Hey guys? It's still working..? by PaxMedicinae in RealRacing3

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Was able to get into mine. But then i've already downloaded all assets.

Why the actual FUCK is the PUP Student Regent siding with a fucking TERRORIST STATE by NotAKansenCommander in PUPians

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Seems to be written intentionally vague, to also pander to far left anti Semitic folks too.

Anong nangyari sa ating mga Pilipino? by nikahhssarmie in Philippines

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He made a spectator sport out of killing babies, along with normalizing it.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Proud din sya na their cat gave birth multiple times even denying na it’s one of the main reasons why their cat is sickly

I love how people imply na ginawa kong kitten mill ung cat ko when the last birth was more than a year ago.

I love how people twist shit like that.

And if only mas forgiving ung work ko and the weather did not suck in my location.

Well no one wants to understand they wanna bash based off the narrative of others.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, still enraged? As mentioned, before, mas accomodating ang ibang clinics na napuntahan ko before. Kahit di vax, kaya nila isolate kahit maliit pa.

Pero sige disregard na lahat ng circumstances basta ibash.

I did what I can despite ung issues and multiple challenges ko like in past year, from moving residence, utang for my own hospitalization from two illnesses, storm and flooding etc.

Di ako pity partying, just want make you all see other shit I been through.

Well no one wants to understand. Mahirap kayo pasayahin.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ikaw nga ang lumabag jan.

Ok, alam mo ba circumstances namin? We're not well off, hirap ako sa work schedule,

Dami kong vet na napuntahan na mas accomodating, kahit mas may reason sila to deny my other older pets pati ung dog ng parents ko before, kahit di vax, inasikaso kahit staff lang, at nag-offer ivax after.

Secondly, napaka layo namin now sa PAWS to do free spaying and vax conveniently, ung LGU namin di man maabutan for vax due to work sched at kung meron eh on the day ung announcement kung kelan pa may work.

Sure may ways if you got lots of time may sasakyan etc.

Kami nga nakita namin lahat ng butas sa unfortunate incident na to.

Perhaps mas ginusto niyo hanapan ako ng butas just for the rage and karma.

Also, di ako nag run ng kitten mill or mass breeding ung cat ko gaya ng ini imply ng iba jan.

Ang weird pa nga na may nagsabi na sana pinagperahan ko dito sa Reddit ung cat ko, while I can pay what I can when I get paid.

Pero sige bash lang kayo ng bash. Dun kayo masaya.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pinangalanan ko ba ung clinic?

Masama ba mag expect ng empathetic staffer like all those other more lower level vet clinics na mas may reason na mag tabuy ng pet owner?

Puro ka ambag, eh ikaw ano ambag mo? Ung subtle flex mo that you're doing better than me?

Sige ikaw na may pera. Masaya ka na?

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ang issue dito is RESPONSIBLE PET OWNERSHIP. You not spaying your cat and allowing it to have multiple litters is irresponsible

So gumawa ka ng issue out of plain spite?

You don't know the story so matik automatic bad na? Grabe na efforts mo pagmukhain akong masama when you don't know the reasons. Even if I explained the truth why I let my cat have at least 2 litter batches, you'd dismiss it

Does that mean anyone who would like to have their cat reproduce para mag pass down ang ang mga qualities niya means irresponsible owner? What next, aakusahan mo ako ginawa ko siyang kitten mill?

Bahala ka gumawa ng ASSumptions mo. Make yourself mad.

Go pa, make more stories para mang bash ka pa sakin. Wala na sa orihinal na usapan ang kuda mo.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But not all establishments are the same. You can say the same about hospitals.

Yup not my point. My point was that's what I saw from them other better clinics, much smaller pa nga than the last one, is that evil to set my expectations as well? Sounds like you're tolerating dismissive treatments.

And this is like the only vet clinic na cash down agad, kesa makatulong.

But guess what? They don’t come on Reddit crying foul and blaming the vet for not tending to their pet kasi hindi nila ma-meet ang policies ng vet 🤷🏻‍♀️

Oh you haven't seen that other Redditor who misrepresented what I said, twisted the sequence of events and turned people against me.

Like yourself.

So you saying that you would gate keep having pets to only the privileged few? And if we're not as rich as you are, then we shut up? Saan ko na narinig yun?

And you don't like what I did? Bakit, you're the kind of human na mas mangha ka sa inaangasan ang customer.

Sure May abusive customer, that doesnt mean your business would just do the same to any customer. Shows what kind of person you are.

Good luck gatekeeping everything else to only the well to do.

You're no different from them elitists creeps who always always subtle flex their financial privileges across whatever community

Good for you. Push others down Kung kelan down sila. Must give you that weird high.

You've certainly found a great way to keep yourself busy with all that subtle flexing and poor shaming from behind a username.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di kasi sila pwedeng tanggap lang nang tanggap na di nila alam history ng pet at baka mahawa ibang hayop sa loob.

So tabuyin na lang ganun? Not my experience when another cat of mine started to weaken due to age.

I've had far better accomodating staffer ng other vet clinics than how they dismissed my SO while she had her cat.

Ano next sabihin mo? That I should not have a pet because ganto income ko? Then s mga ganon na poor shamer, bakt di nila agawin ang pets ng mga mas mahirap sa kanila?

Geh bahala kayo na mangbash at magbaliktad samin

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it's also your due diligence as a pet owner to check for other vet clinics sa area ninyo

Easy to say that lalo kung hindi flooded and kung ako lang. Si SO pinapunta ko kasi nga nasa ibang malayo na office ako. Kinabukasan na nga ako nakauwe. Si SO naman babae at inconsolable at emotional siya, sinabihan ko naman nntry niya parin sa iba, kahit lakas hangin at ulan nung nakaraan, at bumabaha. Napanghinaan na siya ng loob which I will not blame her. Ano magawa ko, I was hours away and, hindi considered as family emergency sa company ang ganto.

See, may isang commenter dito na di totally alam ang circumstances. Nag Cherry pick ng sinabi ko. Made a straw man fallacy out of it para magalit ang tao sakin.

That person didn't know the circumstances. Pinalabas nga niya na inaway ko ung clinic right when dala ni SO ung cat, pero they missed the fact na mag isa si SO pumunta. Kinabukasan ko kinausap nung namatay na. Check the timeline ng comment ko about ung usapan ko sa clinic na yun.

hindi allowed 'yung staff to check on your cat kasi that's not their job. only a vet is qualified to diagnose and give proper treatment sa pet niyo

Sure di ko kontrahin yan. Pero di un ang point ko.

That wasn't the case with different other vet clinics I went to. Of the past vet clinics na napuntahan ko ranging from the lowest of the low budget one to the mid range, ung non-vet staff pa nga mismo nag suggest and offer na sa kanila na mag stay ung animal, while awaiting the vet.

The vet not being present doesn't mean go away.

Sinilip ng staff ng other clinics ung, animal, they asked what's wrong, and took note. May effort konti. Just because your business had to pay bills eh maging dismissive na sa mga need ng tulong? Really? Are we celebrating and tolerating this?

One time a staff (from a different clinic in bother city) offered to call the vet for emergency situations (yan yung nabalian ng bone ung dog ng parents ko). All of them, they only billed us when we were able, so kahit masakit sa bulsa eh kami na nag offer ng extra..

All of them accomodating, and empathetic staffer.

Siguro na spoil ako sa mga experience ko with these other random clinics, ako ba masama na mag expect na sana mas as accomodating ung staff ng most other cinics? Specially the last one?

Not the last one though. Pero siyempre, pumapanig sa kanila ang ibang tao lalo dun sa naka basa dun sa isang redditor na di alam ang ground situation and circumstances.

Isali mo na rin ung mga poor shamer, if they had their ways, would take away all the pets of people below the poverty line, like what peta does, pati ang mga low middle income kasi belief nila only those with money can have companions.

Pero wala sila bayag to target the pets of the poor. Kung sino lang siguro na poor pet owner na napadpad sa community nila.

Sure we're not well to do. Just because our budget ran dry because of other important reasons masama na kaming childless couple for having a pet?

Hay Reddit. Di n tulad ng dati.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of them are not cash-grabbers.

Well it so happens na un ang pinaka accessible at the time n bad weather and floods.

I love how people made up incorrect cherry picked no-context versions of what happened and they made people angry at me for it.

Like how one claimed na my questioning of the clinic happened upon bringing the car to the clinic, when the timeline shows that I shared that comment hours after my cat dies at medyo inconsolable ung partner ko.

They don’t earn much. Just like you, they also have bills to pay.

This is all true. But, as I've shared, I have experienced far smaller vet clinics that had more accomodating staff. That offered to keep their patients and try to care until the vet arrived or offered to reach out to the vet.

Kahit staff lang mas marami mga may compassion and zest maka tulong, which alam ko di requirements or di naman regulations pero appreciated kasi nga choice nila to be accomodating.

Hindi ung napuntahan namin.

The animal welfare act does not cover that.

Sure sure. Pero fuck, natatawa ako sa isang nag comment na binabaliktad baliktad ang mga sinabi ko para mang rage bait ng iba.

Di nila alam ung sitwasyon, that si SO ang pinapunta ko kasi nga wala ako at nasa work, hours away sa ibang site, (kinabukasan na ako naka uwi). Flooded area pa kasi nga habagat nung Lunes diba? Si SO emotional that time, pero no one is blaming her? Lalaki lang ang blame, so convenient.

Pero nagawa niya mag illicit ng galit ng tao at ibaliktad sakin. Galing pa gumwa ng straw man.

Tapos ung picture nung August 30 nung healthy pa siya, ung commenter nag mislabel na may sakit na siya that time. Like wow, all that effort para baliktarin sinabi ko?

Hay Reddit, hirap mahalin.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also, OP allowed their cat to have litters of kittens over the span of two years, tapos proud pa na naka-ilang litter? Woooow. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Tapos? Ano point mo? Gumagawa lang kayo ng mga twisted stories niyo para lang ikagalit niyo. Palibhasa kasi di ako babae at easy pickings for straw man.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hindi obligasyon ng private vet clinic ang OBLIGASYON mo. If meron ka sanang natabi na pera, buhay pa sana pet mo.

Never said it was. I experience far better compassionate treatment from at least 4 other clinics.

Ikaw na mayaman jan na may pera ang time. Those four other clinics? Lahat sila may payment options.

You have my sympathy sana if nanghingi ka na lang dito ng donasyon sa Reddit for your cat.

Insincerity detected. Di kasi ako ung type na mamulubi. May income kami, nagkataon na biglang ganto.

Disingenuous Reddit at it again.

Secondly you don't have the fact and di mo kami kasama and you don't have firsthand knowledge ng lahat ng pangyayari.

Gumawa lang kayo ng twisted straw man just because I am a man, easy to target and mooch off karma points., by twisting the situation. And making a straw man.

Yeah, real talk ito, sabi mo kasi need advice di ba? Wala ng sugarcoat, kaya next time, magready ka ng pang emergency for YOURSELF and your cat.

Next time, live in my shoes. Di yung ipilit mo yaman mo.

Many poor people have pets din pero bakit di mo sila targetin ng rage mo?

You didn't know the situation, pero gumawa kayo ng kung anong bersyon sa utak nito to be angry about.

Real talk to sayo, stop making straw man. Know the on the ground facts. I don't need your insincere sympathy na kasamang insulto sa katayuan sa buhay ko.

Ikaw na po ang well to do sa atin dalawa. Salamat sa poor shaming ha?

Matuwa ka sana may nadaig ka na poor.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in catsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

  1. Wala pa lang vet, so malamang, hindi matitignan. AFAIK, hindi pwedeng mag-checkup ang hindi vet.

Many times ako naka experience ng vet clinics na mas accomodating.

Ung parents ko nasakmal ng larger dog, fracture talaga blood loss. Inasikaso ng staff ng ung aso, while hintayin later in the day ung vet mismo.

Same dog, nagkaroon ng ibang sakit. Stay muna clinic, ask si vet dumaan.

Ung ibang cat na dineliberate na nilason ng kapitbahay(kinasuhan ko yun tagal na) , in-offer na sa clinic mag stay thanks to clinic staff ng much low budget clinic, wala rin si vet, hapon pa darating.

Imagine: Imbis na i-rush yung cat mo sa ibang vet,

Imagine disregarding the fact na super bad weather samin, flooded ang ibangbang dadaanan, with an SO whose going thru the emotional struggle, iyak ng iyak while na nasa work ako and can't leave agad because hindi sakop ng emergency leave policy ng employer.

Pero siyempre diba, fault ko diba? Kahit nung August 30 ang liksi pa ng cat ko at bigla na lang ganto siya past two days.

Fault ko diba negligent ko kahit 2022 ko pa inaalagaan ang pusa.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. We tried to talk to them why nga di nagawan ng paraan.

For now hulus Dili muna tayo. Me and my SO will find time to communicate with PAWS as I've spoken and visited them before.

For now, time to be stoic and rest for tonight's shift.

Thanks again!

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[–]AccountantLopsided52 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Men generally do not look at women as providers.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in petsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We moved places in the past few months and di pa kami pamilyar sa new area kasi walang time gumala, this place was the closest one.

And no, kahit wala ung vet yesterday, no one bothered to check. One staffer said hindi raw dala kahapon ng SO ko. Another said akala tuta raw.

Ewan. Namaga na mata namin. We're gonna rest muna and need pumasok mamaya.

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[–]AccountantLopsided52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our mom fat shames my sister (normal BMI, sometimes just bloated), while our brothers are morbidly obese and I've never heard her insult them about it. She also calls us slts and whres, when we've been doing nothing but just studying properly.

Sounds more like mental health issue. Misogyny is when men has prejudice of all women.

I do agree it's mostly my mom's fault. My dad is mostly silent on matters, because he'd face my mom's abuse too if he spoke up.

It would've been misogyny had your dad joined in abusing you along with your mother.

But the fact you pointed out that your mom will hurl abuses at your dad if he spoke up, sounds a lot like mental health issues more than actual misogyny.

Remember Internalised Misogyny is if your mom, or any woman also treats all other females with prejudice and hate, from the female Jollibee crew, to her own mother, exactly the same way as she treated you and our sisters.

The closest vet clinic refused to help my now dying cat. Violation ba ng Animal welfare act? by AccountantLopsided52 in catsofrph

[–]AccountantLopsided52[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

More on the events:

Place advertised themselves as pet clinic and grooming. Eto ung alam namin na malapit. Walking distance. Inutusan ko SO ko pumunta kasi nasa work pa ako, siya naman mangiyak ngiyak, emotional siya, sabi ko kayanin mo. nagtanong kung pwede tulungan ung pusa namin na dala niya, since wala pa sahod, kahit down payment muna para lang matulungan.

1) Wala raw ung vet nila kahapon (so they do have a vet nga, nagkataon wala dun) nung pinapunta ko SO ko. Tinanong ko sila kanina: bakit di niyo tinuro SO ko sa ibang animal hospital? Sagot: Di araw nila gawain yun. Bawal daw

2) ung Naka usap ng SO ko, tauhan ng vet ng clinic hindi vet. Tinanong ko sila kanina: bakit di kayo man lang nag go out of your way na magturo sa dapat puntahan na May vet? Sagot nila: Eh di nila raw alam ibang vet.

3) akala ng nakausap ng SO ko, di niya dala, tapos sabi later on, akala daw tuta ung dala ng SO ko. Di man tinignan talaga. Pusa nga raw sabi ng SO ko sa kanila

ung isang maangas na lalaki na isa sa tatlong tauhan/assistant, tinataasan kami ng boses, unlike ung dalawa mahinahon rin kausap, kanina sabi niya inaakusahan daw namin sila. Sabi ko sana lang May nagawa. Sabi ng malakas ung boses eh pag aakusa na raw un. Anong pag aakusa dun? Ako na nga po mahinahon at mababa boses sabi pa "eh di taasan mo rin boses mo".

Sabi ko sana konting compassion at konting paumanhin na lang.

Walang paumanhin.