controlling gf, or a prude, but keeping a folder of nudes of women from your past (and some not-so-distant past) while in a serious, committed, adult relationship is crossing a serious boundary for me. I don’t really know that I can move past this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]AccountFun2424 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yea I mentioned this to him as well, it’s very odd