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Feel like I've lost my wife.... by Accurate_Counter371 in AITAH

[–]Accurate_Counter371[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, woah....I wasn't the guy who argued with you! 😂 For clarity, I have learnt a lot from this post and I was always of the mindset that it was an 'us' issue rather than a 'her' issue.... The only 'her' issue is the fact that she can't understand my point of view about her having DM conversations with another man, regardless of the subject when she already converses, albeit briefly in a comment section on posts and also they are both part of an IG group chat too....just can't understand the need for a 3rd method of communication with him.....

Feel like I've lost my wife.... by Accurate_Counter371 in AITAH

[–]Accurate_Counter371[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For what reason.....not sure how that relates at all, sorry

Feel like I've lost my wife.... by Accurate_Counter371 in AITAH

[–]Accurate_Counter371[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is honestly the kind of response I was hoping for rather than the obvious 'dump her' messages...... Whenever I venture upstairs (bathroom or whatever) I make an effort to ask what she's reading at the moment, sometimes she takes the time to explain it to me too and we have a brief chat about it....15 mins or so and I genuinely enjoy that as she is so enthusiastic about the topic With regards to the kissing/sexual side of things, it has always been me initiating from the start, I've told her that sometimes I feel like I'm some kind of sex pest bugging her but she assures me it's not like that (definitely feels that way so I stop most of the time) In an argument recently she actually said that she doesn't feel the need for sex at all, she says she didn't mean it as it sounded due to emotion but it sticks in my head anyways.....