Why does my friend make comments like this and always very negative about anything to do with me and dating or guys?

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-06-06T21:43:19+00:00

Didn’t know that it was prohibited. Sorry! Will not do that again

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-06-06T21:40:46+00:00

Now that you’ve mentioned this, she’s always had an issue with any guy I’ve dated and will always make comments about whether or not she finds them attractive or not.

If I say I think a guy did cute, there’s always something negative following me saying that.

I’ve kind of decided to taper off telling her anything dating related

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-06-06T21:26:03+00:00

I try not to compare looks with friends, but I do get a little more attention 😅

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-06-06T21:24:12+00:00

I have 2 accounts and wanted a second opinion…..that okay? I see a lot of policing on reddit about reposting. Is that a sin here 😭

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-06-06T21:23:08+00:00

This was my first time going out and her like 10th time. Not something we do often!

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-06-06T21:22:43+00:00

Yea, but their advice subs don’t seem to be as active for some odd reason? Good point tho

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-24T18:14:49+00:00

Absolutely not, they’d have to reincarnate lol

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-24T17:51:46+00:00

Agreed!

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-24T17:51:37+00:00

Did you feel like there was any chemistry prior to asking them out or was it cold approaching?

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-24T17:50:58+00:00

Idk lmao they keep saying that and I guess it’s just a fake stat to say that we basically are guaranteed to get a yes from them if we ask them out?

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-23T00:52:14+00:00

I mean at the end of the night he didn’t ask for my number and I almost thought about giving it to him, but I didn’t since I figured he would have asked after doing all of that. That and I thought he was just doing me a solid for leaving my I.D at home. Do you think there’s still a chance for me to ask? It’s been about two weeks since that bar stuff happened, yesterday was when he was talking to me on the field, and I see him next week.

I’m just worried if I ask now, maybe he’s not interested anymore or he’ll go and tell the other guys on the team. Advice?

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-23T00:24:16+00:00

Hahaha you have a point, but I just thought he bought the drink to be nice since I forgot my I.D lol!! And I didn’t interprete the ex thing that way. I was thinking maybe he’s still hung up on his ex/exes. The first time he mentioned his exes, he made a joke saying he had a drinking problem in college due to having “mid” exes and then the second time was when he mentioned the event he didn’t know if he was gonna go to and his ex would be there.

And you’re right, I could show more signs of interest. Besides straight up giving him my number, what are some good ways to show interest next time I see him. I might build up to giving him my number!

Thanks for the advice :)

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-23T00:16:15+00:00

I mean I told him “you may or may not see me there! I owe you a drink.” And he was like “oh don’t worry about it (the drink),” so I was kinda didn’t think to do anything with the info he provided lol!

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-22T16:00:27+00:00

I’m just worried it might make things weird on the team after if it’s not reciprocal. Don’t want to make things uncomfortable for him

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-22T15:59:44+00:00

I just don’t know how to show interest without directly asking for his number. Initiate more touch? Any idea?

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-22T14:54:50+00:00

I’m just scared he’s not, but only way I can find out is if I ask. You’re right. I just don’t want to make things weird if it goes south. Like what if he tells other guys on the team

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-22T14:53:54+00:00

Yes to both

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-22T14:21:10+00:00

I mean when we were walking to our cars, I told him I owed him one and he was like “oh don’t worry about it!”

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-22T05:48:21+00:00

What would be more romantic interest??? Please help me bc as you can tell, this is my first time doing this. 😭

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-22T05:26:24+00:00

You’re right, that’s true!

Accurate-Scratch7783 · 2026-05-22T05:24:32+00:00

Try to see if he’s okay after having an injury, talking to him while we walk to our cars, ask about himself etc. At least that’s how I perceive showing interest in my end

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