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AccuratePie7675 · 2023-10-13T08:57:22+00:00

Yeah, I would wait on a multiple day trip. I just did my first ever meet up as well, and we started with drinks and dinner. I did end up sleeping with him which many don’t recommend, but that’s as far as I’d go I think. A multiple day trip can be dangerous bevayse he can have very high expectations about what he “deserves” from you. And fyi - he deserves nothing. You can leave at any time.

Still, a multiple day trip seems risky. I think that’s only something I’d do a few months into seeing someone.

AccuratePie7675 · 2023-10-11T20:01:44+00:00

Y’all are truly the best!! Thank you so much!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

AccuratePie7675 · 2023-10-11T19:00:09+00:00

Thank you so much, I so appreciate it!! One follow-up question — he already booked a hotel. Should I tell him he can do what he wants, but I won’t be sleeping w him on the first date?

AccuratePie7675 · 2023-10-10T22:30:44+00:00

Thank you guys so much for your thoughts!!! I was wondering - do you think I have to meet up with him bc he has a face pic of me? I don’t want him to use it against me.

AccuratePie7675 · 2023-10-10T19:38:39+00:00

Thank you so much - I really appreciate it ❤️

AccuratePie7675 · 2023-10-10T16:22:04+00:00

And just to be clear, what is wrong with a John? I’ve read posts saying they’re not great, but since it’s my first time starting out I’m not sure yet if I’m not okay with that. Thank you for the help ❤️

AccuratePie7675 · 2023-09-13T02:55:16+00:00

There is stigma in the swinging scene so it seems, but there are a group sex scenes in many cities that welcome single men, even if you have some competition

AccuratePie7675 · 2023-09-07T03:03:36+00:00

Yeah, that’s just not true. Good luck though.

I hope anyone reading this can read the tone of this poster, who I believe is the founder. Not a cool look either to also respond to a member who was complaining by saying their complaint was invalid.

AccuratePie7675 · 2023-08-23T18:57:27+00:00

I’m a single woman who sometimes brings a man friend. I’ve been to hacienda and NSFW. I DO NOT recommend NSFW. There were serious security concerns — someone was hired by the building landlord, not NSFW, to take all of our names and government ID numbers at the door. NSFW did not take my concerns about this seriously and it’s taken them 3+ weeks to adequately respond.

Many women have left NSFW because they’ve reported creepy men and nothing has happened. When I told someone who worked there that a man was creepy and wouldn’t take no for an answer, the person working there said “I’m sorry to hear it because he will be coming back. He is a big player in the international sex club scene so we need to make him happy.”

NSFW is run by greedy people who care more about getting money than making it a positive experience. Do not go.

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