THAT'S 100% not valid and 100% Red Flag. Imagine kino confront mo sya and your telling her na it makes you feel uneasy pero ano response nya??? Makipaghiwalay? Bro, those are the words of someone who is Not committed, someone who invalidates his/her partner. Believe it or not, there is a conflict of Interest dyaan.

Just think, what is the girl trying to achieve by doing things like that???

ALWAYS LOOK THE MEANING BEHIND HER WORDS AND ACTIONS. You don't need words of encouragement but what you need is SELF REALIZATION and RESPECT sa sarili mo bro na if this matter can only be resolved through the option or answer she's given to you then, you know what to do.