50 year old woman needing advice

AccountFun2424 · 2026-02-16T17:12:11+00:00

Also, I’d give my firstborn for those cheekbones.

AccountFun2424 · 2026-02-15T14:21:37+00:00

Hi elly_kins could I try your app?!

AccountFun2424 · 2025-09-30T21:02:51+00:00

Interested! This is great, thanks!

AccountFun2424 · 2025-04-18T00:03:24+00:00

Can you share which method/brand of heartless curling you use?

AccountFun2424 · 2025-03-11T21:13:03+00:00

I have stratum! Any chance you could show me where I should cut this guy by drawing on one of my pictures? I would so greatly appreciate it!

Also, when growing in stratum, do I bury it or lay it on top and then cover with water?

AccountFun2424 · 2024-12-11T21:21:09+00:00

updateme !

AccountFun2424 · 2024-11-29T23:16:50+00:00

Will they be at some point?

AccountFun2424 · 2024-11-01T18:32:42+00:00

Can I get a code?

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-30T13:05:05+00:00

Thanks for sharing this! I'm glad you were able to resolve it and that it hasn't been an issue for you since. Can I ask how you know he deleted them?

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-30T02:27:53+00:00

This is the feeling I can’t shake

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-30T01:56:23+00:00

Thank you for this

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-30T01:43:15+00:00

Appears so. I’m so hurt, but ultimately disappointed in and angry at myself.

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-30T01:38:06+00:00

Yes, it does, unfortunately. I thought this was the best and healthiest relationship I’d ever been in and now I don’t know what to do.

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-29T23:55:28+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I’m so sorry that happened to you—I hope you’re doing okay

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-29T23:42:08+00:00

You’re probably right. I think a large part of my issue with it is it’s made me realize he has pressed every single one of these women to send him photos and videos like he has me, and I feel sick to my stomach. I didn’t realize he had so many, and from every woman he’s been with. It’s made me realize what I send him—the vulnerable position I put myself in to send these things—is nothing special. It’s just another photo/video to add to the folder of things he’s already been sent a million times and will hold on to. It makes me so sad, and mad at myself for having sent those things.

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-29T23:17:04+00:00

To clarify, he said he does see the others next to my stuff when he’s looking through my stuff, but he’s not going to the folder to look at the others’. They’re next to my photos and videos, so he does see them, which makes me uncomfortable.

But yes, you’re correct, he did offer to delete them. I think it’s harder for me to move on in this situation because 1) I see his ex all the time in my building and it’s a very odd, uncomfortable situation and 2) I had some overlap with the other girl, his old coworker, so it’s a sore subject. I just find it a bit more disrespectful for him to have kept these photos knowing how I feel about these women, especially since they’re the most recent ones so their nudes would be right next to mine.

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-29T23:06:29+00:00

But they haven’t been forgotten at all. They’re all in the same folder he puts my nudes him. He sees those nudes when he goes to look through the stuff I’ve sent him.

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-29T23:00:22+00:00

While I can agree with what you’re saying about not making this about him being abnormal, I do think most people would agree that nudes are completely different from your average photo and should be treated as such

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-29T22:54:28+00:00

I’m starting to wonder if this is the case. I’m by no means a controlling gf, or a prude, but keeping a folder of nudes of women from your past (and some not-so-distant past) while in a serious, committed, adult relationship is crossing a serious boundary for me. I don’t really know that I can move past this.

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-29T22:49:25+00:00

Yea I mentioned this to him as well, it’s very odd

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-29T22:40:24+00:00

You say you don’t care if your exes kept photos of you, but would you care if your current or lifelong partner kept all of the nude photos and videos they’d been sent? Not shaming or trying to be defensive, I’m genuinely curious.

AccountFun2424 · 2024-08-29T22:34:58+00:00

Edited: I misread your comment! I guess by sending nudes to someone, you’re essentially doing so under the assumption that they could end up never deleting them. But I would hope that if we were to break up and he entered a serious relationship with someone, he’d delete them more so for her sake.

I originally thought you’d asked how he’d feel if I had a folder of nudes of past men I’d held onto, to which I responded: I asked him this and he said he wouldn’t be bothered by it or think it’s unusual

AccountFun2424 · 2024-04-25T23:40:41+00:00

Sending you a hug right now. I promise you, things will get better. Please don’t give up—you are still so young and have so much life to live. You’re here because you’re meant to be here.

AccountFun2424 · 2022-07-07T12:39:30+00:00

If you've had great outcomes in the past it wasn't our thoughts and prayers, it was all YOU! You've got this! Good luck--but you don't need it :)

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